How long does it take to get to know someone that you're seeing? Possibly to know if they're someone you want to be in a relationship with. A couple of months, almost a year or does each individual differe? What are some of the longest friendships that you've had, that have turned into relationships?
2007-03-19 06:36:53 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer depends on any number of things such as the emotional maturity of each of the people, their readiness to become more involved [which is dictated by things such as their experience with being committed in the past, their observation of valued relationships ie: their parents], other things going on in their lives at the time, the amount of time they have with each other [contact time] and how that time is spent [quietly alone talking or attending tractor pulls :) ] .
2007-03-19 06:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the person(s). some people take longer to get into relationships than others. you have to follow your heart and your first mid. when in a relationship you must be friends before your are lovers anyway. good luck
2007-03-19 13:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all relationships take time to develope. whether you jump right into one or jus be friends first....you know...jus because you jump into a relationship off the bat doesnt really mean you in a relationship. because you have to grow and learn about each other. so i mean. when you think about it. it is good to be friends first...and then if it happens, it happens. and it will be...but there is no real time as to when you should start goin out...you'll know it when it happens. believe me.
2007-03-19 13:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the both of you, communication, honesty etc. There is no time limit. Longest...20 years.
2007-03-19 13:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the greatest relationship one will have in their lifetime is the one with God ... dear one it will take a life time and you will be greatly blessed.
Quotes From Mother Theresa
Simple acts of love and prayer keep the light of Christ burning.
Holiness is not the luxury of a few. It is everyone's duty: yours and mine.
I will give saints to Mother church.
Holiness does not consist in doing extraordinary things. It consists in accepting, with a smile,
what Jesus sends us. It consists in accepting and following the will of God.
Prayer makes your heart bigger, until it is capable of containing the gift of God Himself.
Prayer is not asking. Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God, at his disposition,
and listening to his voice in the depths of our hearts.
What is a Christian? someone asked a Hindu man. He responded: "a Christian is someone who gives".
I ask you one thing: do not tire of giving, but do not give your leftovers.
Give until it hurts, until you feel the pain.
If we worry too much about ourselves, we won't have time for others.
Today it is fashionable to talk about the poor. Unfortunately it is not fashionable to talk with them.
The poor are Christ Himself.
When we touch the sick and needy, we touch the suffering body of Christ.
If there are poor in the moon, we will go there too.
I pay no attention to numbers; what matters is the people. I rely on one. There is only one: Jesus.
Good works are links that form a chain of love.
Where does love begin? In our own homes. When does it begin? When we pray together.
The family that prays together, stays together.
Peace begins with a smile.
Only God knows our true needs.
2007-03-19 13:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by itty bitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, my, all are different, i dated this guy for three years and still never got to know him. but the guy i am married to now, i started dating him in october of 2005 and we got married on july 2006. it did not take long to see he was the one. make sure he makes you feel confortable, make sure he reasures you in everyway. if you do not feel safe with him, he is not the one. andy dought, wait......
2007-03-19 13:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by april 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can take a lifetime to fully get to know somebody in my opinion. there is so much to learn about them.
2007-03-19 13:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by SMasewicz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋