Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

My friend has been dating her boyfriend for almost 2 years. They are both in college and are an hour away from eachother. They both have busy schedules and often do not talk alot during the day because they are both busy and they often go a few weeks without seeing eachother. This is both their first real serious relationship and have never really experienced being single in the college setting. It is hard to keep a strong relationship because of all these reasons. They both still have strong feelings for eachother but, it is hard for them given the situation. Do you have any advice for what they should do with their relationship??

2007-03-21 16:36:45 · 6 answers · asked by girlygirl83 1 in Singles & Dating

my bofriend has some really annoying friends but 1 of them is soo hot and not that annoying, i love my boyfriend but every time i c his friend my heart starts to pound and i c him every day after school. what should i do to keep him out of my head and keep my boyfriend always in my head

2007-03-21 16:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going on a date tonight with an American guy and he said he wanted me to ride his bologna pony. Is there anything I should prepare for?

2007-03-21 16:36:24 · 16 answers · asked by i_love_nosfednks 1 in Singles & Dating

3 years ago my boyfriend proposed to me but i said we're both actually not ready for a marriage due to financial reason so we give it a hold. And a month ago he broke up with me... he said he can't feel me anymore... i was devastated, i'm still wearing the ring he gave me but now he's gone. Was it my fault for not accepting his hand for marriage??

2007-03-21 16:35:41 · 32 answers · asked by fede 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 16:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

One day, while my wife was cleaning under the bed, she found a small box. Curious, she opened it and found 3 eggs and 10,000 dollars. A little bit suspicious, she confronted me about it.
"Oh, that," I said. "Well every time I cheated on you, I put an egg in this box." she was a bit unhappy about this, but figured that 3 affairs over twenty years wasn't so bad.

"But what about the 10,000 dollars?"

"Everytime I got a dozen, I sold them."

2007-03-21 16:34:54 · 27 answers · asked by oldman 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 16:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Singles & Dating

when he got married to my aunt, he must've thought that it was an excuse to treat me like crap! My dad said that he talked to him and that he wouldnt bother me anymore. Now it is really awkward at their house and I still think of him like that. How can I deal with it???

2007-03-21 16:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever lied to your present or past partner about the number of sexual partners you have had? Have you lied about the kind of experience?

2007-03-21 16:33:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, you see I have friend that I knew since high school and now we are in college together and currently in the same class. Well, she usually vents her issues to me and i am more than happy to listen to her about her problems. Now I regret it because all now she does is whine a lot about her issues with her family and other friends.
It is has gotten to the point where she gives me too much information about her problems and it's getting out of hand. Also what is making me really angry with her that whenver I tell her about my issues all i hear from her is an "mhmmm" and now i am through with wanting to deal with her problems anymore because i am getting sick of her constant whining and the whole drama in college.

2007-03-21 16:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by the_spiteful_raven 2 in Friends

I've been seening this blue van for a past couple of days now. It looks old and ragy, mainly duigsuting.
At first, i saw the van near my house or by my neighbor's house, then at the dowtown mall when we were just leaving, the car was leaving too and was at the same place as us, then i saw the van at the beach and then face to face at my dad's car, he was parked right smacked in front of my dad's car and there was another person there too. I know they were two males.

Im kinda worried and i know this is the same car because i looked at the lincense plate every time i got the chance. its the same.
Yesterday, the car was parked by my dad's car and i was kinda stalking them back for a few minutes to see what they were doin and they were staring at my house and then after awhile, i called my dad and he went outside and told them to leave now. They didnt say anything and just drove away.
I dont know what they were doing, like drugs or just talking us ro whatever.

2007-03-21 16:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Nobody 1 in Family

I am not that confident about my looks and my boyfriend's ex girlfriend keeps saying that she is so close to stealing him back... I think I am prettyer than her because...if you get grossed out easly dont read please...she shaves her eyebrowls off and doesent shave anywere else and wears same close for a whole week...but I just think that he mgiht be cheating on me with her because he dident answer when I called him today and then Ashley called me on her cell and said she was at his house and I heard him in the background...but since Im not that good looking I dont know if I should keep him and take my chances with Ashley or dump him...what should I do?

2007-03-21 16:32:23 · 2 answers · asked by cutiebabe66048@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there has always been a little "tension"
we've had crushes on eachother in the past
i'm a little shy about this stuff... not sure what to do

2007-03-21 16:32:18 · 15 answers · asked by emmers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:31:47 · 10 answers · asked by Olisykesscreamsmyname 2 in Singles & Dating

We live at my MIL's house.. it's a temporary situation, but she and I had a great relationship during my pregnancy... then when the baby was born she changed towards me completely.. mainly what's bothering me right now is that in front of me she will only get close to him for a few seconds.. but every oportunity she gets she takes him to her room and away from me.. it just makes me feel like she doesn't like to be around him when I'm near.. and it bugs me like crazy.. Why can't she just be normal like everyone else and just stick around with everyone and play with him in front of me... I love seeing my FIL play with him.. it's not like I'd be mean about her doing the same! she's also made comments, she'll talk to him and say.. "they haven't let me see you today" or "they keep you from me" Am I wrong to be bothered by this??

2007-03-21 16:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by CSS 2 in Family

We were so careful, I dont know how it happened but it did. Now I am trying to figure out how to look the best in my dress. I dont know if I can hide it or not. I would rather tell people especially my parents after the wedding. Any ideas on how I can hide this until after the wedding?? Please help!

2007-03-21 16:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by YahooAnswersAddict 1 in Weddings

2007-03-21 16:29:27 · 7 answers · asked by letty 1 in Friends

I am 21, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we are planning to get married although we are not officially engaged yet.

I would like to move in with him, however my parents do not approve of cohabitation before marraige. They provide for me financially (although, not because I ask) by paying my health insurance, car insurance, car payments, and cell phone as long as I remain a full time student.

Does anyone have any advice on reasons I should be allowed to live with him? The fact that I love him and plan to marry him doesn't seem to be enough as they think that I am too young to get married as well (although they married at 19)

2007-03-21 16:29:16 · 14 answers · asked by buddys_angeleyes 3 in Weddings

My wife and I are trying to get back together or rather I'm trying to get back together w/ her. We are seeing each other every weekend and now a couple of nights during the week. I was over there tonight. Last week end I gave her a card that said "Friend, you are special, you are appreciated, you are a blessing". I really would like to be best friends w/ her again. I love her deeply but have had trouble relating to her and opening up about troubles in my life. I want to tell her but am afraid of rejection, unacceptance. I want to renew our intimacy (emotional first then physical later). We're separated b/c I was verbally abusive to her. We have gone to counselling which has really put our marriage back on track and has really opened my eyes to the pain I caused her. I was too proud to admit I caused her pain. I'm not proud anymore. I am so sorry about it. I love her deeply and want so much to renew our friendship. What do you do together to keep your friendship w/ your spouse alive?

2007-03-21 16:28:06 · 16 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you know that i know that you no that i know that u know

2007-03-21 16:28:06 · 14 answers · asked by Janae E 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well, im sure many of you say that girls are just as jealous, and that may be true. but guys just seem to be so incredibly territorial. ive been dating this guy on and off for more than a year. at first we were really lovey dovery and close but soon enough i realized that he didnt want to be exclusive (yes hes a bit of a player and i dont know why im still dealing with him). but we're really close friends now and still hook up. BUT we're obviously not exclusive. i have seen text messages that indicates hes been with someone else. as much as i try, he will never admit anything, just avoids avoids avoids. but i slipped and let him know that i hooked up with someone too and he flipped out like i never saw him flip out. he was angry, was screaming, said he couldnt believe i would do that. basically just had a fit. what the hell? how does that make any sense? i told him he has really bad double standards and he admits that he does but doesnt care. whats up with this?

2007-03-21 16:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by SweetDarlin' 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married 5 years. Today I opened our email to see he had sent fwds from work. When I opened them, they were power point slide shows of naked women. The first was 30 or so pics of a brunette, the second was 15 or so pics of a blonde... both were in various stages of being dressed and completely nude. The subject of the second was "Poolside Beauty CARFUL" which I later found out the "careful" meant don't let your wife see this. You see, the last shot of the blonde had a caption with it. It said "Hey babe, so when are you going to leave your wife for me?" When I confronted my husband he said he didn't know what it was when it was sent to him at work because he doesn't have power point. If he had known, he never would have looked or sent them home. He sent them here to see what they were. I know stuff like this gets sent to him all the time and he has no control over it, but he acted like it was no big deal even though I'm upset. Would you be mad?

2007-03-21 16:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have $360 lying in my wallet saved up for a year and all my parents do is borrow it! My parents never let me spend ANY of my money and I have 1000s of thing I wanna buy! What should I tell them?

2007-03-21 16:26:53 · 8 answers · asked by Cole 2 in Family

I mean like, is it normal for girls to spend more time on their looks, apose a guy spending time on looks. Like I was just looking at the Seventeen Magazine, and It made me realize, how all these girls have really clean faces.. But most guys don't, and stuff.. hard to explain, but Are guys suppoosed to spend alot and really care (not, not care at all) about looks and make them selfs look better.

2007-03-21 16:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, long story short, i liked this guy for a while, so did he, we go way back, so we talked for the school year so far, not likeall the time, but yea, and then, this month (march) things really started to happen between us, we hung out two times and then after that we started to go out! it happened too fast, we made outish/kissed the first time we hung out, and he made that move, then he really liked me, bugged to hang out constantly, and we were making out b4 we went out, and like he stopped everyhting we were doing, and looked at me and said " i think i love you" and i mean u dont say strong words and stop everyhting in that kind of moment, u kno? so then, we went out for a week, and everything wsa going good, until this past weekend, he started to gradually act weird and back off ish around me, so i asked him why and he said that he didnt know how he felt, because we moved too fast, i had felt the same way, but we just like eachother but not enough to go out,

2007-03-21 16:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

me and bf just broke up and he has completly forgot about me (or so i thnk) he asks my friends how i am doin? but idk o ya and also he talks to a girl but we completly dont get alongg at all? is he trying to get me jealous? he saays he is happy that we broke up but i sometime catch him glimpsing over at me?? should i try and talk to him or should i waait?

2007-03-21 16:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by ursupergirl1 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my bf and i are great together.
A few days i said "i love you" for the 1st time. he said "i love you too".
Do we start saying it regularly? He hasn't ever said it on his own.......and THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!
I feel like there is this ginormous ugly wall of confusion and frusteration seperating us since i said "ily".
I don't know how to get over this. I really did mean ily, and i still do.
I am just so frusterated....i feel like crying.....everything used to be so simple with us, until i screwed this up.
What should I do?!
thanks

2007-03-21 16:25:24 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:25:06 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

i can't get rid of depression i cry alot and i can't get over it i tried to make it better but it couldn't work out

2007-03-21 16:25:05 · 3 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships