im 20 yrs old, muslim and been with my bf who i thought i was going to marry for a year. However, things have never really been that good, we always argue, we are completely different, and now im scared of his temper coz of the heated arguments. i have really low self esteem, i think im ugly and spend most of my time looking at beautiful girls and wishing i was them. I think my bf could do better, and now i think he realises that. We use to spend lots of time together but now he doesnt bother any more, and hes ignored me for two days now, and we havent had an argument he just hasnt called me. I know all the signs are there that we should break up, but both of us say thats not what we want (he is my first love), but i think its what we actually want. I feel like i need him now, and i get so sad and depressed when he ignores me, but i know we are not right together. I dont want to lose him as i lost my v to him which is very important 2 me,and love him so much. Please help..
2007-03-18 11:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by yo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-18 11:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can definitely relate to this is some aspects.
Ok first you should talk to him (Do this in person) and tell him how you feel and that you are extremely hurt. Tell him that you want to try to work things out and that you both need to learn how to agree on certain things. Say that he doesn't make you feel beautiful and that every girl needs that. If he seems to ignore it and doesn't change within a few days then the next step is to pretend that you don't care, see if he comes around. I found this to help with my current relationship. Go out with your friends, have fun, and don't call him until he calls you. If he still doesn't come around then you should break up with him because it seems like he is drifting away from you...I mean not to call you and ignore you? Why would he do that?? Temper can also be a real problem and it seems like he won't change that because he doesn't care.
I know how you feel. Me and my boyfriend used to be perfect but now he doesn't bother anymore with calling, seeing me, or making me feel special. That's why I am considering moving on.
Hope that helped :) And don't worry! I'm sure you're really pretty!! If you're silly and don't think you are, try to change your look a little, like for example hair and make up see what works for you because it's a great way to build your self-esteem :)
2007-03-18 18:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel like. You should list our the good and bad things about him. Which ever side has the most things listed down you should go with that one.Take good things as you should not break up and bad things as you should break up.
2007-03-18 18:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Akb<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-18 18:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋