I'm in a bad relationship, I am estranged from my family, my friends all use me and betray me, I feel like I should just pack up and leave with my kids and start over fresh somewhere where I don't know a soul. I have the money to do so and marketable job skills. Has anyone ever considered this or actually done it?
2007-03-18 11:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not underage - I'm in my 30s.
2007-03-18 11:42:59 · update #1
girl if you are feeling that way go for it....yes i have felt like that for a long time my child hood was not satisfying bad parents, abuse, growing up bad and some good, bad relationships and stuff my mother passed away seven years ago and since then my family ( 3 sisters & 4 brothers) i make the fourth sister ,,,,anyways everytime i turn around there is this one talking about that one and that one about this one and causing this one to law the other one and on and on and on....i would love to just pick up and go but i am scared really to try to start over i dont have the money right now but i am trying to save really hard and one day i am going to do it i have three boys and i love them very much and i know if i went back to college i could make a go of it so yea if you would like to do that girlfriend be my hero and go for it if that is really what you want to do......there is nothing better in the would than a fresh start in life ....just to start where no one knows you or where you come from or anything just mysterious.....good luck....your in my prayers
2007-03-18 11:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least 3 or 4 times every week of my life and in fact I have done it about 5 times in my life. Then I finally figured out that geography didn't have a thing to do with my state of mind since it didn't change much. But if the relationship is that bad and not repairable then get out. You said yourself you have the money and marketable job skills. Stop slighting yourself. You deserve to be happy.
2007-03-18 11:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lettie D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is so bad, that you want to leave....then do it. Make sure you can afford it, and know what and how to do it.
Sometimes, a fresh town to live in is beneficial to people, and sometimes it isn't. Every problem has a answer, so set down, and examine why your situation is bad, then try to get the best solution you can think of.
Sometimes a minister at a church can help guide you through rough times. Good luck to you.
2007-03-18 11:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i do all the time. i feel that way everytime life isnt going good for me i guess its my thought that never goes away but i want it to come back so quickly. it happens everytime you can change life or take something back. like i also wish i could turn back time and make things right. I always know i can restart my life..and fun away and start over. i felt that way when i first fell into a bad situation and i just wanted to run away but instead i stood still and cryed. and wished and wished ... i had the gutts to run awy and start over.
2007-03-18 11:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to run away from your place. You just have to get out of bad relationship and remember people change over time. Also, learn to make friends and your life will be back on track.
2007-03-18 11:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did feel that way momentarily. It was a huge wake-up call that it was a relationship that I had to get out of, to save my children and myself. Abandoning your children is a BAD idea. You will lose them, they will be enormously hurt, and then you will lose them in the courts. You can be pushed so far in a bad relationship, that crazy things go through your head. Get your self and your kids out of there!
2007-03-18 11:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have the finances to do so, and the ability of getting work elsewhere, go for it. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 11:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol well being a dad od 6, yes, but not off with anther women, i dream of a big cave so i could hide in lol
2007-03-19 01:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have considered it b4, but someone wise told me I need to face my problems and not runaway from them.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-18 11:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a good idea you need to be safe and happy
2007-03-18 15:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋