my bf & i have been together almost a yr now, and we're pretty happy w/ each other (at least i think he is lol). but we're total opposites. he has a very strong personality & sometimes can be extremely difficult to deal with, yet i'm more laid back & not so in-your-face about everything. he's really athletic and is in2 a lot of sports, yet the last time i went running was 2 yrs ago lol, although i wouldn't mind playing sports w/ him. he's not really spiritual at all, but i definitely am (spiritual, but not religious). i'm very open with my thoughts & emotions and not afraid to express them, yet he stays bottled up inside until something critical happens. and i guess you could even say we're from different social classes, i grew up in the suburbs most of my life, he grew up poor. is it possible for us to have a really good, long-lasting relationship even though we're so different? my parents are the same way, except they hate each other, and i don't want end up like them.
2007-03-18 14:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it a good thing you both are different. you can teach each other things. i have the same thing with my bf. i have been with him for over 2 years. pretty almost everything you just said. lol. i know what you are going through. and yes ir is hard to deal with. believe me i know. my bf is a pain something but thats what i love about him. he is everything i am afraid to be. and i am everything he is afraid to be. it will all work out in the end.
good luck
2007-03-18 14:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Opposites attract...
2007-03-18 21:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have just described my relationship with my husband. (We don't hate each other, either)
2007-03-18 21:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah i think so
2007-03-18 21:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by a 1 girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋