Okay, so, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and we really do love eachother alot and we will be of age soon enough. is it woth running away in order to persue our love for each other? we both currently live in wisconsin and if he moved away to arizona then there would be prettuy much no chance of doin a long distance relationship for a year because that is just unrealistic.......pleaae help me
2007-03-19 06:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for all of you that keep saying respect my parents and stuff like that i dont live with my parents i am a foster child and im always mioving around
2007-03-19 06:47:09 · update #1
ohhh.......and i would already have a place to stay and stuff and i already have a job set up where we would be going so that wouldnt be a problem ate all.
2007-03-19 06:48:15 · update #2
oh my gosh i was in your same spot girl and i so know how you feel
my boyfriend asked me to run away and we were dating for 1 1/2 years and we loved each other so much an I almost did move out with him but the cost of everything and the stress and the bills i thought we could do it with both of us working full time but we couldn't we got smashed and it messed up any chance i had for a future with him wish i wouldn't have moved cus when things got bad he got mean and was not the guy i new
and i got scared of how i really didn't know him and i left and moved back and he tried to get me back the damage was done and i miss him to this day the old him the one that i fell in love with
so i wouldn't do it cus if you do move out you will lose the man you fell in love with even if he is right next to you Hun
2007-03-19 06:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shannon you answered your own question, if there is no way you can do a long distance relationship for a year what makes you think your love is strong enough to handle the troubles of being on your own and making it work. Try the long distance first then if you succeed then you have made it through one test, then move on to the tests you have ahead of you.
2007-03-19 13:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away is only going to create more problems. Have you thought about school and jobs and where you will live? How about money? You need all those things. If you two are really in love, your love will wait. Good luck :)
2007-03-19 13:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by happyfacemommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know for a fact that is a HUGE CRIMe ..do you care about your parents and have respect for them??if you do then obviously dont do it!!
if your mom decides to press charges both of you will do time and have to be in juvi until you turn 18 and thats when you start actually serving your jail time.
my little sister tried to pull that stunt on my mom and she's just now getting out of bootcamp.if its true love then a year is basically nothin to wait.dont ruin your life over some stupid plan.think before you act
2007-03-19 13:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by cindy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend it...if you two aren't "of age" yet then wait...you'll find that a lot of life changes when you do become an adult and it may be that y'all don't even want to be together anymore at that point.
Where would you live? How would you make money to support yourselves? What about something better in life? Ya can't live on love alone...romantic as that sounds.
2007-03-19 13:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not old enough yet its a crime,you should wait till you both are legal of age,cause if you two run away if the police catch you and your bf can be charged with kidnaping and posibly other charges,probally rape regardless if ya'll did nothing,i know this because it almost happend to me,just wait it out,if youring legal age soon you can wait a lil bit,its not worth to get your bf in trouble with the law,hope this helps your decision
2007-03-19 13:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to do the exact same thing with a freshman girl from school (shes awesome) she wanted to go to new york or hawaii but i wanted to go to phoenix cuz people drive fast on the freeway's there... phoenix is awsome when your from nowhere california and 15 and a sophmore
2007-03-19 13:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Scream Your Secrets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must ask yourself. "Is running away with this boy that i only new 1 year worth it?" I personally think that you should stay with your family. there the ones who will ALWAYS be there for you and always have.=)
2007-03-19 13:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
under age going over state lines could b looking at jail time what do u think
2007-03-19 13:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean both super model?
2007-03-19 13:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋