Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 21,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs(his ex cheated on him & was badly hurt this)At first he was always wanting to see me,we live 30 min away and only i have a car.In the first couple weeks he took me to meet his parents and his friends.Lately hes been acting distant.Now we barely see each other and when we do,we are either at his parents house or out with his friends.I hate having to 'schedule' myself in.I feel neglected & like he doesnt care about me. i've brought his up with him b4 and he just tells me i shouldnt feel like that and to just "chill" and that hes "not going anywhere".When we are together he is very kind and tells me how much he enjoys hanging out with me,but then I dont see him for 4 or 5 days.i've noticed he drinks alot.Now he wants to know wats wrong!!I want to bring this up again b/c it's REALLY bothering me.I dont want to break up and I dont want to play games.Why do u think hes acting like this???Is he scared/confused???

2007-03-19 06:41:13 · 16 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

So his not staying and lately his been talking to my sister and asking about me..
just yesterday..we were together and he said everytime I hear this song I think of u..
and it tured out the song is my fav song ever!!
I couldn't believe him and said ''are u sure its the song''??
and he kept on saying yes!!

I told my sis ''ohh He knows my fav song..omg''
and she was laughing and said he asked on whats my fav song..and told my sis to promise so she wont tell me that he asked!!
What the hell is he up to??
...but lately his always saying..do u trust me?are u in love with me?coze I care and appreciate u..
is this some lame way that him saying this to me..he would actually think I would fall for him?

2007-03-19 06:39:03 · 16 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 06:39:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm trying to survey the "bedroom" habits of married couples, esp as opposed to during the dating period. so far i've tried asking four times on here, gotten no answers, and just had it deleted.. even though it was worded appropriately.

i went back and edited it even more so that the most risque word on there is oral.. or maybe foreplay... intercourse i believe is quite appropriate...

anyways.. is there another place i can ask these questions and find out answers? since someone here is bent on preventing me from finding out ????

2007-03-19 06:38:59 · 16 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that I actually like going to the grocery store to shop. I like food, looking at food, smelling food and just enjoy the whole experience. She says I like to go to see all of the butts walking around. While I admit, I had a mild lust problem in the past, I sincerely like going just to go. I even offered to go with her to help out. What else can I do? I'd really like to show I'm willing to help her out.

2007-03-19 06:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A man with a good job and lots of wealth which means you're set out for life, plenty of money and a nice house but you didn't love him very much, or a man who is just normal working class where you had to work too and you lived a normal life and you really did love this guy and wanted to spend your life with him.

2007-03-19 06:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by john c 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and we really do love eachother alot and we will be of age soon enough. is it woth running away in order to persue our love for each other? we both currently live in wisconsin and if he moved away to arizona then there would be prettuy much no chance of doin a long distance relationship for a year because that is just unrealistic.......pleaae help me

2007-03-19 06:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a coworker who I will talk to and we have gone out to lunch. I told her I was interested in making new friends b/c all of mine live out of state. I suggested we get together outside of work. Her response was only lukewarm and now I'm not sure what to think. I feel like I have made the first step and made suggestions. I don't want to do all the work to develop it b/c then I won't know if she is really interested in being friends or just being nice. How will I know if she wants a real friendship.

2007-03-19 06:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How long does it take to get to know someone that you're seeing? Possibly to know if they're someone you want to be in a relationship with. A couple of months, almost a year or does each individual differe? What are some of the longest friendships that you've had, that have turned into relationships?

2007-03-19 06:36:53 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

you see the thing is....im a wild cat in the bedroom.....men,tell me what you think

2007-03-19 06:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy 1 - 5'8 130 Lbs

(1) Loves to hang out with the opposite sex
(2) Likes to show-off
(3) Able to hold a conversation
(4) Doesn't drink doesn't smoke

Guy 2 - 5'11 150 Lbs

(1) Loves to talk to girls
(2) Klutz ( blur at times )
(3) Loves sports
(4) Drinks but doesn't smoke
(5) Strong listener towards girls

Guy 3 - 6'5 215 Lbs

(1) Honest person
(2) Very responsible
(3) A strong listener
(4) Doesn't drink doesn't smoke

2007-03-19 06:36:17 · 15 answers · asked by Sunny G 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you are both making the same money, you each paid your own bills and divided the mutual bills before you were married. Now you get married how do you divide them up now? Do you agree that you should have a shared bank account when everything was separate before?

2007-03-19 06:36:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

apparently i need to reword this or someone's gonna keep having it deleted! which is frustrating because it's serious.

1. how long have u been married?
2. do u have kids
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?
6. how often r u "in the mood"?
7. how often does intercourse happen?
8. how long does it usually last?
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each?
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage?
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse?
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level?
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason?
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood?
15. was it different when u were dating? how?
16. finally, r u the husband or wife

2007-03-19 06:36:04 · 17 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when meeting or just talking to other people of the opposite sex or always thinking of sex when alone.

2007-03-19 06:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She lets the kid stay up till 11:00 on school nights,and till whenever on the weekends. I have to be up at 5:30 for work so I like to be in bed by 10:30 at the latest.How do I tell her to put the child to bed at a decent time and not make her mad?

2007-03-19 06:35:20 · 12 answers · asked by Chris F. 1 in Family

2007-03-19 06:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy I am interested in getting to know. He knows I am interested. We can message each other on the computer and he seems pretty outgoing, but in person he never says anything. Just looks. He will make eye contact with me in a room full of people. ????? I used to just think he was shy but he has alot of friends that are girls so I just look at it as he is not interested.

2007-03-19 06:35:10 · 11 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I am an atheist and was wondering why the majority of christians would rather date a nominal christian than an atheist with high morals. Do not say because the bible says not to be unevenly yoked unless you follow EVERY rule/teaching in the bible.

2007-03-19 06:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl who is 18 and is from England. She is there now. We became pretty good friends. I will see her in the summer in Italy. What do I do to allow us to talk after the summer because I dont think I will see her for a long time after the summer. Can you tell me some things that I should know about England and its people, especiallly the 18 year old girls. I am not saying that English people are different it is just I that I want to know whats popular there, what you guys do for fun. Things like that.

2007-03-19 06:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a medical problem which has remdered me impotient.
This has wrecked our sex life. Yes there are other things we can do to assist our sex life along, but the passion we once had is minimal now.
I have encouraged her to consider taking a lover or trying a threesome with another guy so she can enjoy some hot passion and multi orgasms again. BUT she is reluctant and says she is too shy to try it.
We are still in love but I would love to see her have those earth shaking orgasms we used to enjoy even if another guy has to give them to her and I can not.
What do other wives do in this case?
Have any husbands encouraged their wives to take a lover?
Do the wives ejoy it once they start doing it?
Has it affected their marriage?

2007-03-19 06:34:51 · 27 answers · asked by Rick C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, my fiance and i are getting married in august this year. We are both catholic so we are having a traditional catholic ceremony. I was told that we are suppose to get a marriage license before hand. Do you know if the civil weddings in california just means you go sign a paper and submit it in the court or is there a way we can have a more formal civil wedding where the actual judge will read off the "I now pronounce you husband and wife" lines? I don't want to just go sign some paper and be done with it. If you know how this can be done, please let me know. THanks! I live in southern california, if that helps. Thanks again!

2007-03-19 06:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by MRS.S 2 in Weddings

im in class and my friend josh won't shut up

2007-03-19 06:34:19 · 30 answers · asked by another</3'dgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a guy out but don't get a chance to because he is always busy when I see him at his work and I dont want to make him feel uncomfortable or make a fool of myself?? Ive been told to ask him for coffee but I dont want to stumble over the wording so can you help me with how to say it to him.

2007-03-19 06:33:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a lady who's sure all that glitters is gold
And she's buying a stairway to heaven
And when she gets there she knows if the stores are closed
With a word she can get what she came for
And she's buying a stairway to heaven
There's a sign on the wall but she wants to be sure
And you know sometimes words have two meanings
In the tree by the brook there's a songbird who sings
Sometimes all of our thoughts are misgiven

2007-03-19 06:33:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my best friend is a boy but i want us to be more he is so special to me and we are so close i can talk to him about anything even girl problems but i want him to be my boyfriend i want him to cuddle me when i am sad and kiss me and make me feel wanted we are both 15 is this wierd???? and what should i do??

2007-03-19 06:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by xxheaven 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband is 45 yrs old. He's never been arrested in his life until June of 2006 and now he's been arrested twice for overdoing discipline on our 15 yr-old son. He is a devout Christian. He and my 18 yr-old daughter don't speak at all because of similar circumstances. My kids don't drink, do drugs, and are good kids. They smart off sometimes, they are lazy, and pretty messy. These things should be addressed, but his way is to scream, throw things, hurl insults and try to physically force them to do what he wants. They live with me full time and have no desire to see him at all. I hate for them to not have any kind of relationship with their father, but he has no remorse and "stands by his principles" no matter what. Bible scripture seems to get his attention, but so far all I've found is Colossians 3:21. "Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged"

Can anyone think of any more?

2007-03-19 06:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 06:32:45 · 28 answers · asked by J@N1C3E. 1 in Friends

A guy freind of mine has been having some problems with his wife. Yes, he's talked to her, she won't talk about sexual stuff, and no, I'm not interfering, he asked my opinion and I gave it to him. I just want to know if other people would think the same as I do.
She refused to have sex with him for 4 months, started again last month, but only once a week or less. Said it was because she felt ugly after having their baby (who is 1). He was excited last week because it looked like he would "get some" (his words) because she shaved in the morning, put on a thong, and dressed sexy. She then spent the day with their daughter and her mom. By the time he got home, she's in comfy clothes and not interested in him. This is a regular occurence.
My theories: 1) She just wanted to feel sexy when she went out with her mom - completely possible
2) She's not telling him the whole truth of what she's doing in the day (she cheated in the past) and is meeting someone else
Any other ideas?

2007-03-19 06:32:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love to be a dog under her feet wat can i do

2007-03-19 06:32:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

popcyle when she laid it down to answer the door. Don't you think that was pretty rude and unsanitary?

2007-03-19 06:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by Disco Mudda 2 in Marriage & Divorce