I have liked this guys for 2 years and he knows it, but it seems like its never gonna go anywhere(there is a large age gap-17 years). But I really like being with and I really enjoy his company. We get along wonderfully. So should I leave this whole crush thing behind and just be friends or wait and see what could become of all of this. Because sometimes he seems interested. Hes the older by the way.
2007-03-21 16:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im 27.....
2007-03-21 16:51:36 · update #1
Two years is quite a long time. You've been friends and enjoy each other's company. So you try to evaluate the situation. . . It's either he likes you very much too but he's afraid it would alter the delicate balance of your wonderful friendship once he courts you. Or he doesn't have any romantic feeling for you at all. He might have factored in the age difference between you also.
So why don't you play a game with him. Try to ask him if he would fall for a pretty girl, who has learned to love him now, who's 15 years his junior. Or something like that. It's up to you.
2007-03-21 17:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 year difference? he lives a stagnant life? he seems interested sometimes? .......but you like spending time with him huh? is it more like killing time?
Seems like you have a personal choice here. and it's not one of those you can have your cake and eat it two if you just cut a small peice things either no this is the barb wire fence. either get a life or make him your life.
Unless you're not 21 yet, then you basically either don't know what your talking about or he belongs in jail.
2007-03-21 23:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Snap J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not abt the difference of age but the way you think.... compared to him u r much younger but if you can agree to his attitudes as an older person...if u liked him for the last 2 years... i think u should go ahead n first ask him whether he has a similar thing in his mind...good luck...
2007-03-22 00:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by pinkcloud2015 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the way this relationship is evolving. It sounds like nothing but trouble. Find yourself a man who really loves you.
2007-03-21 23:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it. just remain friends. he doesnt want anything more than that
2007-03-22 00:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? I would move on. It won't work.
2007-03-22 00:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by ACME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well idk, how old r u mabe u should add that in....
2007-03-21 23:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋