2007-03-17 17:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he loves you back?... If not, or he's married you should walk away and get on with your life....remember why it didn't work out before...
If you think he does and you are both single, maybe you should pursue him and let him know how you feel, but don't expect anything or you may end up getting your feelings hurt...
If you don't know if he loves you and you are both single, tell him how you feel and listen to what he has to say, if anything.
Just make up your mind though before you do anything... You want him or you don't!
2007-03-17 17:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I kinda know.. b/c I'm still married and haven't been with him for a year. So, I think that you'll always love the man that you first married no matter what. Though you may never get back with him you'll always love him. Get used to loving him because obviously he had and still has a at least a little of your heart space. So, if you are married again then you found someone else to love you more or the way you need now. If you don't feel that and you feel that you ran from your first husband then good luck b/c I know how it is to run from someone too quick and wish you hadn't but live with what you have today b/c tomorrow you might have rushed away something great. Try not to live for yesterday b/c yesterday's chance is gone and be thankful for what you have now and know that the prior man still has his place in your heart just not the main part of your heart which should be with the person that you are with now.
2007-03-18 00:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Deanna M9903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, I am sure he has, and why go there again, you have already been there and it didn't work out, you are probably only in love with the way you wish your first husband would have been.
2007-03-18 00:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he still has some feelings hidden away for you too.The problem is the hurt and pain of a divorce or things that caused the separation will be a reminder that keeps popping up. I still have feelings for my ex wife and she has them for me to but because of what she did it makes it impossible to act on it.
2007-03-18 00:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept that sometimes thats the way it is if you are remarried and or he is remarried you just have to leave it that way.if you were together for a long time or you have children together you will always have love for him, but if you broke up there were reasons.sorry about your luck but sometimes you just gotta let it go.you are the only one who knows the truth if you can i wish you luck.if its a losing game move on .
2007-03-18 00:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on getting over it...
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love.
2007-03-18 00:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that there is a reason why things ended. You can love someone and not be with them.
The best thing to do is occupy yourself and meet someone new!
2007-03-18 00:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fantasizing about the good times you had which were not good enough to keep you together, and focus on building a future with someone else.
2007-03-18 00:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Chi Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you have remarried try and talk to talk to him and see if there is any chance of reconciliation. If there is no chance of that perhaps counselling would help you move on.
2007-03-18 00:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dianne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't marry someone else and begin that marriage with a lie.
2007-03-18 04:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋