How do you tell your boyfriend (with whom your crazy in love with) Some things he does that you don't like? I'm kinda afraid to say anything because I don't want him to think I love him any less because of them, but I think he should know. I'm kinda torn in between. Its really not my place to say anyway... Help????
2007-03-18 10:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honest... honest... honest.. communication is the key... u can love him but what ever he is doing that u dont like it has to stop b4 u get hurt, dont be scare of telling him for what he may think well in my opinion if he gets upset because of ur honesty he does not really appriciate u he is with u bcz u let him get away with it if he cares then with no problem will try to improve. U know that movie"as good as it gets" at the end it is said "U make me want to be a better man" when we love we want to be better thatn we are for are good and the good of the person we are with...
2007-03-18 10:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is how you time it. Pick a time when the two of you are alone and feeling good and then just say
" Honey,I love with you deeply and that will never change ,But would you mind not........... it would mean a lot to me " Then kiss him and let it go. But you know you will HAVE to Gently remind him from time to time cause god help us we are men !!! Just dont make it seem like nagging or he will just give up trying to please you !!
2007-03-18 10:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by russ_russ_kautzman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him
set him down and tell him in a nice way and ask him if there are things that you do that he doesn't like so you give him some ground to
you really don't want to be the girl who let it go so long that one day you just explode and yell at him for it and he had no clue it bothered you
do you?
2007-03-18 10:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is your place to say. you can say what you want. if something is bothering you you should be able to tell him. if you tell him that you don't love him any less over this stuff then he should understand... that is if he is a real man and can take it.
2007-03-18 10:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, try not to sound mean or anything but be honest with your feelings towards what he's doing.
2007-03-18 10:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by remrii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem with him?
Anyways you talk to him about it dont hold it back because it might never stop
2007-03-18 10:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by kels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him in the nicest way. try telling him on a date, say "if i tell you annoying things you do you can tell me mine and we'll both try to stop whatever it is."
2007-03-18 10:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lily A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re-ask this question and tell what it is that he does that you dont like. b/c it really depends on how serious whatever he does is that you cant stand.
2007-03-18 10:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in a nice way and remind him that you love him
2007-03-18 10:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, why do all the women want to lie..
2007-03-18 10:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋