More answers plz! I miss my boyfriend sooo much and it is so weird because i see him all the time like i just saw him today and already i am basically crying because i miss him so much...weve been together 8 months and it is hard for me to sleep when i he is not in bed with me i get so sad because i miss him! what is wrong with me what should i do!
2007-03-18 14:19:56 · 22 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To clarify..no we did not break up we are still together i dont miss him because he broke up with him i just plain old miss him!! :(
2007-03-18 14:24:49 · update #1
you're just really attached, and yeah, I've been through this. it's not a bad thing, it just means you are very much in love. You'll learn to be more independent as the relationship goes on, but for now, just wait this time out and enjoy the time you do get to have together. Keep your mind on other things while he's away. Like, I would go on runs and do pilates if I missed him a lot, or go hang out with my other friends. Don't let the sadness drown you, because that's not good for anyone! Do fun things to keep him off your mind when he's away, and have a great time with him when he's with you.
2007-03-18 14:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You need to stop obsessing over him! You saw him today yet you can't stand to be apart from him? Do you know how many spouses of soldiers are on this site? Do you know how immature that sounds? Get a hobby! Your boyfriend SHOULD NOT BE YOUR LIFE! You should enjoy being with him, but he is not and should not be the end all, be all.
2) You're very dependent on his being there. How you're made it 8 months is beyond me. Try this: go for a walk. Take a bath. Read a book. You should be able to live a life without having your boyfriend by your side all the time! It's called DEPENDENCE and it's not exactly a GOOD thing to have a in a relationship. You're going to drive your b/f crazy if you keep it up.
2007-03-18 21:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow calm down. You should realize that you don't need him. There are plenty of guys that could love you just as much or even more. Yes you have to go out there again and poscibaly end up loosing another guy, but you will find someone. It is not wise to want that witch you cannot have, but that is why you want it. Change can be scarry but it is the most important part of life. Look forward to what new adventures and people you will be able to meet. Don't worry about having something now, because you can't do anything about now. Don't try to fix what cannot be fixed you just have to know when to move on.
2007-03-18 21:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are getting a little too attached. why don't you try spending a week without him and see how you do? listen, if he breaks up with you you will be a mess, or if he has to go on a trip without you, same: you'll be a mess. no offense at all meant, its just you really need to be independent a little bit at least, so like i said a week. no calls, no pictures of him, no talking to him.. if a week is too extreme try a day and work up to a week. if you still can't do it, i'd consider taking a break from the guy... the worst thing i can think of is he might not be as attached to you as you are to him and you'll end up getting hurt...
good luck!
2007-03-18 21:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a similar situation.
I was dating this guy and it was sort of a long distance thing, not far, maybe 45 minutes but we never saw each other.
But when I would go to his house for the weekend, the night i got back, I would cry myself to sleep because I missed him soo much. I just gave it time and i got used to it.
2007-03-18 21:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 month relationship !! That is nothing try getting over a 3 year relationship. Over time things get better. Especially when you go out and start seeing other people. Stay close to your friends and everything will be fine.
2007-03-18 21:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you miss him too much. Try to let go a little and maybe occupy your time with work or something. It will help in the long run. You have to make changes to your lifestyle perhaps and then you would not miss him so much.
2007-03-18 21:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just way too clingy. You need to be with him basically, all the time. You need to find some things to do for yourself instead of thinking about him all the time.
2007-03-18 21:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious that you love him, and it's going to take some time to get over him. You and your girl and/or guy friends should go hang out. Go to a movie (a comical), or goclubbing, or go to dinner with your friends. That's what I would do, because my friends always seem to brighten my mood.
2007-03-18 21:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He goes to bed with you! wow. I think you just miss the sex.
2007-03-18 21:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by nickysantor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋