Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Basically me and my 1st real love have been broken up for a yearmonths. I went on with my life for a while and did not contact her. She has had a bf for about 6 months or so now so that complicates things. The problem is she kept calling, texting and emailing me at work which I ignored. She then would leave me messages crying so I made the mistake of calling her. She was saying how she thought she thinks she made the wrong decision. I told her I dont want her to feel bad and we should move on. The following wkend she calls drunk saying how she loves me wanting to hook up and everything. This got my hopes up and we spoke the next day but she acted as if nothing happened. Saying she is happy w/ her bf and it wouldnt be fair to him as there has been no problems in there relationship for her to breakup with him. I am so confused and feel I am back to square one. How would you proceed? I care about her but cant let my heart get broken time and time again.

2007-03-18 10:11:34 · 18 answers · asked by yeeeehaw4 2 in Singles & Dating

it's like we're more than friends...we talk about deep stuff
and he seriously has reason to suspect that i REALLLLLY like him...but before letting it all loose...is there a way i could sneakily find out how HE feels about me w/o letting him know i like him?!?????

2007-03-18 10:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never had a "serouis" bf. But I really want one...But, I have a hard time getting comfertable woth someone..Plus,I hate talking on the phone so how would i solve that problem? haha I know this is weird..and I am only 13 and never even kissed a boy... no rush too..but still..

p.s
Going to be in HS inlike 2 months so...yeah..lol

and don't say "wow you are really young you don't need to worry about that stuff" PLEASE!

2007-03-18 10:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy 2 in Singles & Dating

I`m feeling a bit confused about a guy so would like your opinions please.He gave me his number last week and we had been texting and calling each other.He said he really liked me and didn`t care about the fact i have a son as he wanted to take me out at least once to get to know me.

He then text me on friday and said that he is interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just let him know.He text me again later on and asked if he could call me soon but my battery went dead and he didn`t call,i sent him a text the following day and explained what happened and he didn`t reply.

My mum saw him last night in his work and got talking to him but she said he wasn`t his usuall chatty self and he told her he`d give me a call.He then text agin and asked if he could call me soon and i said yes,he didn`t call.So i just sent a text today and said if he`s not interested it`s totally fine and not to worry about it and he hasn`t even replied.Has he lost interest do you think,help??

2007-03-18 10:11:10 · 11 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

Physically, emotionally, and/or mentally.

2007-03-18 10:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Young P 1 in Singles & Dating

So i met this guy online a few months ago and met him about 3 weeks ago. We have only met twice. Yesterday he came over to my place and we hung out for awhile and just talked. Later that night we watched finding nemo (yeah i know ... were in college and watching finding nemo)... anyways, during the movie we were just cuddling and he had his head rested on mine and his arm around me. When the movie was over he tilted my head up and kissed me. When we were done with our little make out time he held me in his arms and kissed my forhead. What does this mean? Does he like me or was he just looking for some action?

2007-03-18 10:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by confuzzeled88 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:08:55 · 34 answers · asked by *rawr* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by wes m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:08:29 · 59 answers · asked by sandbag1972 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 10:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by prowelder 1 in Singles & Dating

I would ask him out, but it depends if he is worth it, because if he really liked me, he would have the nerve to ask me out before I asked him.

2007-03-18 10:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by [kiki]licious 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he is my best friend. Although I don't know how I can get him to notice me. Plz help.

2007-03-18 10:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy Dylan and we kiss and hug and tell eachother how much we like one another but he doesn't want a gf he says he doesn't wanna feel tied down to one girl i know for a fact who else he like and i know he doesn't see anyone else im 13 he's 14 so i know theres no way he can or does kiss any other girls...so doi get over him or stick aroung like he wants me 2?...some times it does sorta hurt tho even tho its so great between us

2007-03-18 10:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by chelsea bug 2 in Singles & Dating

She has a boyfriend, and you were laying together, girls: would you have kissed him if you felt like you wanted to? ---guys: would you have kissed her? tell me why if you would Not. I felt that if I did kiss her, I would feel like I would be ruining her relationship with the bf and feel somewhat bad about it- What do you girls think about that? I know I may seem like a wuss, but for some reason, I always think about others feeling more than I think of how it would be good for me. should I change that? We are really good friends, and couldn't see my life without her in any way.

2007-03-18 10:06:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hypothetical situation: Say you were in high school, and you had really overprotective parents, and they wouldn't let you go out and do things (even hang out with friends). What if a guy has on a couple of occasions has asked you to hang out with him...and the last time he did you told him why you couldn't. If you really liked this guy, what would you do?

2007-03-18 10:05:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend lives on the other side of the atlantic. i didn't have a choice i had to move because of my father.

she wants to date other people but not break up. She wants the both of us to be happy and have fun. she said that if we see each other in the future " which i'll try to do" we will be happy together.

my question is, how can i date other people, and what is the limit. you know hugs, hold hands, all that stuff....

2007-03-18 10:05:29 · 5 answers · asked by JC MI 38 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents dont wanna let me have my PC in my own room. Well before i had one in my room and when i got a brand new one my parents said that its not a nice idea to have it in my own room. Plz some help i wanna have it in my room. How can i convince them that its a good idea to have it in my room.???

2007-03-18 10:05:09 · 7 answers · asked by LoliTaa 1 in Family

Mothers’ day is coming, please tell me, is this a good idea, I sell Avon and my brother gave me this idea... (He said it would work for the men who just don't know what to get... and the men who work too late to go shopping...) make gift baskets... and do a "build your own basket" or a “You pick the price” where you tell me what you want in the basket and I put it together. And charge...

Ex.
Small basket: $1.50 plus the cost of the Avon products.
Medium basket: $2.50 plus the cost of the Avon products.
Large basket: $3.50 plus the cost of the Avon products.

Do you think this would work???

would it work in a small town???

2007-03-18 10:04:47 · 2 answers · asked by girl_of_your_dreams_1331 4 in Family

I have always been the one to make sure my mother and father n law gets to see my children, which they have several other ones to. But every time the other grandchildren have a birthday or something else going on in their life, my inlaws make a big deal of it and have to buy them the biggest and best gift there is. Then when its time for my childrens birthday they dont even so much as achknowledge them with a phone call, my children used to ask me why but now as they have grown older they seem to understand how it goes. I just want to know what i can do to make this change, it hurts me to know that my children are secretly hurting

2007-03-18 10:04:25 · 15 answers · asked by shelly l 2 in Family

This is a two part question. I have to keep suggesting things for me and my partner to do, we have been seeing each other for a year now and it's like he is not interested in going out anywhere, he never goes out with his mates and it's ok to snuggle up with him when I come round to his place but sometimes it would be nice if he would suggest that we go out or he take me out, I have asked him why he dosen't ever want to do anything and he just says he dosen't like going out really, don't know if im sounding unfair but he's only 20 and im 24 and most of the time when I get to his we will watch tv and he might occasionally huge and kiss me but does that also mean because he doesn't kiss and huge me often that he is going off me, asked him and he said that he just feels more comfortable in our relationship and we don't need to show each other we love each other all the time?

2007-03-18 10:04:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just curious.

2007-03-18 10:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Singles & Dating

I was coming back from the movies with my best guy friend and he turned towards me and said I've a surprsie 4 u.and he played 3 love songs for me ( Promise, Walked outta heaven and Let's get married these are all by Jagged Edge. AND this happens 2 be one of my most favorite R&B groups he knows that and he likes them too. And well we both like each other. could this be a sign that maybe he wants us to be "official" cuz his sung other love songs to me before and it was really sweet too.and I was really flattered

2007-03-18 10:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Bluey07 5 in Singles & Dating

We talk all the time and he and talk about music and poems i have even showen him some of my poems and he really likes them but I'm worred A) that he dosen't like me or B) he thinks I have a boyfriend which I don't buy I do hang around my guy friend alot so I can see where that is comming from too. So can anyone help me? Please.

2007-03-18 10:03:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys do you prefer tall girls or short girls?

2007-03-18 10:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie S 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked him way bak, that if we broke up wud we still be friendsz? nd he said no. Is there any way, a way that i can break up with him, that wont hurt him so bad, and let him still be my friend?

2007-03-18 10:03:18 · 10 answers · asked by xoxopriyanka 1 in Singles & Dating

we were in the middle of this conversation (he was being rather flirty) and then i said something and he goes "my parents would like you"

erm, what? what does he mean? this was the first time we've talked and we've never even met before...

2007-03-18 10:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend/ex got married to another guy one month ago. We had a relationship for 4 years, although 1/2 of it was international. She lived in the U.S. however when her visa was expiring, I didn't feel ready to get married. It was never about another girl, I just didnt feel ready. I know she suffered greatly when she went back home, as I wouldn't marry her, but we still maintained the relationship. So, for the past 1 1/2 years I have gone to visit her about 5 times (the last time was in Dec). I told her I finally felt ready to get married and that I would come back in Feb. (last month) to do it. Obviously she didnt trust me as I still never married her all this time. I found out so sadly from a friend that she was engaged to some other guy she met, I went to try to stop the wedding, but she wouldnt change her mind. She told me she loved me but just never thought I would marry her. I am SOOO sad as she wont be my wife. I miss her!! It is just too hard to move on, what can I do?

2007-03-18 10:02:19 · 31 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with my best friend for 14 years. The last 8 have been on and off again. We don't argue or disagree often. She is bipolar, and when she is up, she is way up. When she is down, she is way down. She rarely calls, or emails. I am always initiating the calls and conversations. When I tell her the friendship feels one sided, she says she is sorry and will try harder, but nothing changes. Most of the time, she doesn't even return my calls for weeks or even months!!! She also says I am not supportive of her condition. What else do I do? I think by standing by her, and being there for her shows my support. I love her dearly, but I feel like I am holding on to nothing at this point.

2007-03-18 10:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Friends

This is what my ex has done.. As I was sleeping she managed to get in my apartment , sat on my computer chair and watched me sleep while my current girlfriend was sleeping next to me. This was like 3 am.. Is this ***** psyco?

2007-03-18 10:01:39 · 25 answers · asked by Firas 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who I have had a crush since I started high school.We started talking once we first met.Now I have known him for over 7 months.We have gotten pretty comfortable being around each other.He is now my best guy friend!He always likes to make me laugh and loves to challenge me.A few times a week we have tickling wars and he always tries to tickle me. We have held hands a few times during the tickling wars.But after I had first met him he had a "church thing girlfriend".What does that mean?He gave me a hug just 2 days ago. And a day ago he had his arm around my waist.Now he and I flirt more and more everyday.He flirts with me every chance he can get!I can't help but wonder if he likes me and doesn't know that I like him or he just thinks of me as a friend.I have tried to hint that I like him and sometimes I think it works and sometimes I don't know. What do you think?How to I tell him I like him without ruining our friendship? Thanks for answering!

2007-03-18 10:01:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating