when i get a bf they all turn out to be playerz. i also get all the guyz butt ugly
2007-03-21 04:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by shaina w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry so much, if you don't have a Bf, who cares ?Sometimes it is better to be alone until the right person arrives. Maybe that is why you always get the players or the ugly ones. Be patient, enjoy yourself, then with luck and some time you will be much better and feel better about yourself and finally find someone worthy.
2007-03-21 04:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Naias ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I think you need to concentrate on yourself. Be the person you want to date. Do activities you love and you will naturally meet guys with similar interests as a result. Also, looks are fleeting and in the long run not helpful.
Look and analyze your past relationships and why you wanted to date those guys. Not all people are players (good looking) and some "nice" guys can be "players" because women do not think they are. Meet guys through friends (at least there is a filter) and be active!
But only date when you are ready not because you feel you HAVE to have a boyfriend.
2007-03-21 11:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by Smithie95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start within yourself. Sounds corny, but it's true. If you feel like you deserve a great guy, you'll find one. But if you doubt yourself, you'll continue to attract men that are not "up to par". Smile, just randomly. I guarantee you'll be noticed more by more people than you would otherwise. We each project an image, and you want yours to say "I'm a confident woman that deserves an awesome man. All others, move on by."
2007-03-21 11:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being single. NEEDING a bf isn't necessarily a healthy feeling.
When you are least expecting it, one will come around.
Don't set your standards TOO high, it narrows down the choices, and then you never really get to know the person who may end up being your future husband.
2007-03-21 11:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Linzie0901 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date a every guy that likes you or shows some kind of interest in you...if you hold out a little more and wait for a guy that you really care for i think youll be better off...you cant go out looking for a bf it jsut happens....give it time....and if your not attracted to them dont date them...thats wouldnt really be the right guy for you!
2007-03-21 11:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do i start with you ... 1st off any woman who feels she needs a man is going to live a very sorry life looking for this man ... let him come to you and start loving yourself enough to be by yourself,,, where has your self esteem gone? and what's the point of dating someone you think is ugly? pretty sad girl ! you sound young though hopefully you grow out of this ! good luck Hun :o)
2007-03-21 11:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by live in the magic of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
butt ugly huh?
sounds like a personal problem...try not being so judgemental and maybe someone halfway decent might take an interest in you.
2007-03-21 11:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chris P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph first of all that is a want not a need
2007-03-21 11:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, you tend to get what you deserve.
2007-03-21 11:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋