What is going on?

Question

I have split up with my gf and she says she is getting annoyed with me no knowing if i am coming or going (im at uni and im thinking of dropping out). I went home on thursday and she text me a simple Q saturday night and i didnt know the answer so i didnt reply. she then reang me today (monday) asking when i was back at uni and i said i dont know and asked why i hadnt been in contact all weekend. to wich i replied i was busy and didnt know the answer to you Q. its also a mutual friends bday tomorrow and she asked if i was going out but i said no because i didnt want things to be wierd on his bday and i just want them all to have a good time but she again got funny with me and now seems to be in a mood. we are no longer seeing each other so why is she acting like this and what should i do?

Answer 1

talk to her and get it sorted - you need to let her know where she stands. from what you've said she still cares about you - maybe she's getting annoyed with you because you're thinking about dropping out of university and she thinks it's a bad idea?

if you're going to be friends then she needs the respect you'd give a friend (i.e. not being ignored). if that's not what you want you need to be honest with her.

another reason for her behaviour might be that she's seeing someone else & doesn't want you to see her out with him because she doesn't want to upset you..

the only way you'll find out is to talk to her x

Answer 2

She appears to be mentally deranged and a PT, get away from her as fast as you can, change your phone number find another normal girl Friend and get on with your life. Packing up uni is not an option, she is just a frazzle so if she phones again tell her to F/O and stop calling you. Tell her you just don't want to know. You will feel so much better and at the same time gain respect from your mates as the man you should be. Now, come on chop, chop get on with it and get your life back.

ATB Red