Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

i have been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now... i love her. every month she get nervious about her period... and every month we talk about her getting on birth control... and every month she promises she will go to a docter for birthcontrol... and every month she dosent...

i am just so upset right now... she makes me so afraid... i told her today that i am not going to have sex with her again... i love her so much but when her period comes around we bicker and fight... i am begining to think that we arent responsiable enough to be having sex... and i know the answer... we arent...

i just want a little bit more protection.... i use a condom... never broke one... i just really want a end to this fight... i am tired...

i love her so much... and sex just gets in the way sometimes... i just dont know what to say... or what to do...i know i want everything and dont want to give up anything...

i am writeing this here looking for other peoples insight...

2007-03-19 06:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by little dazed 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of a dinner,a trip to the hot tubs or couples massage? Or is that too corny? Should I just get him something he'll enjoy just for himself?

2007-03-19 06:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds kinda chessy,but I have guy problems.How can you tell if a guy likes you or not,and how can I show that I like him without it being too obivious but he would get it?PLEASE HELP!!! :) XOX

2007-03-19 06:10:03 · 2 answers · asked by Allina da romanian hotte 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this sounds kinda chessy,but I have guy problems.How can you tell if a guy likes you or not,and how can I show that I like him without it being too obivious but he would get it?PLEASE HELP!!! :) XOX

2007-03-19 06:09:47 · 1 answers · asked by Allina da romanian hotte 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u like girls that like to play sports, and is it ok for u if a girl plays 1 on 1 basketball with u and she wins, does that make u like her more! because i love playing basketball, and if u had a chance to play basketball with me would u let me win on purpose or would u challenge me???

2007-03-19 06:09:23 · 14 answers · asked by iluv_rock_n_roll2 2 in Singles & Dating

have you forgiven your b/f or husband for cheating?
have you not forgiven and moved on?
anyone know of happy endings when someone has cheated?

2007-03-19 06:09:02 · 18 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom loves me but she will not let me go hang out with my friends cuz she things something bad might happen and I know she just loves me but I am 17 my friends get to do things but I want my friends to come pick me up or go to there house.my mom is a good person but she needs to give me more freedom she is cool but I need some space she is cool but I'm 17 can anyone help me please.

2007-03-19 06:08:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello! I am not a shy person but I am very self-conscious. I feel different from all the other girls because I got just out of the convent last December. I am not a nun. I was just contemplating it but after just 8 months I was sure it was not for me. My roommate said I could meet some nice people on line. I have my doubts. I am just so naive. Please help. I will really appreciate your comments and suggestions. Thank you and God bless.

2007-03-19 06:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by tin2 5 in Friends

my mom loves me but she will not let me go hang out with my friends cuz she things something bad might happen and I know she just loves me but I am 17 my friends get to do things but I want my friends to come pick me up or go to there house.my mom is a good person but she needs to give me more freedom she is cool but I need some space she is cool but I'm 17 can anyone help me please.

2007-03-19 06:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When i went to school this morning i was walking with my friend outside untill the ringbell should get us in classroom.So i saw a girl wich i know her only seeing her sometimes!She is the same age with me.I'm not the most popular booy in my school.So she asked me to stay with her untill her girlsfriends(no lovers :)) ) would come.So she asked me some questions ... like do you know me?Do you know in what class i am? ... and lot more!
What this can be?She is a beautifull girl by the way ... :)

2007-03-19 06:07:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many impotent men allow their wives to play on the side. Yet you people have crucified me for being thoughtful of my wife's needs.

2007-03-19 06:07:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 06:07:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy alot but I just don't know how to talk to him. I've known him for 5 years, I see him 5 days a week, but we are both so busy. When we do talk it's really good but not very long. I need to start a conversation him. He is 21 and I'm 18. I really want to get his attention and provoke some interest in me. Any Ideas?

2007-03-19 06:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Miss_Chievous 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel I can only be a shoulder for her but I wish I could help her more as I hate to see her so upset where can I get some advice so I can help I have no experience and can only be there for her any help would be appreciated. Thanks

2007-03-19 06:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been reading a lot of complaining and suffering from women regarding their relationships with men. I would truly appreciate sensible opinions on what it is that women expect men to be. Thanks in advance for your kind answers.

2007-03-19 06:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by raramuristar 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF does not groom down south. I don't want him to shave clean or anything, just trim it down. What is the best way to bring it up and ask him to do that?

2007-03-19 06:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends Fiancee' tells her we are having guys night out!! He goes and leaves her but then one of the other guys wife tags along??? He has never cheated, but almost did once that I know of?? The group consists of 1 married guy, an engaged guy, and a single guy!! So I guess my question is... Do you think he is really wanting to have a guys night or is he purposely not letting her go because of whatever reason??

2007-03-19 06:05:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have split up with my gf and she says she is getting annoyed with me no knowing if i am coming or going (im at uni and im thinking of dropping out). I went home on thursday and she text me a simple Q saturday night and i didnt know the answer so i didnt reply. she then reang me today (monday) asking when i was back at uni and i said i dont know and asked why i hadnt been in contact all weekend. to wich i replied i was busy and didnt know the answer to you Q. its also a mutual friends bday tomorrow and she asked if i was going out but i said no because i didnt want things to be wierd on his bday and i just want them all to have a good time but she again got funny with me and now seems to be in a mood. we are no longer seeing each other so why is she acting like this and what should i do?

2007-03-19 06:04:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here the thing my grandfather passed away last week.. Well he married this lady 11 years ago named martha..well she put everything in her name like the deed and stuff. All my mother wonts to do is get her father stuff..well her lawyer called us and said where not alound on "HER" properity..Witch when she married my grand dad her husband died 6months ago..and at the furnarul they said say your last words...That ***** said..."I hope you got what you whished for"...What can i do?

2007-03-19 06:04:13 · 4 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family

they came from l and the bloke's name was milan and his wifes name was i think hindra.milan worked for barclay's bank in northampton.and his wife was a claim's lawyer.please if anyone knows these two special poeple please let them know htat iam on here thankyou very

2007-03-19 06:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 06:02:25 · 23 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 06:02:19 · 27 answers · asked by divya s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not so sure if im ready for sex. But he says if i love him i would! Should i ?

2007-03-19 06:02:08 · 73 answers · asked by Aislynn H 1 in Singles & Dating

No, I'm not looking for an entry from a dictionary. I'm looking for something not in the dictionary - your opinion and experience about the word 'friend'. To whom does it apply (as in someone close to you or someone you occasionally run into)? Any related details you'd like to share, I have open ears, er, eyes.
Also, has your definition of 'friend' evolved? If yes, how?

2007-03-19 06:01:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-19 06:01:33 · 4 answers · asked by cherringub 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I just got back together with my BF and we're on a rocky road right now. So I need some advice to make it better.
PLZ.....Help

2007-03-19 06:01:31 · 5 answers · asked by Death Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

My son will be a year old next month. His biological father comes to see him about once a month for an hour or so. I know as my son grows the bio dad is probably going to want to be more involved ...when there are no diaprs, bottles ...etc. The only dad my son really knows is my fiance who I have been with since I found out I was pregnant. My son doesn't understand any of this yet of course. But I guess I am looking for advice on what to as he gets older. How do I explain to him that he has 2 "dads" Is there anyway I can keep the bio dad out of the picture? If he takes me to court what are his chances of getting visitation due to the fact that he has almost no involvement for a year or at any time during the pregnancy? Any advice would be helpful. Also my son has my fiances last name. Though bio dad said he wanted it changed he has yet to get the paper work I told him he needed. If the baby is over 1 yr it has to go through the courts. Do you think they will make me change his name?

2007-03-19 06:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by Just J 3 in Family

cant keep someone of my mind and he keeps telling me the same

2007-03-19 06:00:53 · 30 answers · asked by snowiee2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married on April 21st and picked me to throw the bachelorette party (I'm not in the wedding in any way. Her MOH is her little sister and she doesn't trust her with the plans or the expenses, and the bridesmaids are her cousins in Texas. We live in Georgia). The only thing is, no one agrees with the wedding. The guy she is marrying has cheated on her many, many times (this includes during the engagement) and everyone knows this and has tried to tell her but she won't listen. She's gotten on everyone's nerves for talking non-stop about her fiancee and her wedding plans and for not listening when they advise her against the union. Basically, she's more in love with the idea of getting married and moving out of her parents' house than she is with her fiancee. These are the same people who I would be inviting to the bachelorette party but all of them have said they won't even be coming to the wedding! How do I get them to come to the bachelorette party?!

2007-03-19 06:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I told him I wanted to be friends only, no sex, no relationship he said he accepted that. Soon after he was buying me gifts and expecting me to have a relationship with him. It made me cringe, he didn't care what I thought or felt, now he does not have a friend in me either, I rather abhor him. Was this just a game, or did he do it to offend me?

2007-03-19 06:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating