Hypothetical situation: Say you were in high school, and you had really overprotective parents, and they wouldn't let you go out and do things (even hang out with friends). What if a guy has on a couple of occasions has asked you to hang out with him...and the last time he did you told him why you couldn't. If you really liked this guy, what would you do?
2007-03-18 10:05:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have my parents talk to him and his parents to see if he is a good type of guy I would be aloud to hang out with, as long as my parents know what I'm doing or where I'm going.
2007-03-18 10:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by [kiki]licious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my parents about him. Then, I would explain what has happened so far. Most overprotective parents would want you to get to know him better. You need to tell this guy that your parents are overprotective too. (This is sometimes great to tell, because then you find out if he really likes you or is just looking for something else.) Remember, if you like him, you wouldn't be afraid to show him to anyone.
2007-03-18 17:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school, we had our own little group of about 10-20 kids who hung out together all the time. Nearly every weekend in the summer time, they use to go this old water hole in the national park to swim. I was the only one that wasn't allowed to go, firstly because I couldn't swim, and secondly because there was no adults going with them. I use to get so upset about this, but of course I obeyed my parents wishes. I eventually was so glad that my parents didn't let me go, because about six of the girls ended up getting pregnant before marriage. This was what my parents were really protecting me from, and I will be eternally grateful to them.
2007-03-18 17:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how old you are. But, talk to your parents and ask if they supervise, if you can hang out with him. Maybe invite him over for a family dinner or something similar. Then they can learn to trust him and see that he's not a bad guy. This could lead to them trusting you more, and possibly letting you hang out with him alone later on. Just talk rationaly with your parents and don't do anything behind their backs - it will just make things worse for you later.
2007-03-18 17:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by jhawk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately introduce him 2 ur parents! It is really hard 2 get permission 4 anything if u sneak behind their backs! Trust me! And try 2 help out as much as u can around the house, then u can prove how responsible u r!
2007-03-18 17:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by RoCkMyWoRlD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him the truth about my parents but at the same time I would beg my parents to let me hang out with this guy and woulden't stop until they said I could
2007-03-18 17:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Does♥He♥Love♥Me♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to my parents about it and introduce the guy to them so they could see that he was a good person. If my parents didn't even let me hang out with girls, then I'm sure they won't let me hang out with guys. I'd try to persuade them.
2007-03-18 17:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by xosweetcindyxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..honestly imma give u my opinion on wat i would do...i would tell my mom im going to hang with my friends, and if she lets me go, i would find a way to spend some time with him...but if ur mom doesnt let you then you have to talk to her(its not gonna be easy) but let her kno why she doesnt let you hang with friends..and if its based on "trust" tell her that your gonna let her kno everything your doing, even if its spending time with a guy, and call her every once in a while to let her kno your "okay" mayb she worries a lot..? I kno my parents do, they just recently let me go out with my b/f places without having to bring my little sister or something, and thats because i told her the trust, and call her...;) good luck!
2007-03-18 17:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go because I told him and if he really cares he will respect whatever I have told him. If I seem tempted and I seem as though I really want him to beg me to go so I can go and not feel guilty about it he may catch on and he may pressure me into going of course that is if I have already pre planned to defy my parents and go to be with him in the first place. I personally wouldn't go but that's just me.
2007-03-18 17:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always hang out at school and i mean talk to your parents... your getting around that age your parents need to let go a little
2007-03-18 17:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by cherrrybm101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋