my boyfriend told me "i want a girlfriend that i can actually get to see once in awhile"
and he was upset at me because he was waiting for me all day to say tell him that i wanted to hang out with him.
i ended up calling him and coming over to his house and everything was back to normal. but, what can i do to show that i truly do care about him and am listening to what he told me? we have been going out for 2 years.
in a relationship, how much attention is necessary for guys? do guys constantly like to feel needed or do they like a girl that plays hard to get? what are most guys thoughts on how much time a girl should give them?
2007-03-18 11:48:30 · 2 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as the relationship matures i would expect both parties to want to spend more time together (like 24/7 thats how much time i want to spend with my lady) ---- no i dont like someone to play hard to get --- to me that is uninterested and time to move on
its not about feeling needed its about getting to know each other and just being with each other --- maybe you should both sit down and tell each other what you expect from the relationship
2007-03-18 11:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, a guy wants to spend as much time with his girl as he likes (which should be all the time!) *g*.
Mostly there is not a real problem, because he is busy with work or school, sports and friends, and so he spends his spare-time with his girl.
Problems occur if hes has got no real life of his own, and just want you to be there for him all the time. In that case ther is not much for you to be doing. He should get his own life going.
A guy definitely wants to be needed and wants to be manly. how this is achieved is highly dependent on what type of man he is, and what kind of life he lives... But hard to get should be out of the question in a serious relationship, that much i know!
I myself blamed my girlfriend that she has not enough time for me, but we had a fight about it, and some month of not seeing each other. In that time i got my life together, got a better job, did more with my friends and stuff like that. We got together again, and my need for her to fill my life wasn't so big anymore, because i have one myself now.
We get along just well now (second year of a great relationship now!).
2007-03-18 12:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋