Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

I am in a group of 6 friends We've been best friends for about 5 years. This year, one of them started treating me differently. Lets say her name is Amber. well, Amber started treating me like dirt. she makes everything i do a big deal and she always gets mad at me. after she's brutal to me, i admit i've said some pretty mean things back, but after i do, i ALWAYS apologize for what i said. but she can never forgive me. she did once and we were good for a couple months and now she's treating me like crap again. and now its not just me this time, its all of us but one. and i would just forget about her, but one of the people in our group of friends is her twin sister, "Allie". If I ever wanted to go over Allie's house, it would be Amber's too. she's ruining my friendship with not only Allie, but all of us because shes getting people in the middle of it. i just want to be a normal group of friends that love each other like sisters, but shes tearing us apart with her attitude! help!

2007-03-18 10:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by !mickdee 2 in Friends

2007-03-18 10:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by potters 1 in Family

Adopted adults?
tell me how yu are now? are you screwed up, are you successful, is there something that your guardians could of dont for yu that they didnt. thanx.

2007-03-18 10:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by CATWOMAN 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 10:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by prowelder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 in Friends

hi, i was wondering does he like me ? okay well idk but i'm just wondering. okay when we're in class, these groups of students left and it was only me and him in our row. i sat to the seat next to him and he didn't say anything. then when we were learning about pie (math term) and he asked me about how to do it, he kept asking and asing, and i explained and expalined. then after that we were joking around and i thought he said that i was ugly and i asked him "did u just say i was ugly ?" and he said "i'd never say that to u" and then about 15min later we were joking around again and this time he did say i was ugly and i went back one seat away from him and then he said "tey, i was just kidding,don't be so serious" and then i scooted back next to him and he was looking @ my project and asking me more questions. he complemented about the picture of me too, all nice and everything. so can u please tell me if he likes me ? my friend said we oughta go out but idk, i need 2 kno if he likesme

2007-03-18 10:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Victoria 3 in Singles & Dating

For instance if I have been talking about a guy I like or a girl I don't like or basically a problem that has been upsetting and I want to ask for advice anonymously....don't you ever get worried that someone you know will by chance find and look at your previous questions and work out it is you?

2007-03-18 10:33:51 · 18 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pretty good looking and extremely outgoing.I like to flirt.I sometimes call women I first meet dear or hun or sweetie if the conversation is going well.Some other times I'll just smile and say "thanks dear" to a waitress after taking my order or a "thanks sweetie" to a cashier girl after giving me back change.Does it offend you?

2007-03-18 10:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by one_man_gang2010 3 in Singles & Dating

I know a lot of girls at school that always go out with guys. Either from a different town or our school (we live in a small town). However I am not like that. I am 14 and have never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I feel like I should be out there getting a boyfriend. sometimes I feel like I will never get a boyfriend because I live in a small town and I don't usually go to different towns that often. I like guys and I do have a few crushes but I don't really want a boyfriend right now. Am I weird? All of my friends don't have boyfriends but they did in elementary school. I don't know how that could be though.

2007-03-18 10:33:36 · 2 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

wut do u love, fill in the blank!

2007-03-18 10:32:59 · 21 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Singles & Dating

So this guy i know sorrta flirts with me at work he throws stuff at me & will help me out , he will give me helpful tips,picks on me , but I cant read him cause I dont know if he is just nice cause he is my bro friend , he use to like me along time ago I know .... thats all tell me what you all think

2007-03-18 10:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by mommaknowsbest 4 in Singles & Dating

ur boyfriend/girlfriend tells you, why would i take sand to the beach?, a stone to the river?, or food to a banquet?!

2007-03-18 10:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by JB. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the thing guys i want to be another Beyonce just known as me. My mom thinks i should just stick with becoming a neo/natal nurse. (i think that is how u spell it). Well i have it all planned out i will go on American Idol in 2 more years. I will just start from there. I can sing like really good. I get complements from all my friends and family members. My friends are very honest and they wont lie to me. So i know i have what it takes to be the next R &B singer. My question is what should i stick with my dreams or what my mom says!!!!!!

2007-03-18 10:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that will be a nice thing to say

2007-03-18 10:31:34 · 9 answers · asked by shernellpiplow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister always steals my clothes and never returns them. i usually have to go into her room to get them back. when i tell my mom she tells my sister not to take them and my sister doesn't listen to her. i told my sister to ask to boorow things but she doesn't. i dont want ther wearing my clothes because then i have to was them because she always gets them dirty. i just want to lock my dresser and closet so my sister cant get to the clothes. my mom said no. i have begged and told her that my sister doesn't listen to her and that i would pay for it myself but she keeps saying no. how can i convince her to let me.

2007-03-18 10:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by bendy_yoga_girl 1 in Family

We're close friends and I know he likes me because he tells me he finds me attractive regularly. He also flirts with me whenever we're together. However despite my best efforts, nothing seems to happen. I'm not quite sure what I find so sexy about him - he's not especially attractive but he just seems so alluring and makes me feel something I never feel when we're apart.
But sometimes I can't help but think he is only using me and sees me as another girl. It's not that he acts in a way to make me believe that, but he does have a reputation, and when he was with his ex, he would try and make a move on me regularly, despite me telling him I wasn't interested.
I know it's foolish to say someone has changed but I truly believe he isn't the same person as he was then and when I'm with him he makes me feel like the most important person in the world, like he would do anything to make me smile. I'm just so confused? Any ideas? Please, they would be more than welcome!

2007-03-18 10:30:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:30:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has 2 guys who both like her at the same time and she doesn't want to be with either of them b/c of the issue that this created. So me and her came up with solution to get these two guys to move on.

2007-03-18 10:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend are very close, i think, and have been together for only almost a year but i love her and she always tells me she loves me. sometime last year, when we were only together for like a month, she told me she liked another guy. she said she didnt think it was a big deal because we wernt together that long. once she told me she liked this other guy she talkd to me alot less on the computer and stoped asking me to hang out and hung out with him instead. during the next few days i was on vacation and barley spoke to her during the day so i am clueless to what she did with him. one day i even saw a text messege on her cell phone that said something like 'i was so tempted to ask you after we hooked up' from this guy and she responded saying 'im such a tease'. she swears that she never kissed him and i dont remember if the messege said exactly that so i dont know what to think. after hours of begging and talking i finally convinsed her to chose me over this other guy. she later told me that she only liked him because he was 'hot'. although this incident tore me apart emosionaly i remained in our relationship because i loved her (acording to her she only 'liked' me at the time) and believed her when she told me it wouldnt happen again. less than a month later she told me she still loved this other guy she liked alot before she met me. during this time i wittnessed her go in a parked car with him, both in the front seats, and remain in the car for like 20min. she says that all they did was talk but i dont know what to think. once again, after begging her to take only me she again promised nothing would happen again and apologized. i again believed her, but about one month later she told me that she thought one of my friends was 'hot'. this made me mad and upet and i told her i wanted out of the relationship. this time she begged me to stay and got her friends to tell me to keep her until i decided to give her one more chance. although nothing has happend since the last incident (about 6 months ago) i am always afraid she will do it again especially because she hangs out with so many different guys (alot more guys than girls) and some of them have reputations for using girls for sex. i asked her to stop talking to some of the guys that i thought woukd make an attempt to get with her and she has but idk if shes lying or not. she is also talking about goin to florida with some girls for a week and i dont feel comfortable with it and i told her that but she said shes going anyway. i love this girl to death and she tells me she loves me all the time but i dont trust her when it comes to other guys. i always have flashbacks and dreams about what happened in the past or think that shes doing something when she doesnt answer her cell phone. another think im not comfortable with is that 2 of her best friends have hooked up with other guys behind their boyfriends backs and im afraid that she will do the same, although she swears she wont. i dont think i can get over this girl and i think id be even more upset than i already am if i left her. please help me. i need to know the truth that she may be hiding from me and i need to find a way that i can trust her around other guys and believe her when she tells me she would never cheat on me. thank you so much for reading this whole thing and helping me resolve this issue.

2007-03-18 10:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i let her see my mp3 but hen when i try to get it back she plays around and wont do so till its time to leave. then also she'll be grabin my butt and sayin its juicy. she will also try to sit next to me too (real close). other times shell be mean to me. im confused.

2007-03-18 10:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you like in a girl????????

2007-03-18 10:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by [kiki]licious 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been with my guy for 2 1/2 yrs now, but it seems he just doesnt ever say he wants to be around me or anything, he doesnt even pay attention to me anymore? what to do to make him want me more?

2007-03-18 10:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there's this guy that i like and he likes me, well he says he loves me, but he won't ask me out cuz he's a grade ahead of me and we hardly ever see each other. so should i wait til next year, or should i forget about him?????

2007-03-18 10:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

just say the way and how you do it

2007-03-18 10:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a young lady decides she wants to get married, but marrys
an older guy, does she know why she's doing this? Not too many stay married, but there are those who do. I wonder if
there are any out there who have?

2007-03-18 10:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by shootthebreeze1006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My divorce will be final in 3 weeks. My ex has been telling me she meet someone and is in love which is fine. The other day I emaild her I wouldnt have any more contact with her but she could call me and say Hi anytime she wanted. She called right away. The day after she insisted I sign our final papers and she would turn them in on the due date. I agreed but told her I would sign only after getting stuff that was agreed would be returned to me. That day she inisted I sign first and I would receive my stuff later. All of this started the day after I quit whinning I wanted her back and let her know I was happy she found someone.. She has now inisted I have stuff that belongs to her, which we both know I dont (She couldnt even describe items) and today we were suppossed to meet to return my stuff and sign the paper. She called to cancel. Its seem she is putting off giving my stuff back because after that she would have no reason to contact me. Anyone have an idea on her behavior?

2007-03-18 10:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would it bother you if they carried on a conversation with another parent of the opposite sex?
Only answer if you can be honest.

2007-03-18 10:26:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you know i luve you .i don't why ur madd at me but i still love you Ian

2007-03-18 10:25:53 · 2 answers · asked by mizz.puertorico 2 in Singles & Dating

I think a girl likes, Here's why. She had me meet her mom and her aunt. She says to me that I'm very sophisticated. She has taken numerous photos of her with a friend with my phone. Previously she's asked if I had a girlfriend, I've said no.

So what should I do?

2007-03-18 10:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating