I told him I wanted to be friends only, no sex, no relationship he said he accepted that. Soon after he was buying me gifts and expecting me to have a relationship with him. It made me cringe, he didn't care what I thought or felt, now he does not have a friend in me either, I rather abhor him. Was this just a game, or did he do it to offend me?
2007-03-19 06:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we do --- unfortunately there is this perception that when a lady says no she is "playing" hard to get and so no means try harder --- look at the questions --- there are a number i have seen about playing hard to get --- to me if a lady says no then thats it she is not interested so i back off --- this person seems to have thought that you were prepared to have a deeper relationship and he had to work harder at winning you over --- it does not excuse the actions it may help to understand them --- best wishes
2007-03-19 06:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted you to feel like u had to have a relationship with him cause of all the gifts he was giving. He sounds a bit obsssesive to me.. If you dont like this then you should end it.
2007-03-19 13:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to buy your affection and he figured if he did that he could have a relationship with you.
2007-03-19 13:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by i♥Y!answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be with you and thinks buying you things will make that happen. You did the right thing.
2007-03-19 13:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy, and as such he really wanted sex. Its sad but true.
2007-03-19 13:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by maxexposure2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun
trust me.
us women will never understand men.
but sure enough they have to atleast try and cope with us. and try to understand us. and beleive in us. so just let him go.
2007-03-19 13:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he did it simply to try and win you over, and he obviously failed in his pursuit.
2007-03-19 13:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was hoping he could get you to change your mind..
2007-03-19 13:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋