Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

2007-03-21 16:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jude 2 in Singles & Dating

I guess I'll start with the backstory, because talking about this seems to be the only way to make the pain go away for a brief moment. Jayson and I have been best friends since third grade. We met each other in Ms. Danube's class, and immediately got along great. We almost always got into trouble together, getting put on time out for making each other laugh hysterically.

Fast forward to now, at age 19, and we still make each other laugh. Since neither of us have moved out yet, we'd spend the night at each other's house all the time, since we both have rough family lives and need a positive presence in our homes.

But last night, Jayson went out drinking with some buddies. Unfortunately, driving was also on that night's schedule. Long story short, he wrapped his car around a telephone pole. They say he was dead on arrival.

I'm doing my best to keep my faith, for I know that the Lord is watching over Jayson right now, but I'm just so damn lonely.

Any words of kindness, please.

2007-03-21 16:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is always a junior prom and a senior prom at my school. right now i have a HUGE crush on a senior, but i'm only a junior. i'm friends with him, but we're not soooo close. we've been getting closer for the past couple weeks tho. i want to ask him if he wants to go with me to my junior prom, but i dont know how to go about asking him.

i could be like "i have a question... but don't say no! will u go to prom with me?" or something like that, but i feel like he might say no - and then i'll be even more embarassed than i would have if i just said "will u go to my prom with me"

so.. how do i ask him?
and how do i deal with the rejection that might be?

2007-03-21 16:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by brookbabe90 5 in Singles & Dating

I was making out with my girlfriend in a movie theater. Right after I laid down on her around her crotch area. Everything was fine. We hooked up a couple more times, and the next time i laid down around that area, I smelled an odd odor. Any idea what the smell was?

2007-03-21 16:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by Aidan N 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi. i've known this guy for 2 months. but we only started dating one month ago. when we were still getting to know each other at the start, it was really exciting and he made me so nervous. i found out that he really liked me because he was telling everyone. Now i'm not sure if i'm only with him because it was the natural progression of thigns. I mean, like, i couldn't see any reason NOT to go out with him...but now i'm confused and worried i'm only with him for the sake of being with him. i like the "idea" of being with him, the concept of having a boyfriend. but not so much head over heals crushing over him. i don't know what to do. when we used to make out, all i wanted to do was have sex with him ( i couldn't because i didn't have my implanon in) but now i'm not sure if i want to. what does this all mean? should i break up with him?

2007-03-21 16:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by kellzTT 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have a friend and im pretty sure we are "talking" we have been on like five dates and have been hanging out every weekend...but i was talking to one of his friends today and his friend told me that he told him that we had sex..which is not true at all we havent even kissed...so i dont know where he got that from or why im not mad at him or anything i kind of think its funny is that wronge...but he hasent talke to me tonight so i texted him telling him i wasnet mad and i wanted to talk to him though...do you guys think i should do anything thing else or am i doing to much??? I really need some help on this one becasue i cant tell my friends about this becasue they might tell other people in our school and then it would really get out and people would think that well thanks for the help if you give any....

2007-03-21 16:23:04 · 5 answers · asked by tropical_sweety2587 3 in Singles & Dating

when my son was born. The hospital did not required that the father was present to sign the birth certificate so i use the father last name in the certificate. His father never help me with anything, when he was 1yr old i meet this guy and i have be with him for 10yrs now and he and i will like my son to have his last name, just like my other 2 children. please help me this is now creating problems between my sons.

2007-03-21 16:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-21 16:20:21 · 16 answers · asked by lekshel5 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help, I'm not good with this kind of stuff, so i dont really kno what to do.

2007-03-21 16:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by im_smrtical93 2 in Singles & Dating

Is saving yourself for (who might be) the one really worth it?

I didn't take that path so it actually seems a bit absurd. I'm curious about what the other side of the coin thinks.

Question was asked outta respect so show some.

2007-03-21 16:20:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:19:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bday's fast approaching. I just recently had this relationship and he had not asked me about my bday yet. Will it be better not to tell him or should I? If i tell him that, i feel like i'm asking for some attention. If not, he might think that i'm too secretive or something. Hey guys!! will you let me know how you feel if this is the case? Thanks....

2007-03-21 16:19:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we used to just be friends, but then we confessed about our feelings and we started to hang out, ive never ever felt this way before, we could talk on the phone for hours and about nothing. then a story got out about me doing somehting with another girl, it wasnt true but there was nothing to make her believe me, she forgave me and it was good again, and then all of a sudden she just stopped talking to me, i thought we were done, prom is approaching and i made the mistake of telling my one friend i wasnt going with anyone and then she said your going with me then, she told me she as just busy and she still liked me and then she found out about prom, she now says if i treat her like this she wants nothing to do with me, i havent even done anything really i have apologized countless times though, i told her i would tell the girl im going with her but she said that she wont do that, i cant mess up again i know it, but i need to make her know that, please help

2007-03-21 16:19:06 · 1 answers · asked by jackie. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m separated and I have a son under the age of 24 months
Did you hear of a law in the state of New York
that a father can’t have his son under 24 months sleep over for the night?
Thank you very much

2007-03-21 16:18:31 · 3 answers · asked by jeff w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 16:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by L 2 in Friends

in my family, i am the one that never gets attention because of my truble makeing sister, can you tell me some ways to get some attention in my family without getting into trouble?

2007-03-21 16:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by omgukilledkennyn 1 in Family

To cut the long story short, a couple of months back, I spoke to my bf about his female colleague of his who keeps calling and asking him out. Later on I found that she looked through his phone to get my number (invasion of privacy) becoz she wanted me to bring him out on his birthday which he already refused when she asked him in the office. (I mean.. do you need to go through so much trouble for a colleague??)I later found out that my bf actually went out with her and some other colleagues on a few occasions but told me otherwise. Anyhow.. later on she continued to call him to ask him out. Once she even called the home phone becoz she couldn’t reach his mobile. Just recently, we went for a movie and met another colleague, the next day she called my bf to chat and asked him why he did not call her along.. All this is making me pretty upset and I'm really bothered with it. But it seems I can't do anything about it which frustrates me..

2007-03-21 16:17:24 · 7 answers · asked by divine1611 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone, im 18 and two day ago i had sex for the first time with a guy, as he says he didnt do anything and im still a virgin, but im nor sure if hes telling the truth. the problem is that i did not bleed but i heard that it is not neccesery to bleed. sp i dont know if im still a virgin or not and i dont know can ibe pregnant?? thats what scares me because we did not protect....

2007-03-21 16:17:08 · 35 answers · asked by blueeyeskarine 1 in Singles & Dating

1.money or family
2.love or money
3.friends or love
4.happiness or health

2007-03-21 16:17:01 · 4 answers · asked by kiki k 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you see in guys that make you want to date them?

2007-03-21 16:16:44 · 14 answers · asked by avenger 2 in Singles & Dating

Fun Question, best answer wins!

2007-03-21 16:16:43 · 1 answers · asked by flbtigger 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do so many people make this topic out of a big deal. I am a black man and I love my sisters. Theres nuthin in the world better than a black women, long dark hair, pretty brown eyes. Just gorgeous!! I am tired of black men thinking that, they hurt black women when seen wit a white girl, so stupid
It had to be because those 2 like one another. Just like when a black man sees a black women, with a white man. They get jealous!! There are so many people like Halle berry, beautiful black women who have white men. Why does rthe media only show black men with a white women. And when the see vice versa the man turns his head.. Black women are beautiful and no one can change that.. I dont care how rich you are as a black man you love you some black women. Vice Versa for a black woman. But when people say NBA stars date only white women, barely do any of them. All of the big stars have a beaytiful black woman. I always said I would date a women close to being like my momma!! Bigger packages

2007-03-21 16:16:29 · 23 answers · asked by Jalen Moss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is what my best friend fiance said after they broke up because of her being insecure (she is seeing a counsellour)
*that he just wants to be friends, doesnt want to see her but still wants to remain friends but by talking on the phone. he let her keep the ring but said dont put it on just keep it in the box to look at and hope for the future that maybe we'll get back together. he also said i love you but am not 'in' love with you. thats he needs a clean slate and would be happy if she moved on. but laast night she asked him she would only be friends if there was hope for them and his answer is theres always hope. is he plying with her feelings and trying to make her feel better? she seems to think there is hope but he wants to find himself again, wants her to get help which she is doing, but my main concern can you fall back in love with someone after being hurt so many times in the past? how long could that take? why break off if you think you can work things out?

2007-03-21 16:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by jenperera 2 in Weddings

we used to just be friends, but then we confessed about our feelings and we started to hang out, ive never ever felt this way before, we could talk on the phone for hours and about nothing. then a story got out about me doing somehting with another girl, it wasnt true but there was nothing to make her believe me, she forgave me and it was good again, and then all of a sudden she just stopped talking to me, i thought we were done, prom is approaching and i made the mistake of telling my one friend i wasnt going with anyone and then she said your going with me then, she told me she as just busy and she still liked me and then she found out about prom, she now says if i treat her like this she wants nothing to do with me, i havent even done anything really i have apologized countless times though, i told her i would tell the girl im going with her but she said that she wont do that, i cant mess up again i know it, but i need to make her know that, please help

2007-03-21 16:15:50 · 2 answers · asked by jackie. 1 in Singles & Dating

You people tell me that I need counseling?

From my month here on Yahoo answers I have noticed that the majority of you married women are:

Liars
Cheaters
Selfish
Greedy
Deceitful
Hypocrites

But wait there's more:

Ungrateful
Stubborn
Boring
Clingy
Sneaky
Suspicious

And that's not all:

Inconsiderate
Secretive
Manipulative
Angry
Unfeeling
Jealous

I can go on for days:

Frumpy
Dumpy
Lumpy

And lastly just plain rotten.

All of this I have learned from you women here on Yahoo Answers. My methods might be crude, but I have extracted this information every time I bait you with my questions or somebody else posts some questions that draw out the TRUE nature of you women.

The TRUTH HURTS doesn’t it?

2007-03-21 16:15:47 · 23 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

today my ex, who i was going to say yes to be my friends with benefits, asked this girl out. who i happen to know. she isnt really my friend, but i know her and she knows me. and he still liked me from what i remember. he never told me that he was ready to move on. im so angry i started crying.. i guess i was jealous that he was moving on. but i was very mad. what can i do to make myself happier and try to move on? what could i do to make him understand how angry i am? i dont want to tell him im upset. but i want him to understand that i was. what can you infer, and tell me and give me some advice please on this situation

do i have a reason to be angry??? alot of my friends say i dont.

2007-03-21 16:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this dude, asked me out and he was just joking. i didn't like like him then. couple of days later, i did because he has something in common wit me. he asked me, "do u like like me, only me or somebody else.? tell the truth." i said, "like like." this is the part i'm confused. he asked me out as a joke back then, but then he likes me as a friend even though he asked me out. confusing huh? i don't get it? u asked this girl out as a joke, but then she likes u. he should of not say that as a joke, right?

2007-03-21 16:14:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a complicated situation..My grandparent and I have had a falling out due to my father and I not having a relationship..I had not spoken to my grandparents in almost a year until recently around Christmas time..I have not seen them in over a year and I am going to be by their house on friday for a job interview..I was thinking of calling them to see if I could stop by for a visit..I'm nervous to call as to what they might say since I have not spoken with them since Christmas.I was not the one who chose to not see them or speak to them and when i did talk to them they seemed happy to hear from me. The only thing is that I asked them if we could get together and they said they would get back to me and have not..So I'm wondering is it a good idea to call and ask or just not even bother?

2007-03-21 16:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Family