Ok I hate myself! I am like the shiest person on earth. When I go to the movies and my friend goes to talk to abunch of girls and i follow him im like so shy my face turns red. When they say Hey i'm like what do i say back!
What can i do!?!?!?! please help me!
2007-03-18 13:58:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to calm down first, and realize that when someone says hi, you say hi, don't be afraid to be yourself, just think, they will tink you are worse if you sit there saying nothing then if you say something, even if it's not what you wanted to say, heck maybe they will think you are funny, and joke around with you. and don't worry, if things don't go well, you don't have to see those people again, if things go well, maybe you will get to hang out again some time. but things can't go well if you don't speak up.
so just don't worry, relax, just think about the situation from a different point of view, try to look at it as if you were someone else, and you will see that its easy to say hi.
if you need help with social skills, try getting involved in drama at your school, even if you aren't on stage you can help with crew work, and everyone is always friendly and it really helps to open you up. or get invovled in some activities somewhere, anywhere where you are going to be with people, it will help you get used to the idea of new faces all the time.
i hope this helped at least a little, tell me how it goes the next time.
2007-03-18 14:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. I use to be a really shy person also. Just make small talk with the girls. Say I'm fine (or good) how are? Then if they get into detail about their day keep eye contact with them and try to relate to their day. Or you can talk about some new movies that are coming out, to see what type of things interest the girls.
2007-03-18 14:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
secret is, all girls think a shy guy is cute, but sometimes you gotta just know that your a great person and if you just open up people are probably going to notice you more, dont be so down on yourself, i used to be very shy and ever since i started finding mroe confidence, i date a lot
2007-03-18 14:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by MariPari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, the only way to cure that is to practice, practice, practice. You have to make your self talk and go out more and socialize. Before you know it, talking to ppl will be like second nature to u, and u will not feel shy anymore.
2007-03-18 14:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by linda l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gain some confindence!Start talking more to different people i t might help you can the confindence you need!theres nothing wrong with you.I l ike guys who are shy
2007-03-18 15:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by $**Cutie pie**$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just overly shy like I am. xD
There's nothing much to do really. Just get used to the fact that you're a shy person.
2007-03-18 14:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Smack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confidence will come with time. Besides a lot of women find shy men intriguing.
2007-03-18 14:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have no self-councious do what you feel go with the flow leave everthing behind get a friend who is a girl and talk to her hang out its something that if you wait will only get worse
2007-03-18 14:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gain confidence in yourself.
Just say Hey back and take it from there.It's easier than you think once you get started.Just be yourself and don't try to be anything else.You are who you are.
Try it.........you may find it works.
2007-03-18 14:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hey back ... then just go from there its easy to tell if a girl is interested so just go with the flow
2007-03-18 14:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋