that I actually like going to the grocery store to shop. I like food, looking at food, smelling food and just enjoy the whole experience. She says I like to go to see all of the butts walking around. While I admit, I had a mild lust problem in the past, I sincerely like going just to go. I even offered to go with her to help out. What else can I do? I'd really like to show I'm willing to help her out.
2007-03-19 06:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just when she is ready to go...get the kids together and get in the car...not many hubbys go to the store with the wife...when we are doing a big shopping my hubby and I go together..If it is just a couple of things I send him..
Maybe if you help with the list too that would help...Plan some dinners together, show her you are really interested.
2007-03-19 06:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you destroy the trust in your relationship, it is very difficult to re-establish it. The best thing you can do is to tell her that you want to go shopping with her for a meal or two that you want to prepare with her.
Find a recipe for something that you both like and tell her that you want to shop for the ingredients with her.
Go to the store together and then make sure you focus on the food and your wife. Talk to her about what you know about the ingredients. Tell her about how the recipe works. What order the ingredients are mixed in. That of course means that you have to read the recipe fully before going to the store.
When the two of you get home, promptly work with her to make the meal. Make it a romantic occasion, you can even put candles on the dinner table.
This will show your wife that you are serious about her, grocery shopping and cooking all in one day.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-19 13:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother making any efforts at convincing her otherwise. Lust is SO OVERRATED. Enjoy your "mild lust problem" so long as you don't allow it to cross the marriage vows.
Believe me: people lust--by that, I mean EVERYONE (it's simply that not many tell truthfully they do).
As for your cooking passion: also enjoy that too. I'm sure when wife, family and friends all see--and enjoy--your cooking works on the table, all will be well and happy in your world. Now, get off the computer and get busy creating some dishes!!!!
2007-03-19 13:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be cause u had a lust problem and she doesnt want u to go because of it but if u really need to go start goin by urself and get things she didnt get when she went to the store and if she gets mad u went on ur own tell her u offered to go with her but she refused. Then maybe shell take u with her to keep an eye on u.
2007-03-19 13:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by D.C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your wife has trust issues. She won't let you grocery shop??? Wow, wish my man would grocery shop. Who cares if you look at butts. Your going to look anywhere you go anyway, so might as well get the shopping done while your at it!!
2007-03-19 13:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by happyfacemommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't she realize that the butts are walking not only in supermarket? She seem to be abscessed with the grocery store for different reason i think.
2007-03-19 13:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by bibus75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess to get to the grocery store you have to show her your lust problem is gone...................Sounds like she doesn't need help in the grocery store.......Try helping her around the house first......Where you can only look at her butt......she may like that
2007-03-19 13:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the grocery shopping and I would gladly let my wife take over that chore. Let her do it if she wants to. Stay at home and look at the food and cook it while you at it.
2007-03-19 13:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
got kids? take them with you. tell her if it makes her feel better her butt is the only one you want to see, if it doesnt then she is more than welcome to pick a time to spy on you while shopping.
2007-03-19 13:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy squeezing the Charmin and squeezing the bread? I bet you do........
2007-03-19 13:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋