So theres this guy?

Question

that i "loved" and now he's disrespecting me and stuff like that. He's been sending me really bad messages and i sended some back too.Then his girlfriend got involved and my best friend got involved. We haven't talked since August and all i did was say how are you and he deleted it and it has been happening for sometime. Last time we talked was in . My friend said i shouldn't be treated that way but now everything is a mess. Its like its him/girlfriend Vs me/my best friend. I'm sick of it and i want to end it but i dont know how. Because i dont want to give it in to him and make him feel all victorious b/c he disrespected me and you should see all the nasty a** stuff he wrote to me and my friend even though then we did it back..

Answer 1

Don't stoop to his and his gf's level. I know it's hard. There are a lot of emotions involved and when someone insults/disrespects you...The first thing you want to do is get back at the person and to defend yourself. But from what I hear...And again, I don't know the entire situation...You need to take a step back. Clear your head and move on. You don't need to be associating with these type of people. They are immature with how they have been dealing with this problem...You have been too in playing along with them...But you can be the bigger person out of all of this and walk away. Let them have their "victory." You are better than that and they are not worth a min. of your time. Hold your head up high and let this experience teach you something...Sometimes the best solution is to just leave it be.

Answer 2

find something else to do with your time other than worrying about the guy, his girlfriend, and their messages....

ignore it... and go to a movie.

Answer 3

i think you need to forget about him... theres no point in wasting your time thinking about him when he obviously doesnt care about you. be the bigger person and end it by cutting off contact etc