Ok i kno ive asked alot involving my bf but im so hurt and confused right now and im so mad at both my dad and bf. for those who dont kno: im 17 and my bf is 20. i live wit jus me and my dad. my dad hates my bf because of fights we get into when my bf gets rough. and im not allowed to see him anymore....anyway i love my daddy and bf both alot. last night i went to my bfs house even though i wasnt allowed and talked wit my bf bout how im feeling and he basically said its him or my dad. im lik WHAT! so basically hes sayin i have to choose the love of my life or my daddy? then i come home this morning and my dad is waitin for me and starts questionin me and yellin and he was cryin and jus a whole big mess. im not used to this im used to bein daddys girl not fightin wit him. both of them wont listen and both of them dont seem to care bout wut i want...which is my bf and my dad jus gettin along. so wut do i do? i kno alot will say to stay wit my dad but u need to think of it from my view.
2007-03-18 11:33:17 · 3 answers · asked by Calista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it sounds like your bf is a little abusive. if this is the case then you should stay with your dad. if not then you have to think about where the relationship with your boyfriend is going. like do you see both of you guys together for ever? also think about how living with your boyfriend would affect other aspects of your life like school, and friendships. do you really want to lose someone that raised you? i think if you left your dad you would feel horrible. but if you left your boyfriend you might later regret it. i would personally stay with my dad because you are still young. if its meant to be then maybe latter i life you two will meet up again.
2007-03-18 11:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by no shenanigans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there may be a good reason dad dislikes the bf. you're only 17. it's dad's job to take care of you. if it's been that hard with the 2 of them maybe you should let go of the bf.he should know, that at 17, you can not and should not have to make that kind of desicion. you need your dad. really. i know you don't see it now but you will. i went through something similar at your age. the man of my dreams at 17. he went away and i swore i would never be happy again. less than a year later, i met the real man of my dreams and we've been together since. keep an open mind about this. try not to make it a power struggle. family comes first.
2007-03-18 11:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF treats you like crap. Ditch him. I know you say you love him, but love doesn't hurt like that. Really it doesn't. I'm not saying you choose your Dad, but do NOT choose your BF. Your BF is garbage, you know it, he knows it, your father knows it, and now WE know it.
2007-03-18 11:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋