what should i do
2007-03-18 11:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be more confident in yourself and start talking to girls more. read tips on flirting and dating to help you better on this site
2007-03-18 11:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh young Nick! You 'want' a girlfriend, but you DO NOT 'need' one. You're at that awkward age to where most of your friends are dating, your not and you feel 'left out'. Don't let this kind of crap bother you. You need to concentrate right now on your grades and what you're going to do with your life when you graduate. Girls right now would be a major distraction, and I speaketh from many many years of experience. If you wanted good solid Financial advice, who would you ask, Donald Trump or Jimmy at the local Quick Stop? Nick... in this area, I'm Donald Trump.
Get that education, bank that money, accomplish your goals and believe me when I tell you that chicks will be NO problem. A man with a fat bank account is MUCH more attractive than a man with an anorexic one. You get that nice bank account and HOT girls will be for yours for the picking & choosing. Trust me on this.
2007-03-18 18:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this straight, kid... you do not _need_ a girlfriend at 16, or at any age. You _want_ one. Understanding the difference will help make you appealing to the opposite sex.
Best ways to get the girl of your choice interested:
1) Hygiene, hygiene, hygiene. Showers and shampoo are not optional, deoderant is not optional, and your nails should be neatly trimmed. That stuff matters to girls, even if it doesn't matter to you.
2) Fashion sense -- you don't have to look like the cover of GQ, but you should make an effort to dress well. Either be in style, or have a distinctive style that doesn't come of slobbish.
3) Your body is a temple -- 6-pack abs and "big guns" aren't required, but you should take care of yourself. Some girls like the pudgy teddy-bear look in their men, but most don't. By the same token, you shouldn't look as if you can't remember when your last meal was. Overweight and underweight are extremes to avoid if possible. Note that I'm not advocating starvation diets or binge eating -- what I do suggest is maintaining a healthy body weight.
4) Confidence -- I put this last because it's the most important one; if you only remember one of my points, remember this one. Girls respond strongly to confidence, and even more strongly to its lack. If you think you're pathetic, girls will, too. The reason that playas are irresistable is because they believe that they are (well, and because they pay attention to points 1-3 above). Like yourself, and it's only a matter of time before you find a girl who likes you just as much.
2007-03-18 18:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask!! Is there someone you have your eye on? You say you NEED a girlfriend....why need?
Okay, if there's someone you like...start off casual by saying 'wanna go for a coffee?' If she says no...then just say okay and it's no big deal....it was only a coffee after all...not a proper date you were asking for.
Then once you've been for a coffee and it goes well you can fix a real date.
Takes a bit of courage, I know....fear of rejection etc. but if you don't ask...you generally don't get!
Good luck!
2007-03-18 18:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need one, but want one.
2007-03-18 18:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Hellomynameis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK ,A GIRL U LIKE, OUT!
2007-03-18 19:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋