Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

So I really like this girl who I've been very good friends with for a while. She seems to like me too, but there's 2 things that are troubling me from taking that "next step" so to speak:
1. She hangs out with this older guy a lot, and I'm sure she likes him, but I'm not sure if she likes him in a boyfriend or good friend way. At least her friend used to say he's her "tentative boyfriend."
2. She's not interested in relationships till she graduates college.
Her friends say that we'll be a great match, but.... What should I do? Should I stay at a good friend level considering the current situation?

2007-03-18 11:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by ginao33 1 in Singles & Dating

how far would u go into there personnel lives? from asking who they like to when there old enough there sex lives. please explain how far and why?

2007-03-18 11:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Family

the guy im talkin abotu always smiles at me and hes only nice to me and instead of talkin to the person next to him he talks to me.. and gets in trouble for it but he doesnt care..

2007-03-18 11:50:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had this dream of me and my crush making out at the prom. what does it mean? would it ever happen? thank you for your answer.

2007-03-18 11:50:24 · 14 answers · asked by Em 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 11:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by burx18 2 in Singles & Dating

How likely is it for a guy to get you to like him, and what are the best ways for him to do that?

2007-03-18 11:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of falling for somebody and she has a cute nickname for me. Can't tell you what it is but its not insulting.

2007-03-18 11:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by rostov 5 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me "i want a girlfriend that i can actually get to see once in awhile"
and he was upset at me because he was waiting for me all day to say tell him that i wanted to hang out with him.


i ended up calling him and coming over to his house and everything was back to normal. but, what can i do to show that i truly do care about him and am listening to what he told me? we have been going out for 2 years.


in a relationship, how much attention is necessary for guys? do guys constantly like to feel needed or do they like a girl that plays hard to get? what are most guys thoughts on how much time a girl should give them?

2007-03-18 11:48:30 · 2 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i know alot of people post this topic but anyway me and my frined stop talking. It's been months and i know i've should've just let him go by now but i can't we were bestfriends and i want to at least establish a relationship w/ him and i dont know how because we dont have classes together or anything so how can i talk to him w/ out looking stupid?

2007-03-18 11:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Devin B 1 in Friends

She won't talk to me about divorce, I'm ready to move on, but she won't talk about it. She only talks to me if I contact her first. If I go out with another lady just for dinner or a movie.. is it considered cheating?

2007-03-18 11:48:06 · 19 answers · asked by ravenhm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Whether I'm really knowledgeable about something or not, I think I come across as overconfident and full of too much content. What can I do to take a lower profile? How can I communicate better with people so that I can be knowledgeable, yet popular, like Ben Franklin was?

2007-03-18 11:48:00 · 8 answers · asked by nora22000 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy at my job stares at me everyday, but he doesn't say anything. I look back at him but I don't speak either. I don't know if he will approach me one day or not, but I try not to look at him because I am shy.

2007-03-18 11:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I began dating a new guy. Things went well for a while but then he wouldn't respond to my text messages. I tried calling and he told me that he was busy. I attempted calling again today but then he texted me telling me that I needed to find someone better than him. I always seem to get this line. I got attached to him too quickly and now I feel foolish and a torn. I tend to make this mistake too often. It took me months to get to the point where I don't break down about my ex 24/7. The aftermath always lasts longer than the relationship in my case. How do you stop yourself from getting too close too soon?

2007-03-18 11:46:32 · 8 answers · asked by confused soul 2 in Singles & Dating

How do i talk to someone who i think hates me because i did something nasty to him (a teacher) and i wanted to apologize cuz im feeling gulty and i wanted to go back to being friends i keep sending him emails every so often and get no response do you think he hates me? How else can i talk to him if you live in Souderton PA and went to indian valley middle school youll know whom i'm talking about. Andrew Mcclintock

2007-03-18 11:45:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-18 11:45:21 · 2 answers · asked by amandadawn172002 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it is funny because my girl uses that every single month, yet lets say I am having a bad day, she says " Dont take your bad day out on me!" I feel like saying, "How come when you are in your bad moods you say that I should be nicer to you and let you take it out on me, yet when I am in a bad mood you dont help me out of it at all!!!"

You know?? What do you think??

2007-03-18 11:44:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's the situation. My friend and I both like the same guy. He's very handsome and smart. He likes to swim and so do we. The problem is, I can't tell if he likes me or not. Is there something I can do so I can get to know him better that won't seem like I'm coming on too strong? If I don't get to know him soon, my friend will go out with him and she knows I like him. It seems as though she would do this all though I'm her closest friend. I'm very shy and I don't want to ask him out straight up because I would be humiliated in front of the whole school. Please Help!

2007-03-18 11:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please note if your in your 20s, 30s, 40s.

2007-03-18 11:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by trex t 1 in Singles & Dating

Pick 1 out of the 3.

2007-03-18 11:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know why but I think its cool when I get everyone elses opinion on things. To me, she is the greatest human being in the universe, to you shes another girl. But I love her with all my heart. I hope everybody could feel what I feel. What are everybody elses thoughts on love?

2007-03-18 11:42:40 · 25 answers · asked by montana16niner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have brought evidence in and he just threw them to the side and wouldn,t even look at it. He didn't also dissmiss our 1st lawyer bby the rules in giving us fai time to get a new counsel.

2007-03-18 11:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you use a tampon, and are still a virgin, will it still hurt the first time you do it?

2007-03-18 11:42:15 · 22 answers · asked by babyblue17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm SOO afraid.. The main thing is that I feel like I get stupid when it comes to driving. I've sat and studied the intersections and I've looked when people are driving and try and test myself what would I do and I usually end up saying ok NOW i would turn ..and then it ends up being the wrong time and for some reason i just cant figure it out .. plus i live in LA where traffic is horrible and pretty much every intersection operates a different way and people drive like **** and you can pretty much only turn left on yellow/ red light. .The last time I tried to drive was in a little suburb and Texas and even then i couldnt drive and would almost crash because i just cant pay attention the right way.. my eyes dont catch everything they need to. .for example ill be concentrating straight ahead for stoplights and ill miss the stoplight right in front of my face OR a car turning or changing lanes

I'm also afraid of accidents and my biggest fear is fire so I get REALLY scared

2007-03-18 11:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she tells me im her best friend, we hang out, play fight, talk, have fun when we;re together.
and i really really love her and she means alot to me. i feel like its a one-way friendship though. maybe i dont open up enough , but like i only do favors for her, or listen to her problems, im not sure what to do

2007-03-18 11:41:56 · 4 answers · asked by fly4awhitegurl94@aim.com 1 in Friends

When was the last time you went out with your partner, just the 2 of you.

2007-03-18 11:41:51 · 21 answers · asked by patsy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think Im in love with my boyfriend. I want to be with him all the time and he makes me happy. Problem is, I get really scared when I open up to people. I am really scared of getting too close and something happening between us. Its really stupid but am I just protecting myself. Ive never been hurt in the past so there is no reason for this I dont think. What is the solution?

2007-03-18 11:41:17 · 21 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Singles & Dating

GIrls mostly talk about guys and rate how cute they are, who are their crushes, and what they like about some guy.
What do you boys talk about when you are at parties and just talk? Do you talk about us gals?

2007-03-18 11:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 11:39:40 · 22 answers · asked by yaseen e 1 in Singles & Dating

left me at my uncles house and never picked me up and he dropped me off in the streets i have to walk to the library 50 miles from where i am to ask u guys this.... What can I do???

2007-03-18 11:39:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Family

I have started work at this new building. I notice that when i walk in this certain office there is two women in there about my age(early 20's)and they always seem to stare at me,i find it really irritating and it's obvious,they should'nt have no reason not to like me because i dont go in their office much.

2007-03-18 11:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends