Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

There is this girl Savana at my school and she is giving me trubles.
Well heres the story i am in 7th grade and so is she, she found out were I live by her walking down my street from school. Well ya see im a shy person and I am never ever mean, people curse at my school and i cant come to even say the word curse. Anyways when the weather is nice she will walk home and stop by my house and ask if she can stay till five o'clock this has gotten soo bad that she has come over every school day!!! And I feel bad for her because alot of people make fun of her but still why mee. the worst part is that all she talks about is Get Ed and Pokemon and I have no idea half the time what she is talking about. I told all my friends who are nice to her but live on the other side of the street and they feel bad for me. But they dont know how I feel. What should I do I cant flip her off because my mom will get realy realy made at she tried to get me to invite her to my birth day party I cant stand 5 min

2007-03-18 11:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

she has a yo yo relationship with him. dumps him, gets back together, dumps him, back together, ect...its been going on for awhile. he said hes over her and her games and dosent want to be the backup guy anymore. since he and i are friends.... he wants to take me out..... she'd kill me though.... i dont know. im a senior and i'll only see her for another month and a half...
what do you guys think??

2007-03-18 11:38:39 · 7 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

im 20 yrs old, muslim and been with my bf who i thought i was going to marry for a year. However, things have never really been that good, we always argue, we are completely different, and now im scared of his temper coz of the heated arguments. i have really low self esteem, i think im ugly and spend most of my time looking at beautiful girls and wishing i was them. I think my bf could do better, and now i think he realises that. We use to spend lots of time together but now he doesnt bother any more, and hes ignored me for two days now, and we havent had an argument he just hasnt called me. I know all the signs are there that we should break up, but both of us say thats not what we want (he is my first love), but i think its what we actually want. I feel like i need him now, and i get so sad and depressed when he ignores me, but i know we are not right together. I dont want to lose him as i lost my v to him which is very important 2 me,and love him so much. Please help..

2007-03-18 11:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by yo 1 in Singles & Dating

I've sucked and kissed on my boyfriends ears before but I'm not totally sure if it turns him on. It seems like it might...

2007-03-18 11:38:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it sucks so bad. what should we do?!

2007-03-18 11:37:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a bad relationship, I am estranged from my family, my friends all use me and betray me, I feel like I should just pack up and leave with my kids and start over fresh somewhere where I don't know a soul. I have the money to do so and marketable job skills. Has anyone ever considered this or actually done it?

2007-03-18 11:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, you see, i've been with this guy for about 5 months now, but my best friend is acting psycho. "AWWW!!! YOU TWO JUST HUGGED!!!" "psst....have you two kissed yet? Do it in front of me..."

Keep in mind that I'm in the 8th grade please...
anyways, its freaking me out, and I'm wondering if this is common, or its just me.
And before you say she hates seeign me w/ him, she supports the relationship fully. AND I MEAN, FULLY. *shudder*
She's the one that told me (calmly) that it was okay with her, so I can stop freaking out. Which I am now. HELP.

2007-03-18 11:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by smashinn` 2 in Singles & Dating

have 2 really good friends, who are like sisters 2 me. im a year older then them so i went to highschool first but while i was there they became close with these guys. 1 is cool but the other is a complete asshole. my friends wanted to take my gf for a girls night out to judge her or something. when they went there, they ran into those guys, went over to ones house. and the 1 i didnt like insisted on everyone playing truth or dare. he dared my gf to kiss the good guy, i guess he was kind of high, and he even said "wait, doesnt she have a bf?" but the other insisted that it didnt count and that if i was a good guy, it wouldnt matter to me cuz it was just a game. she got home, told me, and i flipped out. i broke up with her right away. i think thats what the guy wanted me to do cuz now hes dating her. but now my friends want to meet my new gf. i fear history will repeet itself. if it hapens again what should i do? will it happen again? should i trust this new gf?

2007-03-18 11:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1 in Singles & Dating

her new bf so we could become friends. Then she doesn't call and don't hear from her. Intentional?

2007-03-18 11:37:07 · 1 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 13 years old and the only problem that i face that when i chat to a girl on msn or yahoo that i got out of subjects to talk to so wht subject a girl would like to talk about ?!

2007-03-18 11:35:03 · 8 answers · asked by the unknown 1 in Friends

Ok, so I have this guy that I have a crush on, and he's like my friend but not my best friend... The other night he called me to talk... (just to talk) We talked about other cute guys and girls at our school and we really connected...
Well, the next night he asked me to help him ask out this one girl that I absaloutely hate.... Since I like him so much, I said sure...

Apperantly , the girl told him that I hated him , and she made lots of lies about me, and since my crush and her are really close friends he believed her... After I talked to him he still wasn't sure if I was lying or not..

Now I don't know what she said after he asked her out but he's been ignoring me for the past day, but I think she told him to not talk to me... She's a real *****.

What should I do... (Tell him my feelings or what)

2007-03-18 11:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by Elif C 1 in Friends

2007-03-18 11:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by tissameta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and I are having issues chooseing a wedding song to dance to that we both agree on. I love most country, and he's really into classic rock. Any suggestions of something we both might enjoy would be great!

2007-03-18 11:34:26 · 34 answers · asked by kerri c 5 in Weddings

okay. my ex friend and were close. now we are like ... just regular friends... i met her bf and we were friends... he started to flirt with me... i didnt even realize it at first. then we went ring shopping for my friend (for a promise ring). me and him looked at rings and she kept texting me. he got sick of it so we went to see a movie instead.... well.. we somehow ended up cuddling.... and then he kissed. me.... he told me later on the phone he loved me. he said he dosent love my friend anymore.... because of me. im afraid of ruining their relationship and him telling her. she would KILL me. im not even kidding. she's kind of the queen bee of our group. would guys tell their girlfriends???

2007-03-18 11:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering, is it okay to ask someone to dance with you at a dance if you dont really know the person, but i talk to his friend.. i kinda want to take a risk at my dance and ask him.. all my friends have volunteered to go up to him and stuff.. sorry this is random, im just curious

2007-03-18 11:33:24 · 4 answers · asked by abercrombiesweetie72 2 in Friends

Ok i kno ive asked alot involving my bf but im so hurt and confused right now and im so mad at both my dad and bf. for those who dont kno: im 17 and my bf is 20. i live wit jus me and my dad. my dad hates my bf because of fights we get into when my bf gets rough. and im not allowed to see him anymore....anyway i love my daddy and bf both alot. last night i went to my bfs house even though i wasnt allowed and talked wit my bf bout how im feeling and he basically said its him or my dad. im lik WHAT! so basically hes sayin i have to choose the love of my life or my daddy? then i come home this morning and my dad is waitin for me and starts questionin me and yellin and he was cryin and jus a whole big mess. im not used to this im used to bein daddys girl not fightin wit him. both of them wont listen and both of them dont seem to care bout wut i want...which is my bf and my dad jus gettin along. so wut do i do? i kno alot will say to stay wit my dad but u need to think of it from my view.

2007-03-18 11:33:17 · 3 answers · asked by Calista 1 in Family

2007-03-18 11:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by dave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

mad at your partner for no reason? or how does it work?

2007-03-18 11:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, this is really difficult as I am married and have a very responsible job. My problem is that I'm in love with someone else. I know I shouldn't be, I know I can't be but I am. I think about her everyday and she is always in my thoughts. I can never tell her how I feel. I cannot tell anyone how I feel. I know I should forget about her and continue with my life, just get on with it. I know I should, but why can't I just let go!!! I love her very much.

2007-03-18 11:32:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You know, as in husband and wife spats.

2007-03-18 11:32:30 · 21 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a swinger and a man i swing with has asked me to go on vacation with him. Meaning stay with him. I want to go and my husband approves but i am afraid this will be romantic and he will take this further than recreational sex.

2007-03-18 11:32:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 11:32:11 · 2 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.

2007-03-18 11:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy told me that he did not want to date me and that i should go **** a wall so know i want revenge does anybody have any ideas

2007-03-18 11:30:32 · 25 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do

2007-03-18 11:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married to an alcohlic for four yrs. he lied all the time, cheated on me endlessly, stole from my friends, got very nasty when drunk, howver we did have lots of good times as well as our daughter. I divorced him because the lies were just too much, also he was always drunk or stoned and abusive on it. very abusive. He wouldn't get a job, and blamed everyone for evrything.I knew it was for the best.
3 weeks ago we met up, he told me he made he biggest mistake of his life leaving me, how much he adored me etc.. in fact he said it all night. We slept together. the next morning he asked to move back in. I said I wasn't ready, it was way too fast. Now he has a job. I asked for child support he said he couldn't afford it.
The next night he rang up drunk very abusive. So i avoided his calls for a few days. Then I got a text saying, I've met someone else I'm really happy I've moved on. Goodbye.
I know it's for the best but why the doubts, why do I feel so upset about it all?

2007-03-18 11:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by flumoxed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 11:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Tommy D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he goes out and doesnt answer his phone at night what could he be doing?

2007-03-18 11:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by angie o 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 16 years, it hasn't been great and we are currently separated. I hurt him during our marriage and he hurt me too. For the past 2.5 years I've done everything he asked me to fix our marriage, even quit my job. Since then everything's been hell and finally in January he left. I told him I wasn't going to make a decision to divorce until the end of the year after all it's been 16 years and 4 kids. Well today he decides to call me and tell me that he met somebody on Match.com and that he had sex with her. I was even ready to hang up the phone when he spurted out the fact that he had sex with her. And after that he won't even admit that he said it to hurt me, what hurts most is that he says he doesn't regret it. I could probably get over him doing that but that he doesn't regret it because he doesn't feel an emotional connection with me, if he doesn't care about me why tell me that then?

2007-03-18 11:28:25 · 23 answers · asked by indypuertorican 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you apologize for things that are NOT your fault??? Just for the sake of not fighting???

2007-03-18 11:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating