Do you think my ex is psyco?

Question

This is what my ex has done.. As I was sleeping she managed to get in my apartment , sat on my computer chair and watched me sleep while my current girlfriend was sleeping next to me. This was like 3 am.. Is this ***** psyco?

Also I'm very worried about the safety of my girld friend.

Well the reason why my and I broke was because we didn't get along. We always faught over the dumbest things. She was way too controlling, telling me what to wear and what to eat. I just couldn't take it. We were together for almost 4 years. I just needed control of my own life and not being controlled.

oops didn't check for typo what I meant to say was "The reason why my gf and I broke up"

Answer 1

I think very psyco, but my wife is next to me and said it seems perfectly reasonable to her!!!!!

Answer 2

There is two sides to every story and then there is the truth. You didn't mention what happen to you two that you broke up with her. Say from a hypothetical point that you are the one that broke up with her and she was the innocent victim.

This action by her is to show you that she could have easily done some thing to you both or only you while you two slept; this also was a wake up call for you both as well as your new girlfriend in asking her self questions about your Ex and you still having some subtle issues that are unresolved.

She as well could have been the one in a hypothetical way that did some thing and you had no choice to take your actions of finding some one new in your life. In some break ups things can end up bad for the new person in your life or to you both; if things are not done in a humane way.

let me say again that I'm writing from a point of ignorance as well as from a hypothetical point of view as i don't know the facts about you and your Ex.

My point is that there is no way of saying your ex is psycho as it could be some thing done to her by you that turn her into that epithet you call her; or she on the other hand could have done some thing.
Unless there is no information as to who did what why and when i rest my case.

Answer 3

YES, but also sounds like she is obsessed with you, which is really, really bad. I've lived through all this with my ex husband when I divorced him, and he would break-in and I would wake-up and he would be standing there over me watching me. I would call the police ect..which he had them all wrapped around his finger, so it did no good. I changed locks, had a restraining order ect...with no luck, he stalked me, for years, and it's been 18 years, and I have twins by him in college now, and when we divorced, I got full custody and he got visitation rights supervised...which still after 18 years, he will call, which he isn't supposed to even call or anything, come around, which I finally found someone his family and him were not intimidated by, but, after all these years, he will try and call up and say, I just heard a song from the eighties and it reminded me of you....I mean, me and my kids had to go into hiding, literally from everyone eventually to get away from him and him even having a restraining order would break the window to get in ect...it was scary stuff, and they sound like they are obsessed with you, and yes, psyco too...don't play around with this, it can be very, very dangerous...the law now is so much better than when I went through all this, first she broke into your house, that's breaking and entering, two, she is sitting there watching you with another person sleeping in the bed, that's just something right there to set her off the deep end, and third get a restraining order and get new locks...I mean like asap...don't play around with this...if she is doing this, and you are letting her do this you are the psyco, because, she evidently isn't over you, and normal people, even not so normal don't want to see the ex with anyone, much less sit there watching them...I'm just being honest with you lived through pure you know what while my kids were growing up, and still to this day, 18 years, I'm all the time in Court with him...he won't and can't let go, and vowed he would have me one day or another or noone would, and I've yet remarried, because, he still is always around, even though I'm in a different city, but, knows he will go to jail....he's stuck a gun to my head, ect...I know this sounds like a movie, but, this is real life to me, and you don't need this going on, go get a restraining order...maybe this gets you off, which I doubt because you wouldn't be asking this question, take it from someone who now can't hear because I was so naive and he beat me all the time when we were married, did drugs ect...but, the fact of the matter is people like this, are mentally unstable, and you don't know what they will do, and what their breaking point is, and it's usually when you least expect it...please go to the police...don't bother dealing with her, don't answer the phone, secure your place as much as possible, even get an alarm system, but, don't even bother with her, that's what she wants, she wants you to talk to her, ect...that is what she wants and the way to get her away is call the police, get a restraining order, and let them deal with her, or you and your friend might end up dead...I'm just being honest...don't play around with this, good luck...and stay safe.

Answer 4

Yes

Answer 5

Yes

Answer 6

Hi, I would say the girl needs help and I would suggest you getting some kind of an alarm because if the girl is that crazy over you hell the next time she could do something really ****** up.

Chow.

Answer 7

Well yes it's weird ..but when someone is in love he just does a lot of strange stuff ..we all did ..maybe not that weird ..but it's always about someone that you love ..
You better talk to her otherwise she'll do it more and more again..and you don't want that kind of surprises ..!!!!
Talk to her ..ask her why did she act taht way ..and what is she expecting from you ..u r already in a realtionship ..!!!!
Maybe she'll understand this way how humiliating was what she did ..

Answer 8

it sounds like you and your current gf could have some issues if you dont get rid of the old one, that is just a little over the edge for a normal person to do something like that

Answer 9

Change the locks and get a restraining order immediately. That is just totally weird. I wish I knew what happened when you woke up...

Answer 10

She is obviously very obsessed with you and wants to stalk you. I'd lock all windows and doors (change the locks if she might have a key) and stay away from her.