Well i have a friend and im pretty sure we are "talking" we have been on like five dates and have been hanging out every weekend...but i was talking to one of his friends today and his friend told me that he told him that we had sex..which is not true at all we havent even kissed...so i dont know where he got that from or why im not mad at him or anything i kind of think its funny is that wronge...but he hasent talke to me tonight so i texted him telling him i wasnet mad and i wanted to talk to him though...do you guys think i should do anything thing else or am i doing to much??? I really need some help on this one becasue i cant tell my friends about this becasue they might tell other people in our school and then it would really get out and people would think that well thanks for the help if you give any....
2007-03-21 16:23:04 · 5 answers · asked by tropical_sweety2587 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him why he said that. Obviously he likes you and alla that so he was probaly "braggin". All you can do is ask and talk to him
2007-03-21 16:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your guy about this. ask him the concerns. this is obviously between the two of you.
"do you guys think i should do anything thing else or am i doing to much???" - no. you should talk to him about this definitely. People might take things the wrong way. You have to protect yourself. He wasn't being a very good friend when he told his friends that lie about already having had sex with you. That was rude. That was not respecting you. Ask him why would he do such a thing. He was putting your reputation, your name on the line.
I mean, what if people started talking about your best girl friend, or your girl cousin or your sister(s) [if you do have], or your mum that a guy said they slept with them and the truth is they haven't, the haven't even kissed? That is beyond disrespectful, isn't it?
I hope you assert yourself.
I think you should assert yourself.
This guy is painting a very inaccurate picture of you and you deserve better.
2007-03-22 00:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1) He doesn't want to be found out to be a liar in front of his friends. 2) You're being naive. 3) You're trying to hard 4) If he is willing to lie about something like that then you are better off finding someone else.
2007-03-21 23:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant even trust your friends, then i think you need to find some better ones. anyways.. that's high school for you, especially high school boys. you should be mad at him for saying that about you when it's not true. stop talking to him.
2007-03-21 23:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ bp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him be. You've done all that you can do and he hasn't responded yet, so just give him some time to sink in. Let him come back to you! <3
2007-03-21 23:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋