it sucks so bad. what should we do?!
2007-03-18 11:37:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop trying to have sex
if you are BOTH unable to climax, you are too young to have sex!
2007-03-18 11:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm is more for the female than for the male. In the case of men when they "Peak Out" they ejaculate. Almost All of them will need some rest and gap before they get the Desire to try another round!
It is not the case with women. They can get one after the other and enjoy them all. Imagine watching a bunch of Flamingos taking off!
Yet there are many women who have enjoyed having Sex but not able to define what Orgasm is all about.
PS. Have you not heard or read about how young girls get a lot of kick when they go cycling. It is the rubbing of the edge of the seat at your clitoris that starts the kick. Faster you do it faster is the bout of Orgasm!!
2007-03-18 18:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by cnsone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok If he cant orgasm that has nothing to do with you at all.... You not orgasming is not uncommon, women have a harder time reaching orgasm then men do, because we have to have certin spots hit and stuff like that. Only 20% of women can reach orgasm from sex alone. Most women need more than just sex, the need to feel close to Him, they need to feel wanted, and have the physical side of it too.
As far as him, he may not be orgasming because he is upset in some way about you not getting to orgasm.
Try more foreplay, and add some new stuff into your sex life, maybe some toys or some new postitions, and if you are not 'tight' enough for him do your kegals.... just simply squeeze for 8 seconds in reps of 10, its best to do it in a sitting posisiton.
Hope this helps :)
2007-03-18 18:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Speedybaby101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both should try some heavy petting, kissing, and love sounds BEFORE you get busy. Maybe even try watching a soft porn movie together during this time. While you're actually doing it stop and pet some more to build up the anticipation. Then do it some more. Maybe you two are trying too hard. If you're both under the age of 18, you shouldn't be doing it anyway.
2007-03-18 18:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't even get an orgasm all by yourself (masturbating) and are over 14years old, get yourselves checked out by some doctor or psychologist.
If you are under 14, wait some time with this sexual stuff!
2007-03-18 18:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old R U?!?!?!?! and if u can't orgasim then u shouldn't b having sex
2007-03-18 18:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing something wrong maybe look at some online sites that might help like these....
2007-03-18 18:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are not supposed to be fronicating anyway! Wait til you are married! Sounds like inexperience to me.
2007-03-18 18:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took some time on research, and found out this link, try it might help, you and him.
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/sexderogatis/636/no-orgasm-it-may-mean-poor-arousal
2007-03-18 18:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your ovaries are to young o produce eggs and your bfs pee-pee is to small.. doesn't mean you have to freak out!
2007-03-18 18:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋