I want to ask a guy out but don't get a chance to because he is always busy when I see him at his work and I dont want to make him feel uncomfortable or make a fool of myself?? Ive been told to ask him for coffee but I dont want to stumble over the wording so can you help me with how to say it to him.
2007-03-19 06:33:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know what his interests are? if you do, check your paper for something going on that would be good for the both of you to attend, then ask him to accompany you. if you want to ask him for coffee, just walk up to him when he has a moment and say, hey, would you have coffee with me something. simple as that. i found that most guys are ignorant to the fact that a woman likes them and when you just put it in their face like that it helps. if he is interested, he wont say no. if he says he has some scheduling problems, work around it. most guys like it when a woman goes after what she wants and isnt shy. its a turnon. so don't be shy and ask! if he says no, well then you know that he isnt into you, and you can move on and put your efforts into someone else who may be interested in you. women spend too much time thinking about asking men out instead of just doing it. there would be a lot happier people out there if women just took matters into their own hands. plus, it will build your self-esteem for future dating endevours!
2007-03-19 06:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by kiss_me_cold_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As cherily and confident as possible like the greatest idea ever just occured to you (don't let him know you're nervous) "We should go get coffee sometime!". Statements are the best way to avoid being let down (he can't say no to a statement, right?) plus it sounds like a mutual decision. He'll probably say something like 'Yea, that'd be fun.' you say 'Well give me your number (note, a statement), and I'll give you a call sometime.' Call him TWO days later and say 'Hey, we talked the other day about getting coffee. You still up for it?'
2007-03-19 13:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandra F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm, find out about what kindof food he likes, and ask him has he tryed the name of a certain rest. yet, or get him to ask you. there are ways of finding out his favorite rest. and then make a comment you have not gone there yet and you would sure love to go there but do not want to go by yourself. there are ways of turning things around and get him to ask you...
good luck
2007-03-19 13:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by april 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he has a sec, then ask him if he wants to go out and get something to eat one day.
2007-03-19 13:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him and who cares if he says yes or no. Just go ask u are making it worse in your mind than it really is.
2007-03-19 13:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by freakhazerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanna know the same thing
2007-03-19 13:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by SHY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋