My friend has 2 guys who both like her at the same time and she doesn't want to be with either of them b/c of the issue that this created. So me and her came up with solution to get these two guys to move on.
2007-03-18 10:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So me and her came up with the solution**
2007-03-18 11:01:23 · update #1
Tell them straight up, that although they are nice guys and she still wants to remain friends in the future, that being boyfriend and girlfriend just won't happen.
2007-03-18 10:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to my friend as well, and even though she really didn't want to be involved with the whole issue, she ended up going with one of the guys anyway. as for the other guy, they're still sort of friends, and he's learning to move on. see if your friend likes one of the guys, or if she's just not interested. if she does like one of them, have her slowly get closer to that guy, but be sure to be gentle to the other guy :]
2007-03-18 17:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn how to speak and write properly for a start!!!
Just tell the two of them and put them out of their misery
2007-03-18 17:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be completely honest with both of them. That's the only way she'll be able to move on and they'll move on.
2007-03-18 17:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you just want to be friends and date other people.
2007-03-18 17:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you allow them to have "hope", they will continue to try, because this is better than "no hope". Therefore, REMOVE ALL HOPE. Period. Be honest. Be open. Be firm when you say, "Be Gone!".
2007-03-18 17:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how you feel and that you dont want either one
2007-03-18 17:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And?
I move on if the girls signal me.
2007-03-18 17:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar...learn proper ENGLISH !
2007-03-18 17:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him what they what they want once and dump them so they'll feel stupid and don't want you no more.
If you just go ahead and tell them off, they'll want it more...
2007-03-18 17:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋