2007-03-21 16:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you let go of your standards you have not found the love of your life you've found a better than nothing. NOT the same thing at all be willing to wait and meanwhile become worthy of the person that you would want as "the love of your life." Get a great education, a good job, learn to give by doing volunteer work ... if you do those things you will attract a better class of person and you will have become the person that deserves to have them in your life. Good luck may you find happiness with someone far above "better than nothing."
2007-03-21 16:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are just words with no real feelings to back them up, he cheated on you with a friend and you gave him another chance. If he 'loved' you that much, why didn't he say it and show it before? He is just saying these things to get you back and make you feel guilty for leaving him. He is a loser who can't keep any job and is a junkie also, he also didn't treat you very well either. He pushed you away after you forgave him for cheating, he wants you for his own selfish needs and not because he loves you, trust me. You are making the right choice by dumping him and putting your studies first. Also, you like another guy who most likely will treat you better and make you happy. So delete/block your ex from Facebook, change your number and forget about him. If you don't then he will continue to drag you down and it could affect your studies. Also you could miss out on a chance with the hot guy! Ignore the emotional blackmail from your ex and block him out of your life, he doesn't deserve you and you don't even love him anymore, I hope you do the right thing for you, good luck.
2016-03-17 00:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Vernieke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, don't let go of your standards.
Tip: Don't set impossible standards. Many people do.
2007-03-21 16:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't pick who you love, only who you choose to stay with. It's tough to have an ideal picture of your soulmate, but sometimes life gets in the way, as well as how you actually feel.
2007-03-21 16:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Teel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions and deeds: If a man says he loves you and cheats, he does not love you. If a man never says he loves you but treats you well, he loves you. It is all about actions. YOU want a man who can walk equally with you and you with him, one who asks for advice, one who doesn't bottle up anger, and that goes both ways. Also, if you are selfish and materialistic, cut that out. No one wants a gold digger. Make something of yourself to get your own cash.
Also remember: no one is perfect.
2007-03-21 16:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You believe everything happens in its time and focus on makin' you a better you for that special person when they come along.
2007-03-21 16:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look so hard.... stick with your standards... and somone will come eventually... my girlfriend stuck to her standards and found me... so i think it works
PS: her standards are like she doesnt like kissing in public... saving herself for marriage etc
2007-03-21 16:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so ambiguous. That might help.
2007-03-21 16:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Carly O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol
2007-03-21 16:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋