my mum and dad have never been on good relations. their personalities cannot be more different. recently, my mum suggested to me that the best thing may be a divorce. for me, it may be better as i am under constant pressure when my parents argue.
however, the thing i am worried about is my dad. he really cares about mum, even though mum never returns the favor. my mum is also quite stubborn, so she never listens when i point these qualities of dad out. what if, after the divorce, my dad cannot take it? i have heard of people drinking all day long, go into depression or even suicide. i cannot imagine if that happens to be my dad. no matter what, i still care about him.
sometimes, to avoid all these, i go into a state where i do not show any emotions whatsoever. but a trip to a childhood place with my dad recently have made me realised that he is a good father, even though he might not make a good husband, and i felt guilty because i cannot help him in any way.
what can i do?
2007-03-17
17:31:44
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Marriage & Divorce