Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

we have hung uot alot and told eachother alot but every time i try to do something to further our relatoinship she only wants to be best friends.

2007-03-21 16:47:40 · 5 answers · asked by dantehallshomie09 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy for 2 years. and he dumped me. now he has this adorable girlfriend. they make a cute couple.. and its killing me. i still cry every night because of it. he said such cute things to me and now its on her. shes so cute. but i cant get over him. i still love him. what do i do?

2007-03-21 16:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by hollisterCali 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guys for 2 years and he knows it, but it seems like its never gonna go anywhere(there is a large age gap-17 years). But I really like being with and I really enjoy his company. We get along wonderfully. So should I leave this whole crush thing behind and just be friends or wait and see what could become of all of this. Because sometimes he seems interested. Hes the older by the way.

2007-03-21 16:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Friends

2007-03-21 16:47:13 · 12 answers · asked by torn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 16:47:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 16:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by aiverson23@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so there's this girl I met recently and I'm crushin on her big time, what would be a "cute" or original, thoughtful way of asking her to prom? Some ideas would be greatly appreciated.

2007-03-21 16:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by CD R 2 in Singles & Dating

okay,
so there is this guy that has been teasing me for the past 3 months or more and i really cant tell if he like me or if he just likes to mess with me and just likes me as a friend. help me If you need any more advice tell me

2007-03-21 16:45:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a complicated situation..My grandparent and I have had a falling out due to my father and I not having a relationship..I had not spoken to my grandparents in almost a year until recently around Christmas time..I have not seen them in over a year and I am going to be by their house on friday for a job interview..I was thinking of calling them to see if I could stop by for a visit..I'm nervous to call as to what they might say since I have not spoken with them since Christmas.I was not the one who chose to not see them or speak to them and when i did talk to them they seemed happy to hear from me. The only thing is that I asked them if we could get together and they said they would get back to me and have not..So I'm wondering is it a good idea to call and ask or just not even bother?

2007-03-21 16:44:54 · 3 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone even use MSN Messenger anymore??

2007-03-21 16:44:19 · 15 answers · asked by Spike 1 in Friends

why is it that i no longer get turned on and i never want to have sex.I'm only 24 and i've been married for 3 years..I just don't get aroused or turned on and i find it very hard to get an orgasm.sometimes it feels like it hurts when i'm about to have one and it goes away on its own..what's wrong with me.what can i do to be sexually aroused.I have gained weight from having a baby and no i don't feel sexy at all but my husband likes me and he says he loves me anyway.is it the whole weight thing that's keeping me from feeling good about my sex life.also my husband watches porn evrychance he gets that im not home, and i feel like he'd rather watch them than do it with me,i told him and he said he only does it cuz he's bored(yeah right i don't believe that)and he says he would never pick porn over me.yet when i teel him not to do it he does it behind my back..what should i do?

2007-03-21 16:43:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am into my brothers friend..and i really like him..but i don't want to ruin their friendship..should i tell my brother that i like him and see what he says about it???

2007-03-21 16:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been working out my arms and lifting more, and my arms are getting really buff and im acheiving muscle like i wanted, but do you personally find that attractive when a girl is kinda buff? now im not necessarily like the rock or anything but, I am into kickboxing and weightlifting. Do you find that gross or hot?

2007-03-21 16:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by ♣Kellina♣ 5 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy inspirational, self help, biographies, and books on leadership cause I'm in business but when it comes to reading for pleasure romantic novels are my only choice. I enjoy murder mysteries as well but when it comes down to it, a good book almost always ends up being a love story. I haven't dated any women since I've been so busy the last couple of years (my business) and I was wondering if this is a bad or good thing reading romantic novels in public.

2007-03-21 16:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by J0506 2 in Singles & Dating

hah that caught some attention....
anyways.....
i really like this guy, but i don't think he likes me at all. so you could loosely say we're "friends". i just met him this year, so we haven't really gotten close. i'm not quite sure, but i think he likes one of my friends or i've heard. i really want to get closer to him as a friend, but i get kinda nervous around him. not nervous as in stumbling and sweaty. nervous as in i act NORMAL, but i want to show him how funny i can be, my real personality. but whenever he's around i can't seem to say anything else besides school related stuff, like homework and teachers. what should i do?
please, i don't need any criticizism or any kind of insults. just seeking some suggestions =)

2007-03-21 16:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have any of you guys became actual friends,on this web site and met and became friends ? Best answer 10 pts !!!

2007-03-21 16:40:50 · 2 answers · asked by rain 1 in Singles & Dating

Please, I need some help DESPERATELY. DCF is investigating me beacuse my mother made false accusations against me about abusing illegal methadone and smoking pot...We had a big blow out fight, because she let my brother who is 2& a half yrs. older than me move back in with her after his 11 yr. crack habit. He refuses to get clean and he burnt to complete ashes all of the bridges he had. He dosen't want any help and has had 66 convictions as far as the law. He molested me when I was a young girl for yrs, and currently he will do ANYTHING for his crack..He has numerous "Suger daddies" and they are all MEN.I could go on forever talking about his exploits. And I really am trying to make this as short as possible, If you want to know more and are willing to help me then I can tell you some crazy stories..But the bottom line is my mother let him move in after numerous times of saying"He belongs in jail."and"He is dead to me." She told him on the phone, when he tried to call for money to forget about her.. and for years she knows what a crazy person he is..hes 30 now and just got back out of jail 3 months ago and was smokin the first night. Then started burglurizing houses for $ for drugs. He dosent care. And I try to tell her that but she fell for it when he told her he was clean and had nowhere else to go. She let him come there(knowing er and I were close. I dont understand how she can do that to her grandson. Well, we got into a fight and my brother punched me in the face. So I called the police and my mother tried to protect HIM, and accused me of abusing illegal drugs, So they came to my home and seen it was ok and there were no problems there, but he called me back today and said he wants to wrap this up but he needs me to take a drug test..I went numb..I do smoke pot sometimes, Im not gonna lie, and I do take methadone , but its PRESCRIBED. I was in a bad accident. I have never used heroin in my life, but thats what people associate it with. but I had no choice ...I took the test. And I would just like to know if ANYONE has been through anything like this. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE..If you just want to respond to say hurtful things..PLEASE dont..I dont think I can handle that right now. OK..HERES THE WORST PART...Sunday morning around 5am I smoked a joint my cousin because it was her birthday. After we lit the joint she tells me it's her b-day joint and she laced it with coke. I had already taken a big ol' toke. So im definetly worried about that too, I cant believe my own mom did this to me. She was my best friend, I dont get it and I feel like Im loosing my mind.PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-21 16:40:45 · 3 answers · asked by Sexykel 1 in Family

Has anyone ever heard of a Monogrammed bridal shower before? The theme would be to have your friends and family personalize their gifts with the bride's "new initals." I have lived with my fiance for a yr and a half, and I didn't want the normal shower. We already own a lot of the housewarming gifts you would regularly receive... What do ya think?

2007-03-21 16:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Casey A 1 in Weddings

2007-03-21 16:40:36 · 4 answers · asked by dantehallshomie09 1 in Singles & Dating

i hope to meet a nice girl have great love and just be happy with her and treat as though if she was something I had to keep forever an make her feel like she is the only person that has been more loved then anyone else.

2007-03-21 16:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because she is religious, only dated for 3 months, and she never had a boyfriend before.

2007-03-21 16:40:18 · 22 answers · asked by avenger 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. When me and my ex broke up I moved outta state, Trying to be the "Good cat" I kept up on my child support payments and all that. though it left me broke as old rubber smoke. But over the phone when we talked my ex-wife loved tellin me what she does with other cats...S#!T like enjoyin goin down on a cat she was seeing, To who and how AND HOW MANY other cats she danced with (You know typical ex-wife bulls#!t) throwing everything she could in my face. BUT a few days back she called to throw some more S#!T afterwards she asked how MY LIFE was going, After I told her how I'm coming up on a money gig (far better job) her tuned completely changed DURING THE CONVERSATION.... next thing I know she's being real respectful and nice calling me as soon as I get home from work and even woke me up this morning callin me....IS IT TYPICAL FOR AN EX GIRLFRIEND/WIFE TO GO FROM HATIN TO LOVIN WHEN THEY FIND OUT YOU'VE GOT PAPER COMING IN ??????

2007-03-21 16:40:14 · 11 answers · asked by nightpanther_79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 16:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by fudawg4322 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 9 years - we have 2 boys - 7 and 5. When we met he was using marijuana and but I did not know until much later. We did not marry until he had gone 6 months without using. During the time we have been married he has had "problems with alcohol." He works 4pm - 2am and I leave for work at 5am - he gets up with the boys and I get them to bed. There is generally 1 time a month when I do not feel comfortable leaving him with the children because he stayed up to drink. This has been an ongoing trust issue. Recently he was sent home from work - he told me that he used pot a few weeks before, someone reported him. He had to give a UA and was out until it came back. It was clean & he went back the next day, but I was completely shocked that he had used. I don't feel I can trust him at all. He is very remorseful (as usual) and wants to do couples therapy. 95% of the time he is a wonderful father and the boys would be lost without him. I think he needs to get help for himself.

2007-03-21 16:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Maybe this isn't that big of a deal, but it kinda hurts me that this happened(in fact it seems a bit childish on their part.) The day before my 27th bday 2 weeks ago, my good friends left a message on my cell wishing me a happy bday and that they wanted me and my daughter and her dad to stop by sometime in the near future for a birthday dinner. I was away from my phone for literally 5 mins and called them back right away. No answer, Im also not one to leave msgs, but I am almost positive that i left one then. I have emailed them and called many times since seeing if we could meet up and do this. But they never return my msgs or anything. My boyfriend(who knows them better than I do says that I never returned any calls or anything like that so they're all butt hurt about this, so its off. I'm confused. I really liked having them as friends, but its like I'm getting f***ed over. Should I do anything about this, because calling does nothing.....

2007-03-21 16:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Friends

2007-03-21 16:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 16:37:24 · 5 answers · asked by ryan ma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is attractive to you about them?

2007-03-21 16:37:03 · 18 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it inappropriate for us to register for gifts? We have been married almost two years, have two babies... Is the whole wedding idea a waste of time and money?

2007-03-21 16:36:51 · 30 answers · asked by Danielle M 1 in Weddings