Hi, this is kind of weird but it is a VERY serious question. I went to a strip club on Thursday night, and it was the second time I've ever been to a strip club. I just went because I was bored.
Right when I walked in, this gorgeous beauty caught my eye immediately. She also looked at me when I walked in, but she didn't say or do anything. I didn't go up to her or do anything either, I just found a seat and sat down.
It took her a while, but she came to my seat and we talked, she said that she didn't know whether or not to come over, then she asked me if I wanted a lapdance, I said "in a little bit" and then she came back in a little bit and she gave me a lapdance.
During the dance, she was licking my ears and we were talking about ourselves and then she mentioned something about phone numbers and going out, but I didn't know what to think. I didn't know what to say to her.
I'm thinking about going back this Thursday and seeing her again, what should I say/do? Does she like me?
2007-03-18 10:57:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please let me help you out here !!!! i have ran security in bars and skin joints for years !!!!! i have dated my share of dancers and 1st off you dont want the drama mate ! trust me !!!! 2nd i hate to be the one to break it to you but that is her m.o... that is what she does !!! every guy that walkes into that bar and she meets eyes with them she says the same thing to everyone of you !! that s how they keep getting your money and keep you coming back ??? i see it happen every night and im sorry mate but its the truth. she doesnt want to date you ...she wants you to spend money so she makes money ... most clubs dont pay there girlz anything they are "independent contractors". they rely solely on getting you hooked on them and not the other girl and get you to tip and buy private dances . the lap dances are mostly where they make there money. they get a % plus your tip to them . sorry bud but its how it works ? false affection opens a wallet mate ! if you wanna discuss im me phalsephate@yahoo.com
2007-03-18 11:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by phalsephate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strippers are working. First and foremost everyone has to understand this. Work relationships sometimes happen at any place of business. They will have emotional barriers set up because of how often they get hit on and offered on a daily basis. But in the end they are still human beings and develop feelings wither they like it or not. She has to feel comfortable with you and know that you're not like every other guy you don't care that she is a stripper and respect her regardless of her profession. You have to have the confidence to not care she dances for other men because you're good enough to know that she will want to come home to you. Most importantly you have to have chemistry and attraction. It doesn't matter who you are or what you do for a living if you have that special chemistry and attraction with someone there is always potential for a relationship. If you're just attracted to her cause she's hot you're just like every other guy and not much chance of anything happening.
2016-12-16 12:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by none 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to tell in the journey that they are being genuine with you or no longer. Strippers will do virtually something for money and strong assistance. they fairly a lot act like they prefer a number of guy in the position. more advantageous powerful to come across a woman that doesn't make money with assistance from displaying off her body to strangers.
2016-11-26 21:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine married a stripper she quit dancing and they have been married 15yrs with 2 kids he makes fairly decent money so they travel whenever they get a chance so her offer might be genuine if your interested go back and see what happens but play it by ear if she doesn't give you her phone number she was just giving you a line then I would just forget about it.
2007-03-18 11:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you spend money on her she will love you. you see her and if she doesnt accept your money she just dances with you she likes you. if she takes your money she is just working and wants to make you think she like you so you can still come back to give ehr more. she is a stripper she isnt someone you want ot bring home to mom or even for yourself. only sexual thing not a life commitment. think about it. if you are thinking of starting your life with a person like this then it wont workout. go back and see what happens but dont expect much.
2007-03-18 11:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She like you for your money. That is shows you how good she is at her job. The more money she gets the more she going to act like she has a thing for you. If you got money to throw away keep going back. I know you can find something better to do. Think with your big head.
2007-03-18 11:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by LDJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back and if you see her excahnge numbers and see what happens. But bear in mind, she might be doing this with a lot of other guys, and are you sure you wan't to date some gal who strips for a living? It's not as easy as you might think. Personally I wouldn't do it.
2007-03-18 11:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
david, her job is to suduce you and every man that walks in there. don't be fooled by her. do you really want date a woman that gives strange nasty men lapdances. she is a "dirty butt" that sticks her mouth all over dirty mens ears. if she really liked you,she wouldn't have charged you for the dance. go to chuch and find a good woman. god bless you man. your in my prayers.
2007-03-18 11:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya go back,,she will tease ya till ya spend a fortune on her,,but if you get a piece then go for it,,remember wear a condom
2007-03-18 11:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by lisadivirgilio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...no offence to any strippers, but do you really wanna get involved with someone with a career like this?
I've known a few strippers actually my best friends uncle owned a stip club and really a lot of them will do anything to make a few extra dollars.
2007-03-18 11:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋