I've been talking to this girl for quite a few months now and she says she's in love with me. The problem is she's married. She says she wants to leave him and come to me. What should I do?
2007-03-18 13:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't do it if I were you. That's a dangerous thing. Good Luck if you decide to do it.
2007-03-18 13:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not guilty of leading this poor married girl on are ya? Is she thinking the grass is way greener in your back yard? I would be totally up front with her. Tell her your not into breaking up marriages, and want no part of it. If her marriage is in trouble, you feel her and her husband needs to seek help. That having an affair or another relationship is not the answer. You do realize being a friend to someone is great, but when they are married and start to look for you to be their guardian angel, instead of who they are married too, it's time for you to back off. You would want this if it were your wife talking to another man about your marriage!
2007-03-18 20:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run away. Do not get involved with a woman who is married. Even if she divorces her husband, who's to say she wouldn't do the same thing if she married you?
Marriage is supposed to be about making a lifelong commitment. People only stay married until they want to back out of that "lifelong" commitment anymore.
2007-03-18 20:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by new_friends_gr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone point blank. If she's married, then you are a replacement or fill-in for whatever her husband doesn't do.
You are the clean up man, but don't sell yourself short, you deserve someone who wants you to be in the lead role of her life, not the understudy
2007-03-18 20:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stay away from her. She seems very fickle. How will you ever know that once she's left her husband for you, she's not with some other guy at the same time she's filling your head with sweet nothings about her undying love for you. She just cannot be trusted at this point, not unless she seeks some serious counselling. :)
2007-03-18 20:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, like she said, run, reallllllll fast, ok, maybe it's you, or maybe it's her, that just doesn't get what marriage is, but no matter, it's wrong, and if she leaves him, and comes to you, who's to say she's staying with you? Exactly, meet someone single, and nice. Plenty of people right on here.
2007-03-18 21:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run as fast as your can. Married women are nothing but trouble. With all of the available leg out there for the taking, you don't need this headache.
2007-03-18 20:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Disco Mudda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to realize she has a marriage and you can't come between her and that. she can't be totally in love with you if you've only talked a few months. but, don't let yourself get dragged into this it could end up really bad with you and her husband.
2007-03-18 20:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it's not at all flattering, you don't want the same kind of "love" she gave her husband. And that some men have a code of honor. And one of those things is "Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife."
Oops, forgot to ask; you are talking to her why? Yeah, right, you just have a kind heart and like a big brother wanna help her with her marriage problems?? Who the f are you trying to bullsh it? What, you're looking for a pat on the back for not screwing somebody else's wife? Oh please, I was just trying to help, not my fault she fell in love? Yeah right jerk, like you couldn't prevent that. DUH. Who u tryin to bullsh it??
2007-03-18 21:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by amiaskan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she leaves to persue it. If she cheats on her married man she will cheat on you. You never want to atart off a relationship on a bad note.
2007-03-18 20:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by blondieT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run very fast because she told her husband the same thing , she's incapable of loving someone truly and committing to it.
2007-03-18 20:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by Straight-Up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋