DCF problems...PLEASE HELP.?

Question

Please, I need some help DESPERATELY. DCF is investigating me beacuse my mother made false accusations against me about abusing illegal methadone and smoking pot...We had a big blow out fight, because she let my brother who is 2& a half yrs. older than me move back in with her after his 11 yr. crack habit. He refuses to get clean and he burnt to complete ashes all of the bridges he had. He dosen't want any help and has had 66 convictions as far as the law. He molested me when I was a young girl for yrs, and currently he will do ANYTHING for his crack..He has numerous "Suger daddies" and they are all MEN.I could go on forever talking about his exploits. And I really am trying to make this as short as possible, If you want to know more and are willing to help me then I can tell you some crazy stories..But the bottom line is my mother let him move in after numerous times of saying"He belongs in jail."and"He is dead to me." She told him on the phone, when he tried to call for money to forget about her.. and for years she knows what a crazy person he is..hes 30 now and just got back out of jail 3 months ago and was smokin the first night. Then started burglurizing houses for $ for drugs. He dosent care. And I try to tell her that but she fell for it when he told her he was clean and had nowhere else to go. She let him come there(knowing er and I were close. I dont understand how she can do that to her grandson. Well, we got into a fight and my brother punched me in the face. So I called the police and my mother tried to protect HIM, and accused me of abusing illegal drugs, So they came to my home and seen it was ok and there were no problems there, but he called me back today and said he wants to wrap this up but he needs me to take a drug test..I went numb..I do smoke pot sometimes, Im not gonna lie, and I do take methadone , but its PRESCRIBED. I was in a bad accident. I have never used heroin in my life, but thats what people associate it with. but I had no choice ...I took the test. And I would just like to know if ANYONE has been through anything like this. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE..If you just want to respond to say hurtful things..PLEASE dont..I dont think I can handle that right now. OK..HERES THE WORST PART...Sunday morning around 5am I smoked a joint my cousin because it was her birthday. After we lit the joint she tells me it's her b-day joint and she laced it with coke. I had already taken a big ol' toke. So im definetly worried about that too, I cant believe my own mom did this to me. She was my best friend, I dont get it and I feel like Im loosing my mind.PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

i hate to say it but you did it to yourself you shold not be smoking pot and if your meth is prescribed you could have shown that to the people who did the test but with the pot part that is 100% your own fault a mother should not be smoking up. As for your mother and brother there is not much you can do except call his PO and tell him he has been using.

Answer 2

OMG I'm sooooo sorry that this is happening to you!!! I think you should call those annonlmous caller id advice/counsler hotline's on the phone and ask for advice. They will probably help more than anybody on answers anyway!!! Good luck!!!!!!!!! I hope this all works out for you!!!!!!!!!!!!
~ <3 Morgan <3 ~

Answer 3

they arrive on your place and interview you. They be certain the newborn is risk-free and the enviroment is physically powerful. that there is adequate nutrition, clothing, house is sparkling, there are no hazards for the newborn laying out (like drugs on the floor) in case you answer there questions, in keeping with why they're investigating you interior the 1st place they many times leave you on my own except they locate something incorrect.