Like the puppy that poops and pees in the floor and chews up EVERYTHING in site. I am home alone with it during the day while he is at work and I have no choice but to spend my day cleaning his messes. Also he spends money before we even get it. It is so hard for me to say no because he worked hard for the money (which I do too). He wonders why I don't get out and enjoy life but how can I if I am scared to spend any money because of the bills piling up. He always says he wishes I would buy something for myself but how can I? We are also expecting a baby in a month and I am worried about it. We talk about this stuff but he just doesn't understand why I get so stressed out. He grew up in a poor home too so he should understand right? I just want to live comfortably, I don't have to have a lot of material things. I thought he was the same way when we got married but I guess I was wrong. I need a break but I can't get one. How can we compromise when I just want him to be happy.
2007-03-21 03:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by Myself1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You poor thing! You really sound desparate! I answered your question elswhere. But I just want to add one thing and that is please do not accept to be put in that position any longer, particularly if a child is on the way. You might be far more happier if you were alone with the child. Of course, you would like to have him around.But if does not act responsibly, then what is the point of having him around and make you misrable and aun happy?
I really wish you the best, for you deserve nothing less!/
2007-03-21 06:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need that kind of stress on you or your baby! Do you have relatives that you can stay over to and just stay there for awhile (not a separation) but like you said a "BREAK" and you really need one. If you can afford it, why dont you tell your husband to hire a cleaning service to come in twice a week and help out with the cleaning while you sit back and relax. That should be fair enough for you right! That's if he really "loves you" and your baby!
2007-03-21 10:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋