2007-03-21 16:31:47 · 10 answers · asked by Olisykesscreamsmyname 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a number of circumstances that can skew the reason for your boyfriends quick declaration of love. How long have you know this fella? If you've known him for a while, then it is possible that he has had feelings for you for a while and has been falling in love with you for a while, which would make his declaration of love understandable and sweet. If you've just recently met him, then this declaration could be questionable. I've had many men announce their love to me within only a couple weeks. Some were genuine and some were just very clingy and ended up suffocating me. In the end, it just matters how you will respond. I suggest not repeating those words unless you actually mean them.
2007-03-21 16:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Carly O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am friends with a lot of guys who tend to say this too soon. he may be sincere, and get attached to quickly/easilly. he may just want to get in your pants. don't let it affect how you feel about him. most importantly, don't make the mistake of letting him go on not knowing how you feel about him. if you aren't sure yet, that's perfectly normal too. hey, it's only been a week. if that is the case, make sure he knows you're unsure. you need to be on the same page.
2007-03-21 16:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask yourself this: Do I love him back? Don't think about your age, because love comes on its own time. If you feel that you don't have that deep of feelings for him at that time, tell him! Just say something like, "I'm really flattered, but I just don't have those deep of feelings for you right now. But I really like you." But if you really do love him, say it back! You've got nothing to lose. <3
2007-03-21 16:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your instinct a hundred percent. just try to work on the relationship a little first. it might just be infatuation, which happens oh-so-often with new relationships.
however, the same exact thing happened with my boyfriend and me and two and a half years down the road, we're still together. go figure.
2007-03-21 16:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 week don't get me wrong but you do know that he does not love u sometimes we use that word too manipulate the situation. i am not telling you to send him to hell but give it time you really don't know if things might really get serious but right know there nothing to do but continue and let things slide if he really loves you he has a bunch of time to prove to you he is worth to love.
2007-03-21 16:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that to my girlfriend ....... hehehehe...... never had sex ..... quarrelled two times (For what reason, I don't know :D ..... neither can she remember .... something about food :P) 1 year later ....... (a few days ago) ...... I proposed .......she accepted ...... getting married in June !!!! :D .....
Oh ... .by the way .... she was with her ex for 6 years, but then she rejected his proposal a few times .......
I guess when fate comes .... .fate comes ;)
2007-03-21 16:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hes moving way too fast and that you arent in love with him.. you just like him a lot or something
2007-03-21 16:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with my 1st bf...the moron.
At the time, i was obsessed with him.
I was very young, and confused so i said it back. i regret it 100%
2007-03-21 16:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2007-03-21 16:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe just saying that to have sex with you. Watch out for those desperates
2007-03-21 16:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋