Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Hi, this is kind of weird but it is a VERY serious question. I went to a strip club on Thursday night, and it was the second time I've ever been to a strip club. I just went because I was bored.

Right when I walked in, this gorgeous beauty caught my eye immediately. She also looked at me when I walked in, but she didn't say or do anything. I didn't go up to her or do anything either, I just found a seat and sat down.

It took her a while, but she came to my seat and we talked, she said that she didn't know whether or not to come over, then she asked me if I wanted a lapdance, I said "in a little bit" and then she came back in a little bit and she gave me a lapdance.

During the dance, she was licking my ears and we were talking about ourselves and then she mentioned something about phone numbers and going out, but I didn't know what to think. I didn't know what to say to her.

I'm thinking about going back this Thursday and seeing her again, what should I say/do? Does she like me?

2007-03-18 10:57:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that i "loved" and now he's disrespecting me and stuff like that. He's been sending me really bad messages and i sended some back too.Then his girlfriend got involved and my best friend got involved. We haven't talked since August and all i did was say how are you and he deleted it and it has been happening for sometime. Last time we talked was in . My friend said i shouldn't be treated that way but now everything is a mess. Its like its him/girlfriend Vs me/my best friend. I'm sick of it and i want to end it but i dont know how. Because i dont want to give it in to him and make him feel all victorious b/c he disrespected me and you should see all the nasty a** stuff he wrote to me and my friend even though then we did it back..

2007-03-18 10:57:27 · 3 answers · asked by reptar 3 in Friends

2007-03-18 10:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in general, i just bottle all things up show no emotion. but when i am alone with my girlfriend, it comes out.--things that irratate me during the day, she gets to hear about it--she gets to hear what i want to do to certain people (generally voilent things) she gets to hear things like how i feel--and plans for life, stuff that worries me, all that crap that i bottle up, i feel like i am being weak when i tell people this stuff. my girlfriend doesnt really say to much about it, she says she likes it when i talk.(i let her do a lot of talking too) but i feel like i am being weak when i do this. should i stopp?

2007-03-18 10:56:17 · 30 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

or not??? I'm just curious :-)

2007-03-18 10:56:13 · 22 answers · asked by alli224 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex who I havent seen since the breakup 3 months ago is in town. Last week I talked to her and she told me that we could see eachother one day this upcoming week. SInce then we kinda had a falling out (arugement) I havent really spoken to her since Thursday. Her bestfriend calls me today and I missed the call. When I returned his call he said hey how are you. He asked me what was I doing tonight. I told him I didnt know. He went on to tell me that my ex was intown. I said "thats good" he repeated me. Then he says oh speaking of her shes calling now I will call you back. Do you think she told him to call me and tell me that she was intown or do you think he was just telling me. Now mind you I dont talk to this guy at all. I just know he's bestfriends with my ex..

2007-03-18 10:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, There is this guy at school i really like . I have for 3 years, and all my friends know. Well, since school started this year . I met this new girl and now we are really really good friends. Well , i have been flirting with this boy for years and he finally started flirting back , But now my new friend comes , and in 7 days THEIR DATING!!! Is it bad that i'm jelious , i mean , she is my friend......? p.s. SHE TALKS ABOUT HIM 24/7! Its really getting annoying.

2007-03-18 10:55:07 · 3 answers · asked by mangagal1310 1 in Friends

Time to change the name?

2007-03-18 10:55:03 · 3 answers · asked by sixsgm 4 in Singles & Dating

OK,
I cant find one...but I cant from the internet. Probably there are other ways?
Tell me such and after a week after several women have slaped me in the face I wil come here again to complain :))).

2007-03-18 10:54:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nicest name would win!

2007-03-18 10:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by sixsgm 4 in Singles & Dating

what is it that u ladies like in us. Or, if ur in a relationship, what is it that u want to hear from us guys, i know the your beautiful and stuff, but like, what do u like to talk about and hear?

2007-03-18 10:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. i dunno why his mate keeps on bringing it up randomly.

2007-03-18 10:52:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know a lot of girls at school that always go out with guys. Either from a different town or our school (we live in a small town). However I am not like that. I am 14 and have never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I feel like I should be out there getting a boyfriend. sometimes I feel like I will never get a boyfriend because I live in a small town and I don't usually go to different towns that often. I like guys and I do have a few crushes but I don't really want a boyfriend right now. Am I weird? All of my friends don't have boyfriends but they did in elementary school. I don't know how that could be though.

2007-03-18 10:51:57 · 8 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for almost a year.we've had our rough times once we broke up for a while because i ended up hanging out to much with this other guy.But we got back together because we found ourselves missing each other.we were fine for a while after we got back together then he asked me to marry him I said yes because i don't know what i would do without him then after a week he started getting really mean he doesn't trust me at all he thinks that i'm going to cheat on him he never believes me when i tell him how much i love him and he's claims i show him no affection.Now he basicly tells me that i can't have any guy friends because he can't trust me with guys and he can't trust the guys.He also cuts his wrist he told me once it was my fault then he tried to tell me a week later he never said it was my fault.Then after we get in an argument and i start to bawl he tells me he's sorry and didn't mean it I don't know what to do. Is this just a phase?will it go on forever??

2007-03-18 10:51:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She LOVES butterflys

2007-03-18 10:51:45 · 16 answers · asked by Destiny R 3 in Family

I am athletic, funny, loving, brown hair, blue eyes, tan, and willing to stand up for my girl. this is a poll and wemon only/no gays

2007-03-18 10:51:26 · 21 answers · asked by dangling102 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a good friend (i thought) i met in my old college, we were friends for two years. She came to my dads funeral, and we talked and hung out all the time. Then she told me she was moving into a new apartment.. I called her and the operator said "the number has been dissconnected, no further information available" She never contacted me ever again.. WHY?

2007-03-18 10:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Friends

hangin out with friends or goin to the mall alone??

2007-03-18 10:50:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm black and i'm not trying to go against my own people. I really feel attractive to foreign girls.

2007-03-18 10:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by kedahoe1987 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:48:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:48:02 · 6 answers · asked by Keara K 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean my guy completely opened up to me, telling me things he never told anyone, not even his ex-wife. He opened up, wanted me to know what was going on in his head and life and practically living with me. Now he says I'm too controlling and want to know to much because I ask questions. Am I going crazy or what?? This man is not only the love of my life but my best friend of 6 yrs., and now he's cut out for 3 days, saying he needs space. I feel like I've entered the twightlight zone!!!! He's always been 'wishy-washy', its part of his personality, he is a gemini after all. But why shut out what he refers to as "the love of his life and best friend"? What gives?????

2007-03-18 10:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by ladilasvegas 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some people stay with the person they have been hurt by. I have this friend that hasn't learned her lesson I guess. This guy that she has been with for about 5 months has chested on her more than 4 times. Though when she breaks up with him, he usually calls her and askes her back out. She says then it is the samething over again. What should I do.? Why do people go back/or stay with the people that hurt them? Plz help me!

2007-03-18 10:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Singles & Dating

i saw a guy in my school and i really like him and i want to get his attention because he doesnt seem to realize i exist...hes not im my team or class...im usually with my friends and i see him a few times a day during breaks. i really cant go up to him and start talk to him becuase he doesnt even know me...hes gonna think its wierd... i dont even think hes ever seen me before when im RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM. i only know his name coz his friend called him...nothing els..please help!! thanks.

2007-03-18 10:47:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful man in my life and he loves hair. He loves it when I don't wear deodorant too. I don't mind giving him what he wants but I wonder if other men are like that too.

2007-03-18 10:46:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean, do we HAVE to get married? is it really necessary? can we be happy without being married? why do people get married? what do you think? single people only please, or else im just going to get "my husband and i have been married for 15 years and i have no regrets... blah blah blah." yeah, but what about all the other people who have divorced and such? so single, never married people only please!

2007-03-18 10:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by bornslippyboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you tell your boyfriend (with whom your crazy in love with) Some things he does that you don't like? I'm kinda afraid to say anything because I don't want him to think I love him any less because of them, but I think he should know. I'm kinda torn in between. Its really not my place to say anyway... Help????

2007-03-18 10:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Singles & Dating

so there's this guy that is two years older and he's really sweet, nice, funny, fun to be around, etc, and we like each other, we both know that much. we talk just about every day, usually on instant messenger, and apparently he said a few weeks ago to one of our mutual friends that i was pretty but i didn't talk v. much so now we've been talking quite a lot and i think i've opened up more now. the only thing is, i have a suspision(sp.?) that he thinks i'm either 1. weird-with opening up comes out the real me-and i do say weird things sometimes, not a lot, but i worry he thinks im odd. 2. a 'younger sister type'-i hope not but i worry about that too! or 3. too desperate-i'm not exactly sure i come off that way, but again, i worry, and i just don't want him to think of me as pushy, etc. anyway, we're going on a class trip in a couple months, and i want him to ask me out there, or atleast kiss me. what should i do? {p.s. never had a bf or kiss before}

2007-03-18 10:46:13 · 5 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating