There is a guy I am interested in getting to know. He knows I am interested. We can message each other on the computer and he seems pretty outgoing, but in person he never says anything. Just looks. He will make eye contact with me in a room full of people. ????? I used to just think he was shy but he has alot of friends that are girls so I just look at it as he is not interested.
2007-03-19 06:35:10 · 11 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He not be interested in you so you should just ask him. If he is like me though i talk with all my friends but when i get around a female i like i become very shy and its hard to make the first move. Just dive in and take the first step
Good Luck!!
2007-03-19 06:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by freakhazerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason he isn't shy around the other g/friends is probably cause ,he only likes them as friends......but if he likes you that is why in person he is so quiet,he can message you nice things and look at you from across the room, I think next time he messages you, you should confront him about this. He likes you though,What have you got to loose. Good luck!
2007-03-19 13:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think its easier for a guy to communicate when he doesnt know the other person is intrested. Seems weird I know but its true sometimes. Try and break the ice by going out just the two of you and doing something fun like go-karting or lazer tag to loosin him up a bit
2007-03-19 13:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Inked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll really never know unless you try to approach him. Perhaps he's just really shy. Ask him to hang out one on one, even if it's just as friends, you'll get a better picture of what kind of person he really is and whether or not there's more interest (on his part) than just friends.
2007-03-19 13:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not that....he is interested in you. jus because his friends are girls doesnt mean that he looks at them the same way he looks at you. ok. you may be different to him. doesnt know exactly how to come at chu. so jus give him some time to come around. dont push someone into anything. and dont run away jus because of that. it takes time to come around. believe me. sometimes being in person and talkin and texin is way different. you know. thats jus the way it is.
2007-03-19 13:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be frank and u first to talk with him like a friend. tell him that he be frank and friendly. hiding expressions leads misunderstandings with pretext thoughts. Atleast u ask the above question to his girl friends and get answer/advice.
2007-03-19 13:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by legal supdt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it out there, if he is interested he will let you know, but if he takes his time then he is messing with you and you should move on.
2007-03-19 13:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outgoing on pc shy in person mixed signals balls in his court let him make the first move
2007-03-19 13:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... i had a guy like that... he probly wants you to say the first thing becuz he doesnt know how to approach you in public... if you say something to him first he will most likely say stuff bak
2007-03-19 13:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem, I really wish i could help you.
2007-03-19 13:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by odd_person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋