Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Ok I hate myself! I am like the shiest person on earth. When I go to the movies and my friend goes to talk to abunch of girls and i follow him im like so shy my face turns red. When they say Hey i'm like what do i say back!

What can i do!?!?!?! please help me!

2007-03-18 13:58:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is feeling really bad because her mom spazzed at her. How should i comfort her. I'm 13 years old and don't give me the stupid answers because i am only 13!!!! years old.

2007-03-18 13:58:05 · 2 answers · asked by willy 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think??

2007-03-18 13:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by aeijae 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have such drama its unbelievable. i met this guy, and its just nobody ever looked at me like he did before and we have this conection. its been years and hes still here no mater how bad iv treated him. and for the longest time i thot he was the 1, i told him that i loved him and always would. but even though he is THE most important person in my life, i cant see him at all, then this other guy told me he liked me at first i didnt really like him but then i got to spend time with him everyday. were going out and i actually can see him. i think i love him now but i dont know. he yelled at me and blamed me today cuz we went to go see a play and my ex was there and last night he was at the mall with his friends when we showed up. i lied.i told him i didnt even like the guy and that we wernt frends nemore. ik they dont like eachother but all he did was say hi to me and he stays out of his way. my bf flipped. theyd kill eachother. so why is he jealous? who do i chose?

2007-03-18 13:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1 in Singles & Dating

ok it all started about a week ago when i was at a party for my friends 17th birthday, the ugliest smelliest fattest discrace from college was there (i think she was still a virgin) any ways my mates bet me £20 that i couldnt do the dirty with her anyways me being the stud i am used sheer charm and looks and blew her away anyways minutes later i was pumpin like a piston, so we finished up an went downstairs and i had the amazing idea of humiliating her the best i could by throwing her knickers around to everyone and grossing them out an then announcing to the whole party that she was a hore and i hammered her for a bet and that she was disgusting and i threw up afterwards, then all of a sudden she burst of crying an ran out the door now this was last saturday and all week she hasnt been to college and earlier on some one told me that she had overdosed earlier on in the week an she is in a bad condition in hospital, im starting to feel guity and dont know what to do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 13:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by bob z 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night was on a first date with this girl which went pretty well but when we went back to mine I had er 'stage fright' and was pretty lousy at sex. I was a bit disappointed with myself and this probably came across. I texted the girl this evening and made a jokey reference to it and asked her if she'd had a good time. She did get back and tell me she was fine although made no reference to last night. Not sure what she thinks as she did leave a kiss at the end.

Girls (and guys) where do you think I stand. Also, how the hell can I get better at sex in the meantime?!

2007-03-18 13:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by secondslip 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well know one understande i love him.. we started hanging out then he asked me out and that was the haoppiest day of my life. we were together for like 2 months but those were the best 2 months in my life.. then he dumped me for another girl i think....he said it felt right but idk..then he dumoped her and now he is hanging with me again. I LOVE HIM 2 PIECES and i dont know how he feels and i dont want to tall him :( I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM FOR 2 SENDONDS.

2007-03-18 13:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by katyrae 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and im 13... is that bad? were not doing anything wrong...just like hold hands and always are toegher and hug. i am going through a hard time in my life right now and i need some1 to lean on. do u think its okay for a 13 yr old to have a bf?

2007-03-18 13:56:32 · 15 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not qiuite sure if I should get my boy friend something for easter or not what do you think? If you think I should get him something what would you suggest? He is almost 17.

2007-03-18 13:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by clb <3 tjb 1 in Singles & Dating

i am pretty good in bed, but want a way to drive her out of her mind....

2007-03-18 13:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by ahen411 2 in Singles & Dating

If I'm working class and he's upper middle/upper class and at the same university and we're both educated, respectful and can relate to each other is this enough?

Its just that his friends have been making my life hell because they say I'm "common" and "weird" and won't stop trying to turn him against me and things have become unbearable.
Is it realistic to tell them to mind their own business for good or else with no excuses or should I cut my losses and run?

2007-03-18 13:55:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, i'll be starting work tomorrow after staying at home w/my 4 yr old daughter and 7 yr old son for about 8 months. I am feeling the jitters from starting a new job but mostly feeling a sadness b/c I know my daughter and I won't have those bonding long days together since she starts school in September and I start work tomorrow, those days are gone for good and I get a lump in my throat when I think about it. I'm gonna miss her sooo much, my son is 7 and in 1st grade so its going to be easier on him i think but i'll also miss being there for him when he comes home from school. I didn't expect to feel so gloomy and sad, any encouraging words or advice would really help me tonight so I can start my first day not an emotional wreck. Thanks to all.

2007-03-18 13:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this crush and he talks to me all the time but i dont know if he really really likes me but i like him what should i do to get him to like me!!!

2007-03-18 13:54:22 · 4 answers · asked by buddabelly369 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, i'll be starting work tomorrow after staying at home w/my 4 yr old daughter and 7 yr old son for about 8 months. I am feeling the jitters from starting a new job but mostly feeling a sadness b/c I know my daughter and I won't have those bonding long days together since she starts school in September and I start work tomorrow, those days are gone for good and I get a lump in my throat when I think about it. I'm gonna miss her sooo much, my son is 7 and in 1st grade so its going to be easier on him i think but i'll also miss being there for him when he comes home from school. I didn't expect to feel so gloomy and sad, any encouraging words or advice would really help me tonight so I can start my first day not an emotional wreck. Thanks to all.

2007-03-18 13:53:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i kno this isnt a question but u guys really set my head straight. my bf can either get his act together and treat me right or get outta my life. im a daddys gurl and thats the way its gonna stay. : ) thanks everyone and anyone else who wants to give me input u can answer my questions still

2007-03-18 13:53:13 · 2 answers · asked by Calista 1 in Family

2007-03-18 13:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After having completely open relationships...each can do whatever they want...sexually and come together as a couple, is there a chance for a strictly monogomous relationship, new and unbesmirched by the open relationship prior to. (Just wanted to see what others think...bare in mind, I hold no religious affiliation, so bible thumpers need not answer)...looking for the average Joe's and Josephine's thoughts!

2007-03-18 13:52:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anderson J 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband was very sick this week, he missed work starting Wednesday, and he never calls in. By Thurs night my daughter started getting a fever and I knew she was getting what he has. His mom offered to watch her during the day so I could still go to work, which I really appreciated. I knew my husband was staying home again but completely understood that he had no energy to watch our daughter.
His mom asked where he wanted her to watch my daughter, and he told her to take her to their house. Poor girl was so sick, all she wanted was to sleep and cuddle with mommy (who felt terrible about leaving her, but hubby doesn't have paid sick time, so one of us had to work), and be around her toys and bed and everything. He didn't even consider she would feel better at home his concern was him getting enough "rest" and that she'd want to see him if she was home with him. Is it wrong of me to feel as though he put himself before her needs?

2007-03-18 13:52:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you had the chance to go on a date with some one other then your wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend,,,should it be a movie star,singer,,who ever,,,what would you do to have the chance to go on a date with them?

2007-03-18 13:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is such a loving and caring person. But sometimes he tends to forget about my feelings and says things to hurt me. He's a very jealous person and little things we talk about can start a fight so quick. I'm a very stubborn person and so is he and neither one of us ever wanna admit to being wrong. I love him and want this to work out sooo bad. What can i do to make this work? Please help.

2007-03-18 13:51:23 · 1 answers · asked by I_love_him 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people claim that they are still friends after a broken marriage or relationship. I have known peole who has just separated from a long-time relationship, but that, they could not help throwing invectives at the mere mention of their ex's name.

2007-03-18 13:51:01 · 17 answers · asked by september 2 in Singles & Dating

We've just started dating (a few weeks now) and have been on several dates as well as just hanging out watching movies etc. He seems to be into me...asking me to go out or come over on the weekends and calling me during the week. He is considerate and thoughtful and sincerely interested in my life. (As I am with his too) However, he seems to be scared of getting close to me. The first couple times we hung out he wouldn't even sit next to me on the couch. Now he will but he won't touch me (won't sit close or hold my hand or anything) Last time we watched a movie I leaned my head on his shoulder but he had no reaction. I don't understand it! He seems to like me and want to be around me but then he won't do anything. I'm afraid if I make a move it will scare him away. Any thoughts?

2007-03-18 13:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by duchess7111 3 in Singles & Dating

I told my Friend that I had sex with a boy and she asked him about it (which she said she wouldn't) and he totally denied it. She asked me again when I was really wasted if I was lying and I told her no, not knowing what was going on at the time when she asked me and some one else told me the next day what went down, so I confronted her about it and she said she did not know who to believe me her best friend or the boy. Now she is dating the boy. Do you think I should stay her friend?

2007-03-18 13:50:35 · 6 answers · asked by bratttykat_2005 2 in Friends

still need to dress up all girly? I am going to a wedding next month and I by nature do not wear girly things, I am more of a plain jane, a simple pair of jeans, or capris suit me just fine..So, what to wear, and if this helps I am in California..So the weather is fairly mild/warm & the wedding is outdoors...

2007-03-18 13:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Weddings

2007-03-18 13:49:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this girl for quite a few months now and she says she's in love with me. The problem is she's married. She says she wants to leave him and come to me. What should I do?

2007-03-18 13:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and i think he likes me because he smlies at me and he always talks to me and tells me secrets that no one else knows. we always hangout and we went out before but a rumor stopped us. but he is going out with another girl. and i really do think he likes me, all my friends say he always talks about me and likes me still but then what is he doing?
can anyone help me please?

2007-03-18 13:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by J a c k i e. 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend??? i want to break up with him but i dont know how to do it. i don't want to be mean. but i want it to be over

2007-03-18 13:48:31 · 25 answers · asked by tamara5646 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She filed for divorce 3 months ago but didn't see it thru because he cried and begged, saying he wanted to keep his 14 year marriage with a 7year old and 11 year old daughter, intact. He started being attentive and trying to change the behaviors and probable cheating. When she annonced 3 months later of the pregnancy he reverted back to all his old ways of being distant, uncommunicative, and too 'busy' to go to doctor appointments. He said he feels she was trying to trap him which makes no sense given they are already married with 2 kids. What the deal?

2007-03-18 13:47:57 · 9 answers · asked by Meems 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 13:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating