Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

My closest cousin was supposed to get married in Feb. but her fiance called it off. I got engaged in early Feb and asked my cousin to be a bridesmaid in my wedding (at the time her wedding was still on) which is in June. She said she would, but since her wedding got called off she has been distant. Should I see if she still wants to be my bridesmaid or should I just let it go? I don't want to upset her.

2007-03-18 14:29:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Weddings

Funny, cute, or playful
just not the normal "oh, i luv you too"

2007-03-18 14:29:20 · 24 answers · asked by *rawr* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, here's the deal, we've been together almost 10 years, and it was just to the point neither of us was really happy anymore, well.. I had just gotten it through to my "heart" that the best thing to do was leave...and I found out I am preggers. I was sick of being ignored, and unappreciated, and had told him numerous times, to no avail... NOW, he's trying to be nice b/c of the baby.. WHAT DO I DO ??????
I am soooo confused. any ideas out there ???

2007-03-18 14:29:10 · 9 answers · asked by Miss B 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 19 months worries about everything when I drive anywhere or go anywhere......but he does not want me to worry about him...his health or anything like that driving etc...He has told me to let him do the worring ..that I need not worry my little head about those things...that is what he is for...??
Hello I thought when to people were in a serious relationship that bouth of you were allowed to worry about the other..right or wrong?? you decide....

2007-03-18 14:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by Ftprintz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 14:28:33 · 1 answers · asked by gcpattn4 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 14:28:16 · 11 answers · asked by mesmerized 5 in Singles & Dating

What should he do with her?
What if she's really pretty?

2007-03-18 14:27:34 · 21 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 and i've never had a bf : ( why?? pleez don't say i'm too young!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 14:27:32 · 15 answers · asked by hannah h 2 in Singles & Dating

What would give you a reason to tell people you never did anything with a girl, when in fact you actually did do something with her. Why would you deny it?

2007-03-18 14:27:25 · 4 answers · asked by bratttykat_2005 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, like I said, I'm 17, and my girlfriend is 13. And we have been talking for a while, and she wants to do stuff. Well, I'm worried, cause even though personally I think it's ok, I know the law doesn't see it the same way. I was just wanting to know what is the worst that can happen if we were to have sex? If anyone could help with this, I would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks alot

(and also, for those of you that are thinking, your 17, she is 13, your sick dude!....It isn't what you think, she is like rly mature, and she is basically grown, she started her female stuff in the 4th grade, so she is pretty much done growing....so plz, i don't want to here how im stupid, just help me out...)

2007-03-18 14:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

are you willing to live with your in laws forever? i'm living wit my hus's parents and 20 yr old sister. I understand he wanna help them out, he bought this mobile home, cars, take his parents and sis. to shopping. I spend my own money bcus i want him to save money. I really want to move out but he rejected. I can get any privacy here, his family involve in almost everything. I do love them and I told my husband you can help them in any way you want but as long we have our own family. Just leave everything for ur family and we rent a small apartment near them but he still said no. I do know he put his family on top. He still got hundreds buck in his wallet but still ask my money. All my financial comes from cash aid and foodstamps. He just spend $250 on his parents clothes but all i care is my own family.
thanx

2007-03-18 14:27:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he sits with me and my friends at lunch and we always laugh. he smiles at me all the time and i catch him staring at me cause we have the same classes. i like him but im way to shy to ask him out i dont know what to do cause i cant stop thinking about him and its driving me nuts. and my friend knows i like him and she is saying ask him out but i still dont know if he likes me and if i find out he does should i ask him out.

2007-03-18 14:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-18 14:26:34 · 14 answers · asked by mesmerized 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 14:25:50 · 26 answers · asked by SupergirlKK 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone asked you to describe what love is...what would you say?

2007-03-18 14:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by I_love_him 1 in Singles & Dating

Will terminating parental rights cause your child support obligations to cease?

This is just a question that I am curious to ask.

2007-03-18 14:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband works shift work. He rotates shifts evey week - days, midnights, evenings - and so on. I work straight days, but sometimes it's mon to fri and other weeks it's tues to sat. It feels as though we never see one another, when we do our bodies are on different clocks, we can't get anything done around the house because one or the other is sleeping or watching our daughter. He can't quit his job, and he doesn't want to. He enjoys it, he makes very good money, but it feels as though our relationship is suffering due to it. I would never want him to quit, I do appreciate how hard it is to change your sleeping habits every week. I just want to know how other people have made it work. Sometimes I feel like a single parent and we both get frustrated with our lack of communication due to not seeing each other very often.

2007-03-18 14:24:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf & i have been together almost a yr now, and we're pretty happy w/ each other (at least i think he is lol). but we're total opposites. he has a very strong personality & sometimes can be extremely difficult to deal with, yet i'm more laid back & not so in-your-face about everything. he's really athletic and is in2 a lot of sports, yet the last time i went running was 2 yrs ago lol, although i wouldn't mind playing sports w/ him. he's not really spiritual at all, but i definitely am (spiritual, but not religious). i'm very open with my thoughts & emotions and not afraid to express them, yet he stays bottled up inside until something critical happens. and i guess you could even say we're from different social classes, i grew up in the suburbs most of my life, he grew up poor. is it possible for us to have a really good, long-lasting relationship even though we're so different? my parents are the same way, except they hate each other, and i don't want end up like them.

2007-03-18 14:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay why do some couples claim they are in love and go crazy over each other and once they break up they claim they hated each other or they never really liked each other from the beginning? Why don't they just admit things went wrong?

2007-03-18 14:23:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad beats me up and my mom too. sometimes it gets really bad. i dont care if he beats me up i am used to it, but i dont want my mom to get hurt. i am scared if i call the police he will be locked up and my mom doesnt have a job we will be so poor, my dad brings home money. i dont know what to do i need help

2007-03-18 14:23:28 · 28 answers · asked by yay 1 in Family

okay so im recently not friends with this girl (used to be bestfriends) but we got in a couple stupid fights and were not friends anymore but since were not friends people started not liking her so anyway i called her (prank) and she hung up on me and then i called nack and i asked if my friend who was there earlier was still there and her mom called me and started yelling at me and called my mom and i got in trouble!!!urrgh what do i do about this i noe it sounds stupid

2007-03-18 14:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Friends

at guessing whether the guy likes me or not. In the past I mistakingly thought that the guys liked me, but it turned out that he liked one of my friends and I was a little bit hurt. This time, I liked one of the guys in my bussiness class. He is kind of shy. We did talk to each other, but not very often because I am a little shy too...Plus, we can't talk to each other in class... However, I have taken a step and I have asked him if he would like to go to eat lunch with me tomorrow and he said Yes... At this lunch time, I want to guess if he likes me or not. Are there signs that tell the guy likes me as a "girlfriend" not as a "normal friend". My question is: "When a guy likes a girl, what does he usually do or say?".

2007-03-18 14:22:22 · 1 answers · asked by yenhu 1 in Singles & Dating

my little girl made my day but its my 34th birthday 2 and my bf is being really horrible to me we av bin 2gethar 4 11yrs and e just sed e wan me to go we av ad few probs with him cheating in past but e takes drugs and es being horrid and hurtfull and im really upset i must be bloody stupid to put up with him. but i need cheering up coz im feeling really low.

2007-03-18 14:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by haze 2 in Friends

2007-03-18 14:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Family

We met in Minn. and move to FL within a year. Throughout the last 10 years, we seem to move back and forth every 2 years. I love the weather in florida, but all my family is back home. I come from a very close knit family. I am only 29 years old and I miss watching my nieces and nephews grow up. I want to start a family soon, but we cannot seem to agree on a place to live. We are both tired of moving back and forth, but it seems he is only happy in FL and I'm only happy in Minn. I don't know if I should stay to make my husband happy, move to make me happy or what my other options are. I have already missed so many little moments back home I wish I was there for. I fear if I go, it will be alone. I am scared to be without my husband and scared to start over. My mom says I am not getting any younger and I cannot keep moving back and forth. My family wants me home. He moves us down here and I move us up there. I don't think we can keep this up. Something has to give.

2007-03-18 14:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like not bieng sexual anyway

2007-03-18 14:20:49 · 12 answers · asked by jamesthehotcheeto 3 in Singles & Dating

If yes, provide evidence

2007-03-18 14:20:42 · 2 answers · asked by toastalchemist 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

More answers plz! I miss my boyfriend sooo much and it is so weird because i see him all the time like i just saw him today and already i am basically crying because i miss him so much...weve been together 8 months and it is hard for me to sleep when i he is not in bed with me i get so sad because i miss him! what is wrong with me what should i do!

2007-03-18 14:19:56 · 22 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Singles & Dating

usual ones: butt, eyes, chest...

2007-03-18 14:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who has a annoying sibling? Like they won't leave you alone no matter what, and etc.

2007-03-18 14:19:36 · 4 answers · asked by Briann M 2 in Family