Married People... Questions for you... reworded?

Question

apparently i need to reword this or someone's gonna keep having it deleted! which is frustrating because it's serious.

1. how long have u been married?
2. do u have kids
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?
6. how often r u "in the mood"?
7. how often does intercourse happen?
8. how long does it usually last?
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each?
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage?
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse?
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level?
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason?
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood?
15. was it different when u were dating? how?
16. finally, r u the husband or wife

sorry about the u and ur and &'s. i hate doing it, but i was running out of characters to work with!

thank you for all the serious answers, they are MUCH appreciated

Answer 1

26 years the first time 6 now
4
never
never
never
24-7
ha ha ha ha I forgot what it was like
cant remember
never
I use to start it but I quit he is a loss cause
No we are not on the same level
OH I HAVE TOLD IT OPENLY
I do not know we are in a marriage thing at church now but I dont see him changine
he stayed up to late watching tv
I dont have any excuses I am always willing
he was always horney always wanting to touch till teh wedding ring went on then NOTHING
I am the WIFE a very sad depressed lonely wife

Answer 2

1. how long have u been married? - 6 months (together 2+ years)

2. do u have kids - no

3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out" - we don't

4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle" - all the time

5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"? - 1x/month

6. how often r u "in the mood"? - every once in a while

7. how often does intercourse happen? - 1x/month

8. how long does it usually last? - 15-20 min or so

9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each? - sometimes; I give

10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage? - no; but it works out ok

11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse? - I asked him, he said he wasn't comfortable with it; I don't push the issue, it's not that important; it's more important that he's happy

12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level? - Get a partner who IS on the same level If it's THAT important

13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason? - He doesn't have to give reasons, as I usually don't ask

14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood? - There are always better things to do

15. was it different when u were dating? how? - No, it was about the same the whole time we've known each other; we're happy with the way things are

16. finally, r u the husband or wife - Wife

Answer 3

1. how long have u been married? 11 years
2. do u have kids= yes 2
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"=i would say 1 time per day
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"= every night
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?= all the time
6. how often r u "in the mood"? all the time
7. how often does intercourse happen? 4-5 times a week
8. how long does it usually last? hour to hour and a half
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay?2-3 times out of the 4-5 who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each? it is give and take
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage? oh yes thank god!
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse? i would just say it we talk alot and share alot!
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level? comunication
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason? usually we are tired
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood? tired
15. was it different when u were dating? how? we are not doing it in cars or crazy places like that we were pretty wild so we try to keep it indoors now
16. finally, r u the husband or wife i am the wife!

Answer 4

1. how long have u been married? engaged
2. do u have kids? 3
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"? every day
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"? Every night
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"? Sometime 3-4x a week
6. how often r u "in the mood"? Every day
7. how often does intercourse happen? 3-4x a week
8. how long does it usually last? 45 minutes to an hour
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? Maybe once a week. who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each? It's a give and take situation for us. We do eachother
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage? Yes
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse? I'm very forward he would know right away
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level? Communication
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason? I never get told NO...
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood? Tired
15. was it different when u were dating? We had sex more often how? We have sex when we have time and aren't falling asleep as soon as our heads hit the pillows
16. finally, r u the husband or wife Wife

Answer 5

Married People... Questions for you... reworded?
apparently i need to reword this or someone's gonna keep having it deleted! which is frustrating because it's serious.

1. how long have u been married? 7 mos.
2. do u have kids ....Yes
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"...not very often
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle" 2 a week
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?...all the time
6. how often r u "in the mood"? 3x a week
7. how often does intercourse happen? 4-5 x/wk
8. how long does it usually last? an hour depends where the kids are
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each? Is this really nec?
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage? Yes
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse? Truthfully
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level? communication
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason? We are usually tired
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood? tried
15. was it different when u were dating? how? Yes we didn't have kids around all the time
16. finally, r u the husband or wife ...Wife

Answer 6

. how long have u been married?
Married for 12
2. do u have kids
5 kids
3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"
Everyday, we are very affectionate
4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"
Everyday
5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?
Everyday
6. how often r u "in the mood"?
Everyday
7. how often does intercourse happen?
Just about everyday, unless we are just that tired. Then there is first thing in the morning
8. how long does it usually last?
Depends on how "in the mood" we are. Goes from there
9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each?
Foreplay and oral always before and it is very mutual
10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage?
Yes, we have always been very open about this subject
11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse?
Very loudly, but that will never happen
12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level?
Talking, but I think this should be established before marriage. Any marriage that has an issue in this area, has issues somewhere else.
13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason?
I worked too hard today, then I just get him in the mood
14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood?
I don't have that problem
15. was it different when u were dating? how?
There wasn't any kids knocking on our door when we were just dating. Thats what we have locks for though.
16. finally, r u the husband or wife
The wife

Answer 7

1. how long have u been married?

8 years

2. do u have kids

2 stepkids from her previous relationship, they are 14 and 15.

3. how often do u & ur spouse just "make out"

At least once a day

4. how often does ur spouse want to "cuddle"

At least once a day

5. how often is ur spouse "in the mood"?

Almost every day.

6. how often r u "in the mood"?

Every day

7. how often does intercourse happen?

Almost every day.

8. how long does it usually last?

Some as short as 15 min but usually 40-60 min

9. how often is oral a part of the foreplay? who is usually on the giving end, & who's on the recieving... how often for each?

Usually. I give her "full service" quite often. I almost never get full service. I occasionally get a little lickin'

10. do you feel you & your partner are on the same level in this area of your marriage?

No.

11. if you weren't satisfied w/ this area of your marriage, how would you tell your spouse?

We do tell each other.

12. what do you feel can be done to get 2 partners on the same level?

Nothing.

13. when ur partner isn't in the mood, what does he/she say is the reason?

Tired

14. what r ur normal reasons for not being in the mood?

Tired. Angry.

15. was it different when u were dating? how?

More open communication now.

16. finally, r u the husband or wife

Disco Stu is the hubby.

Answer 8

1. 1 year and 3 months
2. No but I want kids in the future
3. Alot
4. All the time
5. All the time (Every day)
6. The same (Every day)
7. 3 or 4 times a week
8. It depends really on him cause I can go for hrs (10 minutes)
9. All the time we do it, we both do each other
10.Of course
11.I would just tell him straight out
12.Lots of Communication
13.That he's tired
14.I'm always in the mood and he gets it whenever he wants to, I never say NO.
15.We fought more and now he is more mature he has changed a lot.
16.Wife...Mrs. Martinez

Answer 9

1. almost 5 years
2. Yes 2 kids
3. Everyday
4. Everynight
5. Umm almost everyday
6. Everyday
7. Pretty much everyday no less than 5 days out of the week
8. 15-30 mins.
9. Everytime I usally give he takes everyday almost
10. Yes maybe him a little more
11. We Let each other know what we like
12. Communication Don't be afriad to talk about it
13. Well we both usally get each other in the mood and do it anyway
14. Umm not sure really
15. We had sex 2 times a day when we was dating its different now cuz busier lifes and 2 kids
16. Wife

Answer 10

1. 3 years
2. yes, one almost 2 yr old
3. never
4. all the time
5. it gets less and less, I'd say once or twice a week
6. depends, sometimes it feels like 80 times a day
7. once a week at the most
8. anywhere from 5 minutes to 45 minutes
9. oral is almost always part of the foreplay, equally for both
10. we are almost never on the same level, it's awful
11. I wrote him an email, asked him what he liked and didn't like, thought it would be easier for him to communicte that way, to at least see where we both stood when it comes to that area of our lives
12. Talk only goes so far, action has to be taken or one partner may look for it elsewhere
13. he says he's tired
14. long day, sick, just not in the mood
15. it was very different when we were dating, we did it every day, different positions, fun stuff, we both wanted it all the time
16. I'm the wife

Answer 11

1. 5 Years 2. Yes 1-2 yr old 3. Daily 4. Every night 5. Constantly 6. Depends on the week 7. 5-7 times a week 8. 15-60 min 9. Yes. I give. He recieves. 10. now we are 11. Yes 12. Talk about it 13. Got to get up early 14. Tired 15. Yes, use to be heated and rushed. Now its slow and loving 16. Wife