Last night was on a first date with this girl which went pretty well but when we went back to mine I had er 'stage fright' and was pretty lousy at sex. I was a bit disappointed with myself and this probably came across. I texted the girl this evening and made a jokey reference to it and asked her if she'd had a good time. She did get back and tell me she was fine although made no reference to last night. Not sure what she thinks as she did leave a kiss at the end.
Girls (and guys) where do you think I stand. Also, how the hell can I get better at sex in the meantime?!
2007-03-18 13:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by secondslip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like things are still going well with her - she got back to you which she probably wouldn't have if she didn't want to see you again.
if you keep thinking about the sex thing then you're going to get all hung up on it and you're not going to have a very succesful relationship. next time take your time with things - maybe let her take the lead. it might help to get to know her better first.
best wishes with it x
2007-03-19 11:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you stand pretty good from my point of view. I'm 16, and haven't even had my first kiss yet, so you're better off than I am. As for the sex part, give it another go, you probably won't be as nervous as before. I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin, but that's my advice.
2007-03-18 14:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to relax more and don't think about your performance.
2007-03-18 14:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋