My bday's fast approaching. I just recently had this relationship and he had not asked me about my bday yet. Will it be better not to tell him or should I? If i tell him that, i feel like i'm asking for some attention. If not, he might think that i'm too secretive or something. Hey guys!! will you let me know how you feel if this is the case? Thanks....
2007-03-21 16:19:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him!
2007-03-21 16:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely tell him. You want to let him know so that you can share something special with him. At least give the guy an opportunity to take care of you or acknowledge the day. Don't worry about putting pressure on him; you are at least worth a happy birthday and a card. Anything more is an added bonus. Make it fun...not a headache to agonize over. If for some reason, he does absolutely nothing for you, then he is not worth your energy. But that will not be the case, I am sure. Have a nice birthday!!
2007-03-21 23:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by knownot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your birthday is a very important day. I would definitely celebrate that day. Yes tell him so he can celebrate with you. I do not see the problem you would want to know if it was his birthday. Birthdays are a great way to rejoice and party. It is not like your asking him for anything. You are just showing that you feel this is a day worth celebrating. And you would feel that his birthday or anybodies birthday is an important day. Tell Him and Party.....Oh wait you do not have to ,as a woman, disclose your age.(giggling)
2007-03-21 23:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend, just tell him. Just say , "soon I will be --!" Then he will ask you when it is, and you can go from there. It is a round about way to tell him to where he is kinda stuck to ask you when. Then he will know your birthday. It is not a big deal. Don't let your birthday go by without telling him.
2007-03-21 23:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to think you're seeking attention. A birthday is important for anybody, no matter how you look at it.
I'd be grateful if you told me. That way I could maybe think about getting you something dope that bounces.
2007-03-21 23:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HIM YOUR BIRTHDAY IS COMING ON. THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP IS TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE. IF YOU DON'T TELL HIM AND HE FINDS OUT HE WILL ONLY WONDER WHY YOU DID TELL HIM. PLUS HE MIGHT WANT TO SPEND YOUR BIRTHDAY WITH YOU AND YOU SHOULDN'T DENY HIM OF THAT. AND WHAT'S WRONG WITH WANTING A LITTLE ATTENTION ON SUCH AN IMPORTANT DAY? YOUR BIRTHDAY IS THE ONLY DAY YOU CAN ACT HOWEVER YOU WANT WITHOUT APOLOGY . GOOD LUCK
2007-03-21 23:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just tell him but also tell him that you're not expecting a b-day gift or much on this day since the relationship has just started or w/e.
2007-03-21 23:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell him. I think it would be strange not to. You don't know everything there is to know about each other yet, so it's ok for you to let him in on it. :)
2007-03-21 23:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him....at least allow him to make a choice if he is to get you something or not...I would feel insigificant if you didn't share your birth date with me..
2007-03-21 23:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. On your BD, plan something special and if you want tell him about it. but not that it's your b.d. If he asks, say it's on that day. He sound goofy.
2007-03-21 23:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋