Because she is religious, only dated for 3 months, and she never had a boyfriend before.
2007-03-21 16:40:18 · 22 answers · asked by avenger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does she think about holding hands and hugging? If she's alright touching you in those ways eventually she'll be alright with kissing. If she pulls away when you try that you have an obvious indicator she's really not ready.
Sometimes girls are afraid they'll do it wrong or not be good at it. Try not to force things or she might get the idea you don't like her for who she is.
You could try putting a hand behind her head (when you're hugging or something) and if she relaxes you could try pulling her closer to you (so you'd want your faces close to begin with). If when you do this she tenses up or moves her head farther away from yours she's not ready.
Have you tried talking to her about it? When you're on the phone with her you could say something about how much you'd like to kiss her so then she knows if she didn't already.
Just relax about the situation, if you really like her and want to be her boyfriend for years to come then trust me, there will be a lot of kissing someday. So today, focus on other things and don't rush her especially if you want her to feel comfortable with you. You will get there, don't worry.
2007-03-21 17:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by kgconcerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....that's a good question. I'm a Christian also, and I feel really skeptical about kissing a guy, know matter how long we have dated. Has she told you her boundaries, whether or not she wants you to kiss her or not? If not, you should ask her that. But as for the right time, I don't know. I don't want to kiss a guy until I'm married to him. That's just my take on the subject.
2007-03-21 16:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by livingall_4_god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as there is an awkward silence in the conversation. She's probably waiting for you to kiss here but the perfect moment hasn't arrived. You don't want to catch her off guard but if it's a moment your faces are both close together and your looking in eachothers eyes... go for it! What have you got to lose!
2007-03-21 16:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what type of girl she is. Even if she's religious she might be a rebel in disguise. I think the best way to go about this in your situation is to ask her yourself. She will respect you more then you just taking it upon yourself to kiss her.
2007-03-21 16:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by J0506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suited hug: After a protracted or annoying experience or day or while i'm crying while he purely holds me in his palms. suited kiss: He seems me interior the eyes. places my hair in the back of my shoulder, and leans in for a kiss. Asking a female out: not so helpful approximately this one. Sorry wish I helped slightly
2016-10-19 07:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know its right when shes looking at u and u feel nervous, and dont ask because shes going to feel like if she says yes shes being too easy, u gotta kinda take charge and be the man, or next time u hug her give her a peck on the neck, peck on the cheek, peck on the lips and if she doesnt turn away go for the real kiss
2007-03-21 17:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have hung out for a few hours, you're both smiling at each other (usually after something entertaining has been said), and there is a silent pause but she keeps smiling at you. That's the "kiss me" look and time.
2007-03-21 16:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys like go on a walk or something and hold hands you should just like at the end kiss her cheek and see how she reacts and then go from there.
2007-03-21 16:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a moment you just know it's kind of hard to explain. But when you happen to gaze in each others eyes and your faces are close, that would be the right time to go for it.
2007-03-21 16:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will just know. A kiss isn't anything to be rushed or planned, the best first kisses are when they just happen.
2007-03-21 16:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋