How do know if your lez or bie? Please help!
2007-03-21 03:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Destiny R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's tough actually for some girls to figure out. Maybe you are attracted to girls and are curious. I am not sure how you would go about figuring it out unless you actually became involved with a girl or talk with others that are lesbian or bisexual. There must be chat groups that you could join to see how you feel and what they can tell you. If the thought of that makes you sick to your stomache well maybe you are not a lesbian or a bisexual:) Good luck to you!~!
2007-03-21 03:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can have an attraction for the same sex and not be lesbian or bi - but it would be up to you to pursue that lifestyle or not. Some people that claim to be that really change their lifestyle because that's how they were born. Right now, I feel that it's a pretty common "trend" because you have a lot of adolescents that think they're bi, etc because they admire something in the same sex. It's okay to be curious, but those are things that you just know or find out when you're older. It's a mature decision to make, just like with dating, etc.
2007-03-21 10:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a LEZ/BIE meter available at Spencers. You can aim it at your cooch and it gives you a LEZ/BIE readout.
2007-03-21 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ways you might know is if you get more turned on at the thought or sight of a female getting undressed more than a male doing so. Or if you find yourself looking at females in public (like checking them out and all), There are various ways of finding out but one thing you should know is this: don't feel ashamed of it. It's your business and your preference.
2007-03-21 10:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the jokes you're bound to get with this question. Give things time, and you'll discover who you are sexually. Be smart, not promiscuous. Talk to lesbians/gays and bi-sexuals; I'm neither; so, I can't give you insights into this, but maybe they can. Good luck.
2007-03-21 10:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by geehaw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you will just know, if you prefer women only of like the odd contact with a male.
2007-03-21 10:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph you want help not need and that's a common sense answer no offense
2007-03-21 10:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take hours of intense testing, but if you want to hook up I'll help you figure it out.
2007-03-21 10:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by cormelmat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to women as much as you are to men, then your bi or bi curious. If you're attracted to women only then you're a lesbian.
2007-03-21 10:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋