I was married to an alcohlic for four yrs. he lied all the time, cheated on me endlessly, stole from my friends, got very nasty when drunk, howver we did have lots of good times as well as our daughter. I divorced him because the lies were just too much, also he was always drunk or stoned and abusive on it. very abusive. He wouldn't get a job, and blamed everyone for evrything.I knew it was for the best.
3 weeks ago we met up, he told me he made he biggest mistake of his life leaving me, how much he adored me etc.. in fact he said it all night. We slept together. the next morning he asked to move back in. I said I wasn't ready, it was way too fast. Now he has a job. I asked for child support he said he couldn't afford it.
The next night he rang up drunk very abusive. So i avoided his calls for a few days. Then I got a text saying, I've met someone else I'm really happy I've moved on. Goodbye.
I know it's for the best but why the doubts, why do I feel so upset about it all?
2007-03-18 11:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by flumoxed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's "messing with your mind"! As much as it hurts,you've got to stop allowing him to do that!
2007-03-18 11:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel low and upset. You went through alot with this person. You spent four years with him and have a child together. You gave it your all and it didn't work out and that itself has to be disappointing.. It will take some time, but it will get better.
Good Luck.
2007-03-18 11:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he played you!!!
Screw him. Move on. He sounds like a control freak and you sound like you are about to give him all your soul should you stay around him and his negative abusive behavior. He is emotinally abusing you and it will lead physical abuse sooner if not later.
2007-03-18 11:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel that way because you let him back in and got hurt again
and i am sorry that happened
please try your best to move on
since he has "another" sue him for support! he has a job
2007-03-18 11:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the place is the evidence in that? in case you provide those illegals amnesty of even a visa to paintings dont you think of they could be contributing to their own funds? Isnt that assertion based fullyyt on what-ifs?
2016-12-18 17:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you were prepared to take a risk and now you are feeling somewhat rejected. you need to sue his *** for child support. your daughter deserves at least that much from him.
2007-03-18 13:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋